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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 10:41:07 AM

liltess

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I only see mine once in a while but lately we have been seeing each other over the weekend, I miss him yes because He is the only one lately that seems to know how to get me to stop, think and react properly to several things. But I keep myself seriously busy with kids, school and work during the week so that I don't miss him that much.

We speak every day, four times a day so that makes it as if he is very close by. And yes I agree some 'alone time' is always good.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 10:48:45 AM

BitaTruble

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Himself and I are married, we've lived together for several years, he works out of a home office 90% of the time, but every time he goes on the road.. I have trouble sleeping, sometimes I forget when he's away and I wander into the office to look for him or I'll call out to tell him something funny when he's not here. Sometimes I'll just go sit in his chair in his office so I can smell him. Most times he's gone for just a few days but 4 or 5 times a year it's for a whole week. When I go to California to visit family for extended periods, usually 10 days, it takes about 2 days before being miserable sets in and I just want to be back home with him and start the count down on when I can get on a plane to come home.

Hell, when he's in his office, which is about 50 feet from my computer station, I can be missing on him .. I'm fortunate than I can go get a 'fix' though and I count my blessings.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 11:28:59 AM

gloriousangel

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i text mine and get in contact by email and so on.

I see mine once in the week then on a weekend

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 1:30:23 PM

justatoy2

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I don't live with my dom. We try to see each other a couple times a week, and spend long weekends together when possible. I talk to him everyday on the phone, and we text each other when he is in meetings and such. I miss him all the time. I have a very busy life, and yet i still miss him. I dont' think he misses me quite as much as i do him. But im a senstive girl who likes alot of attention.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 6:53:21 PM

Collaredkitten

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Mine has been gone two weeks now, and I am heart sick, I MISS Him, I feel like a caged cat just pacing back and forth agianst my bars.. ug, I know I will see Him agian soon, and I know it's not the end of the world..but ooh it sure feels like it is, I am so lonesome for Him, I feel like the rest of the world should shudder with the pain I feel, of course, I know that the rest of the world has NO idea I'm feeling this way.. I just don't know what to do with myself..i dont sleep, but I'm tired..and nothing seems fun anymore without Him

It's exciting too, for I know I will see Him agian, in the upcomming months, He's off making a home for us in another country, and when I see Him agian, I'll be surrounded by new and exciting things..but waitng HURTS!

~kitten

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 7:18:29 PM

ownedblackbeauty

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i only get to see Master, Sir like once amonth because of school and work. so HELL YEA do i miss Him and my sister. i actually think that its better to be away for a bit because it makes my feelings for Him stronger.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 7:38:06 PM

lookingforbeta

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Yes, i miss my Master. Sometimes so bad it hurts. It doesn't matter if it has been 10 mins, 10 days or a month since i have seen him, sometimes i can't even get through the train station with out missing him. Strong communication and trust helps with missing Master, but nothing compares to being with him.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/5/2006 9:07:32 PM

smilezz

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Yes, i miss Him terribly.........but i have responsibilities to carry out, and His house to be kept in order. No matter how far the distance between us, we are never truly apart.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/7/2006 6:03:20 PM

ropesubby39

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I do miss my Dom when He is not around. I send Him emails and read His previous emails, which after i feel better and look forward til the next time W/we meet

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/7/2006 6:35:08 PM

SparklyAltoGirl

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I miss him more than I can say. Even though we only live 16 blocks from each other, between his work (he's highly placed in the local chapter of a well known charity) and my work and other commitments, we don't see each other more than twice a week most weeks. It does help to email and message him, although he does not respond often I know he reads them and I can vent and talk about anything I want with no fear of repremanding. It also helps to be able to come in and maintain his home for him, it helps to be surrounded by things that remind me of him. I wear the earrings he gave me constantly so I can reach up and touch them and be reminded of his love for me and mine for him.

