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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 9:37:22 AM   
strangedesire


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Status: offline 		If I had a small company, and I wanted it to be taken over by a bigger company, I'd do my best to get its assets in order and assure prospective owners that acquiring it would be beneficial for the buyer. What do you have? A strong brand? A compelling idea? Without those you may need serious financial backing.

If you really are an expert in bondage - as in, skilled, competent, and knowledgeable, not as in "I know how to let someone else tie me up" - then you probably don't want to weaken that by listing yourself as an expert in blindfolds as well. Unless you have a really specialized skill set, blindfolds don't lend themselves to expertise.


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 2:29:01 PM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 


You should have read the TOS. Collarme is a subsidiary of Troll Enterprises.Lemme c/p some stuff for you hat will make your quest eaiser:

All /s types are owned by FukinTroll.
All D types lease, not to own, their /s' from FukinTroll
Any and all issues regarding your do-me list being neglected will be addressed by Troll Enterprises based on a dollar amount = to your need for the do-me desire.

That's about all that is relevant to you.
YMMV

*Troll enterprises accepts checks, traveler checks, cash, food stamps, 18+ yo daughters of comely nature, cars, houses, yachts... pretty much anything of value. Void where prohibited, coming to a bridge near you.




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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 2:51:53 PM   
BurntKitty


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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll


All /s types are owned by FukinTroll.



That made me wet.

Just sayin'.

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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 3:08:44 PM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty


quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll


All /s types are owned by FukinTroll.



That made me wet.

Just sayin'.


That made me drool.

Just sayin.

SLURP~


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RE: complete surrender? - 2/27/2011 4:26:33 PM   
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It is nice to see you this morning Stella. You've brought a smile to my face, as I sit here, with a dog on either side of me and one curled into my lap.

...and are any of them licking their genitals?

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RE: complete surrender? - 3/2/2011 8:32:22 PM   
masterofCDs


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Status: offline 		Ok, ignoring the fact that the vast majority of posters on this site are cliquey and "troll"like, you have missed one massively important thing.

Stop thinking about the person you want to be in a relationship as a dom/domme or a submissive/slave, and think about them as a person who you would like to be a relationship with. When you're in a realtionship the other stuff. If not, don't expect some guaranteed submissive happiness.

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RE: complete surrender? - 3/2/2011 8:57:40 PM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		Oh My, there have been some fun answers on this thread, Arpig and stella especially! Side note - stella it's GREAT to see you posting again, I've missed you!

OP, let Me join the ranks of those saying you're going about it ass-backward. It's so unlikely you will attract a genuine lifestyle Domme with the 'it's all about me' attitude that you are displaying. Think about what you appear to be offering. you say that you want Her to have complete take over ... except, as pyro so astutely pointed out, of your wallet. Leaving that aside, what does that actually mean to you? Is She to tell you what time to get up, what clothes to wear, when you are allowed to pee, how long to spend brushing your teeth, what you are allowed to eat for breakfast, when you are to leave to go to work, how you should get to work, what to eat at lunch, when and how you are to travel home, what you should buy on the way home for dinner, precisely how you should do the laundry when you get home, what colour pegs She wants it pegged out with so it can dry next day, what to cook for dinner and exactly how She wants it cooked, how you should serve it, what plates She likes it served on, what cutlery is Her favourite, where She wants you to sit/kneel/stand whilst She is eating, whether you should have cooked enough for you as well or not, whether you're even going to be allowed dinner, when you should phone your mother, what TV you are allowed to watch, when you should do exercise, when you should get your ass spanked, when you are allowed to use the computer, when to go to bed ... 24/7/365?? In which case, She is buying into a MASSIVE amount of work and for what benefit???

Sorry but it's thanks but no thanks! Most lifestyle Dominas here like real men who can think for themselves, who can be self-actuating, intelligent, loyal, good communicators ... who choose to bend their will to that of their Dominant. These are the subs that make Our lives easier and better ... and gives Us the free time to play with them to mutual benefit! Sure She may CHOOSE to do some of these things ... but She shouldn't HAVE to do them all, all the time, because you are incapable or unwilling!

