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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 5:54:38 AM

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BM actually quoted someone OTHER than himself.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 7:12:52 AM

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For years now there has been all this interest in the suffering of women. It's like being raped and no one believing you.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 7:20:44 AM

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So quit derailing your own thread with how great you are, and share some experiences of how you have suffered. If you want to raise awareness, connect with your audience and share your concerns. Stop with the circle jerks.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 7:22:07 AM

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You want to talk about your being brutally raped?

I'm listening.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 7:37:34 AM

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You want to talk about your being brutally raped?

I'm listening.

No you're not. I don't belong to a socially recognized group that is entitled to such status, namely victim status. The only way any of you could relate to the story is if you have compassion, but you have no compassion.

The Holy Mother of God took pity on me. I spoke earlier about God taking pity on me. I was actually referring to the Virgin Mary.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 7:40:36 AM

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wait.. he cant find anyone
turns into he was raped?

*blink*

BM.. I have been raped more than once, and while I do not trivialize the trauma, I at least sought help to overcome the same.

I am still not perfect, I still smoetimes make bad relationship choices, but I am no longer a VICTIM (because bad choices or not, at least I still HAVE relationships)

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 8:36:38 AM

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I am still not perfect, I still smoetimes make bad relationship choices, but I am no longer a VICTIM (because bad choices or not, at least I still HAVE relationships)

It is unfortunate that you have had to endure such things, but you did not successfully process what I wrote. "I don't belong to a socially recognized group." Rape victims whether male or female belong to such a group, but this is not to say that males are not discriminated against even here. It's stereotypical suffering! I would trivialize the trauma, because in most cases it is not the most traumatic thing a person can experience. There are a great many rape victims who are not especially traumatized. It is often akin to getting into a car accident. I have experienced trauma in my life that exceeds that experienced by most rape victims.

What I've been hearing repeatedly is that there is no FUNDAMENTAL obligation to others; it's the victim's fault/problem. Sound familiar?

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 8:54:04 AM

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you were brutally raped in a car accident?

I'm listening.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 9:32:33 AM

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Sorry, folks. I've got to do it.

I don't know how anyone who can start a thread that is supposed to be about compassion can possibly attempt to equate loneliness, lack of sex, or lack of love with a brutal, physically invasive attack against another human being such as rape. If they can, they had better start talking to God (if that is their belief) in a whole new way. I can't help but to think that such a parallel is ridiculously insulting, narrow minded, and self centered in such a way that I can't even comprehend. Please, OP, tell Me how much smarter you are than I for you to even conceive such a thought. If you are, you can have it.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 9:36:31 AM

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So quit derailing your own thread with how great you are, and share some experiences of how you have suffered. If you want to raise awareness, connect with your audience and share your concerns. Stop with the circle jerks.

I didn't think it counted as a circle jerk when you masturbate in front of a mirror rather than somebody else...

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 10:58:07 AM

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you were brutally raped in a car accident?

I'm listening.

LOL

Society has this imagery world that it lives in where everything fits into these neat boxes. I have more to say on this point, but I have to put what I wrote in my draft box for now since it is taking me too much time to write it. Do try to forgive me for not gracing you with my wisdom. I began with an example of how insane society can be.

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Sorry, folks. I've got to do it.

I don't know how anyone who can start a thread that is supposed to be about compassion can possibly attempt to equate loneliness, lack of sex, or lack of love with a brutal, physically invasive attack against another human being such as rape. If they can, they had better start talking to God (if that is their belief) in a whole new way. I can't help but to think that such a parallel is ridiculously insulting, narrow minded, and self centered in such a way that I can't even comprehend. Please, OP, tell Me how much smarter you are than I for you to even conceive such a thought. If you are, you can have it.

You didn't say sorry earlier or at least I don't recall you doing so. Refresh my memory if you did. Go back to post one.

It is known that harm done to a person emotionally has a more profound and long lasting effect than what is done to them physically. This is true of victims of torture in times of war, for example. Don't tell me you didn't know this, high and mighty one. One of the reasons why there is such an emphasis on rape is that it involves physical violence which often implies the existence of physical evidence. It wasn't long ago when rape wasn't taken seriously by society. It is politically expedient. There are many victims in this world and many different forms of crime that get no attention at all.

