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losing your imagination - 2/28/2011 4:27:44 PM   
andreaC


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Status: offline 		i would like to know if it ever happened to you to lose your kinky imagination.  Lately, i cant seem to imagine and that is usually not me.

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RE: losing your imagination - 2/28/2011 4:58:28 PM   
petmonkey


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Status: offline 		Yes, i usually read erotica to spark it again and was patient with myself.  Usually, it was connected to a loss of libido, either because of something physical or because of something psychological. If it lasted a notable length of time or was worrying me to distraction, i visited a Doctor, discussed it and found a solution.


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RE: losing your imagination - 2/28/2011 6:43:06 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I lost my imagination years ago but then again I'm not extremely kinky and my fantasies are basic and simple. I leave the imaginative stuff to Master and don't concern myself about it.

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RE: losing your imagination - 2/28/2011 8:04:23 PM   
Kaliko


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Status: offline 		I've gone through some dry phases, yes, because in my head, I've done all the weird sh*t I can think of and can't think of something to top it. It eventually picks back up again. Literotica is nice bedtime reading when I have nothing interesting of my own going on in my head. Like anything you might find on the Internet, sometimes just a sentence from there can set me off in a whole new direction of fantasies. A couple of glasses of wine and a good vibrator usually help, too.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/1/2011 6:40:19 AM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I have no problem with this, so I am no help at all.
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Course I watch/read tons of twisted fucking porn and I have the sorta mind that takes an idea and runsrunsruns with it, so I never have a shortage of unsatiated desires running rampant.


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RE: losing your imagination - 3/1/2011 7:17:15 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		read erotica together, watch porn together, chat with others about their fantasies and see if any of them interest you -- wank fodder isn't ALWAYS bad.
everyone gets a block every now and again; i bet even stephen king gets writer's block sometimes. =p of course, don't stress yourself out about dreaming up something new and exciting and unheard of every time. =p that's a little unrealistic. things can be special even if they aren't wholly unique.


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RE: losing your imagination - 3/1/2011 6:27:54 PM   
sweetsub1957


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Status: offline 		Normally I have a very wild and vivid imagination. If I ever do lose it, between the stuff I read on collarme, www.literotica.com, and that "F site which CM will not allow to be named," I should get it back on track before long.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/1/2011 7:20:43 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		i dont think i have ever lost my imagination but i may have been stressed and not able to relax enough to think on the subject im much more able to think about kinky things or find new ways to pervert things

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/2/2011 2:25:30 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Dang. Based on these posts, I'm as exciting as wonder white bread.

A bit of abstinence can whet the appetite. Just a thought.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/2/2011 8:47:28 PM   
sweetsub1957


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Dang. Based on these posts, I'm as exciting as wonder white bread.

A bit of abstinence can whet the appetite. Just a thought.

best,
sunshine the crumb.

hahaha Oh, but sometimes wonder bread is the bestest ever! It makes great PB & J sandwiches!

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/3/2011 7:20:09 PM   
andreaC


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Status: offline 		thank you all for your replies :) i hope i will get it back, my imagination kept me alive :)

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/5/2011 10:47:25 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I lost my vanilla imagination years ago.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/5/2011 11:08:01 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Stupid question - since you're owned, isn't your Master the one who needs to have the imagination?  Not that it's a bad thing in an s type, but isn't that a bit like a doctor's patient complaining that he doesn't know much about medicine?

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/5/2011 11:48:17 AM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Stupid question - since you're owned, isn't your Master the one who needs to have the imagination?  Not that it's a bad thing in an s type, but isn't that a bit like a doctor's patient complaining that he doesn't know much about medicine?


Directed at me???
If so....he is very imaginative. He is also very open to hearing what runs through my head.
Some days are purely for his pleasure. Some mine. Some a combo of both.
It all boils down to what he wants and that always gives me great pleasure.
I'm lucky in that what he wants almost always takes into consideration what would make me happy as well.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/5/2011 12:04:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Stupid question - since you're owned, isn't your Master the one who needs to have the imagination?  Not that it's a bad thing in an s type, but isn't that a bit like a doctor's patient complaining that he doesn't know much about medicine?


The whole Top/Bottom thang is indiscriminate, it doesn't care which side of the kneel you are on.


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RE: losing your imagination - 3/16/2011 9:41:41 PM   
graceadieu


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Status: offline 		Hmm. I've found that my kinky imagination has dropped off somewhat since I've internalized that my sexuality belongs to him and is primarily for his pleasure and the fufillment of his desires. I used to have kinky daydreams practically whenever I was bored, but not so often these days - I guess the fantasies just don't feel as relevant anymore. I still look at porn sometimes and imagine he's doing those things to me, but I don't know how much imagination that involves!

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/16/2011 10:52:19 PM   
Arpig


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RE: losing your imagination - 3/17/2011 1:24:59 AM   
stellauk


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Status: offline 		Losing your imagination can happen to anyone. I tend to go offline get out, do things, be among people, read other stuff and also mundane stuff like cleaning and laundry.

Personally I also find that doing anything boring or mundane is a pretty reliable way to kickstart one's imagination and inspire creative thinking.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/17/2011 3:12:34 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I don't think imagination is the sole dominion of the Dominant.

In fact, the more creative a sub is, the better. I have often had the more diabolical and deviant imagination in my partnerships....until they caught up.

And no relationship of mine ever ended due to lack of imagination.

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RE: losing your imagination - 3/19/2011 9:18:31 PM   
andreaC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Stupid question - since you're owned, isn't your Master the one who needs to have the imagination?  Not that it's a bad thing in an s type, but isn't that a bit like a doctor's patient complaining that he doesn't know much about medicine?


I think we are allowed to ask questions, so its not a stupid question.  My Master does have the imagination and alot of it, but i did like to have my imagination too.


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