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stellauk -> RE: Are you a paying piggy? (2/28/2011 11:59:00 AM)
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I'm not looking at your profile. It's your personal space, and who am I to judge you for the human being you are? I don't know you.
That saying, I don't have to see your profile to understand the problem, because you brought it to the message boards.
Let's get a little philosophical here right? This thread is your life. Let's assume that just after you get to the last words of this posting you get a pain in your chest, it expands, you struggle to breathe, have a heart attack, and drop dead. Just like that.
Think about that, and go back and reread all what you have posted here. That is what you are leaving behind. Furthermore, if reincarnation exists, that is also what you're taking with you into the Afterlife. Misery.
Life is short. VERY short. In fact, nobody knows just how short.
You have a mind, yes? You have control of your mind, yes? You'd hate to have someone dictate to you what to think and feel.
It's the same deal with life. This is YOUR life. Either you determine what happens in it, or you allow other people to determine what happens in it.
You always have that choice.
Your life is all about the relationships you share in it, and the decisions you make. You're not going to get a ready made relationship with a woman coming at you from this website anyway. Nobody does. But see this is what so many people expect when they come to this site. This is what the war on the other side is all about.
It's the expectations which cause problems when you are in a relationship. When you're not in a relationship the expectations can prevent you from being in one.
What does it matter what other people are doing? Do they care about you? No? So why are you caring so much about them?
Life is short, life is about relationships. Look for the people who matter and live your life sharing it with them. The rest don't matter.
The other thing looking for a relationship and looking in terms of the big picture will keep you from finding one. You end up living in the future and having expectations. Before you think of a relationship you need to find someone to have a relationship with. That might take friendship. You don't have that person, so in reality all you are looking for are opportunities to have contact with someone, yes?
The other thing is (and no, I didn't bother to see the photo), BDSM isn't about pricks and pussies, it's about human minds and how they are used. Stiffies are just a bonus.
You have control of your mind, there in your brain. Don't let other parts of your body control your mind. There's no need.
It's your mind, your life, you have ideas, you're the creative one, right? Is complaining about other people the best you can do?
I don't know you, but I doubt it. Think about that.
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