I am not just talking about loneliness and lack of sex though I admit it is part of it. I do not feel a need to compensate for your cynicism. Your compassion is for stereotypes. You are not compassionate in a genuine sense. Buddha would not approve of you. In my estimation he would likely say; don't mind her, she is foolish. You are not offering compassion to all sentient beings or anything even remotely approximating such feeling. In other words, your feeling is impure.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 10:59:08 AM

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BM.. you are so full of shit, that yuor eyes are spewing babyshit brown diarhea!

BEING RAPED is NOTHING l;ike being in a car accident... I'd take a car accident that hopsitalizes me for months over being raped ANY FUCKING DAY.

physical wounds heal relatively quickly... psychic wounds never do. They may scab over, but they never fully heal.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 11:32:33 AM

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You didn't say sorry earlier or at least I don't recall you doing so. Refresh my memory if you did. Go back to post one.

It is known that harm done to a person emotionally has a more profound and long lasting effect than what is done to them physically. This is true of victims of torture in times of war, for example. Don't tell me you didn't know this, high and mighty one. One of the reasons why there is such an emphasis on rape is that it involves physical violence which often implies the existence of physical evidence. It wasn't long ago when rape wasn't taken seriously by society. It is politically expedient. There are many victims in this world and many different forms of crime that get no attention at all.

I am not just talking about loneliness and lack of sex though I admit it is part of it. I do not feel a need to compensate for your cynicism. Your compassion is for stereotypes. You are not compassionate in a genuine sense. Buddha would not approve of you. In my estimation he would likely say; don't mind her, she is foolish. You are not offering compassion to all sentient beings or anything even remotely approximating such feeling. In other words, your feeling is impure.

That's because I apologized to the forum. Not to you. Nor will you receive one.

I don't care that Budda might not approve of Me. I'm not seeking it. I'm not seeking yours, either. For all that you think you are, to Me, you are no more or less than any other human. You are certainly not My God, My loved ones, or any other person that impacts My life.

For the third time on this thread, I will tell you that for all that you think you know, you have no clue of what you are talking about. Stereotypes? No. Real hours working at a shelter? Yes. The knowledge of which has been on these boards long before you came along.

No. I am not compassionate to all sentient beings. Such things I evaluate on a scale. Very much in the same way as I would first offer food to someone who is starving to death over someone who is merely hungry. In such, I don't see you in the same way as I do a child starving in a slum. You have only missed a meal.

Please feel free to judge Me for saying so. The only judgment that I have to be concerned about is that of God. Speaking of which, I am sure you will find your judgment as well.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 12:29:35 PM

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The only judgment that I have to be concerned about is that of God. Speaking of which, I am sure you will find your judgment as well.

This will no doubt be controversial, but it is consistent with what I've already written. I have already been judged by God. You are addressing a man who has stood in the presence of God the Father. It is your soul that is in jeopardy. I am not merely claiming this to be so. I explained how this could be to you already. God's compassion is not limited to starving children.

If the Church continues to show compassion exclusively to stereotypes, it too is in jeopardy. I say this on behalf of the Almighty God.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 12:36:06 PM

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I have already been judged by God.

Why would God do that? To humble the arrogant.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 12:38:00 PM

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This thread is the reason that you should not divide by zero. All the crazy comes out.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 12:38:36 PM

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It is your soul that is in jeopardy.

If that is so, I'm sure God will take that up with Me when the time comes. That authority hasn't been delegated to you.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 1:10:57 PM

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I'm sure God will take that up with Me when the time comes. That authority hasn't been delegated to you.

Don't be so certain.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 1:17:29 PM

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You are addressing a man who has stood in the presence of God the Father.

Really? Way cool!What does he look like? Does he have a deep voice, or a thin one? I have so many questions...Versace or Calven Kein? How many Hit Dice?

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/25/2011 1:24:07 PM

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FR someones arse is writing checks his mouth cant cover

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