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A little nervous... - 2/27/2011 10:08:12 PM

IfYouPlease

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I must admit that I have been a lurker for quite awhile but finally got the nerve to create a profile. I am a natural submissive with "kink" tastes, yet married to a man (who I love) with vanilla tastes. He recently has begun to steer towards my preferences in small ways...he just can't get over the feeling that he would be causing me pain even though he knows I enjoy it. I decided to join to get some more info that might help us meet in the middle.

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RE: A little nervous... - 2/27/2011 10:13:08 PM

SylvereApLeanan

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You might find it helpful to pick up a copy of the book When Someone You Love Is Kinky and read it together. Then you can talk together about your desires so he can work through his hesitation. Best of luck!

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RE: A little nervous... - 2/27/2011 10:31:19 PM

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Welcome!

Maybe if you attended some local groups, he'd get more comfortable with the idea of Domming you.

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RE: A little nervous... - 2/27/2011 11:28:33 PM

Delilya

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Best of luck

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RE: A little nervous... - 2/28/2011 5:05:07 AM

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Hope it works out for you!

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RE: A little nervous... - 3/1/2011 4:04:49 AM

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Welcome to the boards. May things work out well for both of you.

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RE: A little nervous... - 3/1/2011 7:16:10 AM

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Welcome To the Party of CM

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RE: A little nervous... - 3/3/2011 7:05:24 PM

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Welcome to CM and hope you find the information that works for you both.

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