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Suleiman -> RE: Doing something special for your Dom/Domme? (10/9/2004 10:30:08 PM)
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Well, okay... I've always been a bit of a romantic. So far as "Special Things" I do to get someone's attention, whether I'm courting them or currently involved, I'm rather fond of the old classics. Leaving them a gift or note in an unexpected place - preferably some place that leaves them wondering how you got it there. Keep in mind, this leaves you dancing on the ragged edge of "scary stalker", since it does involve things like sneaking into their office or apartment while they're away. Make sure such intrusions are welcome or they'll call the cops on you.
Serenading is nice, tho it does tend to get the neighbors to throw stuff
Flowers are always good, and can be used in a variety of ways. A bouquet at the office, flower petals strewn on the bed, a flower of the same sort clutched impishly between your teeth as you deliver your best come-hither look... I once constructed a steel rose from a plastic flower (spraypainted gunmetal) and some barbed wire and used it (along with a keychain whip and some miniature thumb cuffs) to decorate a package that I left on somebody's doorstep
Never underestimate the value of home made chocolates. If you have a microwave oven, you can melt chocolate without burning it and pour it into molds. Customs molds are easy to make - you can use gelatine (use very little water so that it's got the consistancy of a "knox block") to make a negative mold of something, and then pour chocolate into the cavity to make a fairly detailed replica. The effort almost never fails to impress.
If you have a photogenic body (which, alas, I do not) boudoire photos are always nice, and with modern digital technology you can put them in some truly unexpected places.
Teddy bears or other similar items make lovely "avatars". They're cute enough to leave on a desk without making folks too suspicious, and they're nicely symbolic of how you'd like to be viewed (or how you view the person you're courting). You can get "harley davidson" bears (or some other similar commercial property) wearing the classic leather uniform, and then easily dress them up with a few "toys".
Spontenaity is never a bad thing. Come up with something spur of the moment. It can be sweet, it can be kinky, but some times an outrageous display of affection is the most effective means of getting someone's attention. Play to your strengths and to whatever you may know about their particular tastes. For example - I'm not much of a crossdresser, but the missus has a real thing for sissyboys. I got her attention by showing up at a new years eve party that I knew she'd be attending, in as close to full drag as I could manage on the spur of the moment. She never left my side until the next afternoon [;)]. Obviously, that particular trick probably won't work so well for you, but it's an example of how someone's kink can be used against them. The missus still melts when I show up in a skirt and high heels (now if only I didn't look like I was nine months pregnant... oh well... diet and exercise, diet and exercise)
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