Think it through much more carefully OP, especially think about 'what's in it for Her? Why should She be interested in choosing me?' and you might get a bit further!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: complete surrender? - 3/2/2011 9:38:04 PM   
pyroaquatic


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ORIGINAL: masterofCDs

Ok, ignoring the fact that the vast majority of posters on this site are cliquey and "troll"like, you have missed one massively important thing.

Stop thinking about the person you want to be in a relationship as a dom/domme or a submissive/slave, and think about them as a person who you would like to be a relationship with. When you're in a realtionship the other stuff. If not, don't expect some guaranteed submissive happiness.


Good Point.

In addition to the defense of the cliquey: You need strength in numbers to deal with the vast majority of crap that people are inundated with each day.

he said complete surrender as in no exceptions. he made one. that is not completely surrendering.

Semantics and all of that.


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RE: complete surrender? - 3/2/2011 10:15:28 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll


All /s types are owned by FukinTroll.


Not in Australia china. By law all bridges are owned and controlled by the Bunyips and there are nasty Anti_Troll laws here too.... Now I could get you a hot deal on the Sydney Opera House..

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RE: complete surrender? - 3/3/2011 12:23:52 AM   
Awareness


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ORIGINAL: iambad69

What I am seeking is a complete taking over of my entire being by a strong Dominant Woman. Is this possible? Yes. But it seems there is no real Dominant who wants to take over the mind of a submissive without making it into a paying 'session'. In other words, just a commercial enterprise, instead of a real desire to posses. Are there no strong female Dominants out there who desire to take over a submissive being, just for the sheer desire? 
  Y'know, I think this is where you guys completely trip yourself up.

I have little association with Dommes, but the little exposure I do have suggests they get a rush from Domming a powerful man, not some weak-kneed gimp with no backbone.

Instead, you guys come along and toss your submission at any woman who wants it.  Seriously, what the flying fuck do you think you actually have to offer?  It's not like they have to actually DO anything.  You're like a lit cigarette butt lying in the street which they're free to pick up, take a drag from and toss away - except nobody with any class will smoke a cigarette butt unless they're desperate.

In short, you fundamentally fail to give them something to conquer.

Now I'm sure one of the usual suspects will exclaim in righteous indignation about how I wouldn't have the faintest - but frankly, based upon the reactions I see, any Domme who actually responds to you is doing so for money simply because THEY are doing you a favour.

You're not doing shit for them dude.

Here's an idea, totally out of left field, for all you sub dudes to consider.

Being submissive doesn't necessarily mean being weak.  I think the problem is that you guys are totally confusing the two and that's where you're fucking up.  Hell, take a look at sub chicks on here and how they interact with men.  Sure, there's a supply and demand thing at work as well, but frankly, their attitude is totally different to yours.  Their submission is not something they toss out into the ring unless they're desperate.

Instead, it's something a man acquires when he conquers them.  I don't buy into any of this "submission is a gift" bullshit.  Submission occurs as a practically autonomous response to a dominant male with a strong sense of his own reality.  In extreme cases it occurs even though the sub's conscious mind is screaming at her to run away from the red flags it's spotted.

Now I have no idea how it should work for sub dudes because frankly the concept is alien to me.  But I'm betting that for desirable sub men, it's not too far removed from a similar reality.  So the keys to getting what you want are:

1)  Stop being weak.
2)  Be awesome.
3)  Make your submission a prize, not a gift.

Oh, and if your only interest is to cum while a dominant woman beats or humiliates you, then you're just a bottom looking for some tart to top you on command.  Go pay for it.


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RE: complete surrender? - 3/3/2011 4:47:37 AM   
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Ok, ignoring the fact that the vast majority of posters on this site are cliquey and "troll"like,


You joined 3 days ago and already whining about the posters. What a wonderful 1st post

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RE: complete surrender? - 3/4/2011 1:47:48 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		It ain't all that easy for some to find that one person that suits them... just battle on
i think it helps if you are a good cook
and are excellent at giving a foot massage
good luck

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