But I do wish I could go crawl under his feet and curl up there whenever I wish. That would be heaven.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/7/2006 6:46:41 PM

MasterRobsalayna

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i miss Master so much it hurts. Circumstances are such W/we don't get to see each other much, so email and IM have to suffice. It hurts like hell saying goodnight or walking away to go back home, alone. Sometimes i cry thinking about how much i love and miss Him.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/7/2006 8:56:22 PM

akisha

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Ofcourse you'd miss them. If you care enough to give yourself to them you're going to hate being apart for any length of time. If you didn't care whether they were there or not you'd not be involved with them.

I seem to keep meeting men that live either a few hours or a few countries away lol. Such is my luck perhaps.

My question would be how do you make sure you don't come across too needy and dependent on hearing from you're Dominant? How do you stop yourself from calling or messaging them 30 times a day?

Clingy and needy is not my thing so also how do you let them know that they are in your thoughts when they are not around? How do you find a nice medium ground?

Also, if you are involved with someone you don't see everyday, how do you maintain the connection and not start to drift. LDR's are hard at the best of times.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/7/2006 9:07:09 PM

babysburnin

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I miss him always when we are not together - I'm missing him right now!

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/7/2006 10:11:25 PM

theRose4U

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Point of view from both sides of the quarter:

I missed my alpha terribly when he traveled. I was fortunate enough to have him call every day sometimes more than once and he would leave me shirts with his scent to sleep in while he was gone. This helped to keep me centered and focusing on what I know needs to be done.

as a Domme: I miss my boys terribly when they travel as it's so much harder to "be there" when they need me. I leave notes in their bags and make sure that they have routines and protocols to keep them on task when away. So far I've been fortunate not to have to travel more than overnight while having one in service.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/8/2006 3:53:55 AM

fyreredsub

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this one leaves a message each morning when she starts her day and leaves a goodnight wish before bed.sometimes it is an i miss you...sometimes it just to say sneaking in a cup of java while you sleep and leaves a kiss.
Master and Mistress always know They are in this slaves thoughts. she journals reguraly(sp) for them and studys the protocol and rules that have been established.altho we all do try to maintain some sort of daily contact both homes (theirs and mine)have very busy schedules/lives so it can be difficult when you throw in the time change.
this one is blessed Master and Mistress catch her when she drifts.....thats when They chain a leg to the bed*chuckles*

wishing all well
fyre

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/17/2006 8:15:04 AM

sweetsubie

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im missing mind very much right now.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/21/2006 9:02:10 PM

Daddyslilgirl82

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I absoultely miss my Daddy/Master when we are apart but we usually see eachother every Friday night, he lives an hour away from me. When we cant see eachother we always IM each other and cam everyday and text each other and talk on the phone. He also gives me tasks to complete during the day so he is controlling me even though we are apart. Plus he usually works graveyard somedays and watches me when i am asleep and i feel comforted

. i love my Daddy he is the best in whole wide world

XOXOXO slave naughtia

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/22/2006 1:19:06 AM

gloriousangel

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That is good. I miss mine all the time as I care for him so much.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/22/2006 8:27:28 PM

SparklyAltoGirl

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Daddy will be leaving on Friday to go visit his family across the pond and I don't know what I'm going to do. I of course have tasks to perform while he is gone, feeding the cats, cleaning and food shopping for him so when he gets home he doesn't have to do it but I just want to wrap myself around his legs and beg him not to go. He'll be gone for 10 days. We've been apart for longer than that but I was in hospital then and wasn't able to really do much of anything, much less what he requires of me. I suppose I have to grit my teeth and get through it, but I can't imagine not being able to pick up the phone and call him whenever I want to hear his voice (those trans-atlantic phone call charges add up fast!) or be able to lay my head in his lap when I need comforting. I don't know how to handle this, without seeming clingy, whiney or selfish.

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RE: do you miss your master - 5/22/2006 9:03:28 PM

akisha

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i only miss Him if the sites are slightly off *g*

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