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Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/2/2011 5:01:36 PM

DevilishEnvy

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I have been searching through all of the threads and looking for new ideas for punishments, training tricks and games to play with my slave. I have found lots of new ideas, but I am kind of a geek and like to learn more. I want to constantly keep her on edge and not let her get used to anything. I have found that the element of suprise works well in controlling her. Most of the threads that I have found are fairly old. So I just wanted to post a newer one and see if anyone has any special or unique things that will help us become closer and more structured. She adores pain and humiliation. Tell me your experiences, punishments, games, rewards, and training tips. Thank you in advance! :) Also if any other threads with suggestions come to mind, please share.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/2/2011 5:09:39 PM

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For game time, tie her to a St Andrews cross with toilet paper around her wrists.
Tell her if the paper tears, the game is over. This could also be a form of training.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/2/2011 5:10:38 PM

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How exhausting! Perhaps you need to separate out the different things you're asking for. A punishment and a game and training are three entirely separate subjects that have nothing to do with each other.

I prefer the simple methods:

Punishment: "I'm disappointed in you"
Training trick: "Do this"
Games: I'm partial to backgammon

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/2/2011 5:13:34 PM

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They are separate things. lol. I meant more like sexual, dominance type games. I am just looking for ideas to tweak.

The toilet paper bondage trick definitely sounds amusing.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/2/2011 5:24:11 PM

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Have you considered pet play? Get her a butt plug with a fur tail attached (cat, fox, pony, etc.) and matching ears. For the time she's your pet, she isn't allowed to wear clothes, speak, use her hands, or walk upright. She must eat and drink from pet food dishes on the floor (Tupperware bowls will work) or from your hand. Train her to do "tricks" in the same way you'd train an animal. If she disobeys, smack her bum with a rolled up newspaper. If you train her as a pony, she can be harnessed to a small cart and pull you around. You can use a riding crop or buggy whip to make her go faster.

That incorporates everything you listed.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/2/2011 5:42:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

How exhausting! Perhaps you need to separate out the different things you're asking for. A punishment and a game and training are three entirely separate subjects that have nothing to do with each other.

I prefer the simple methods:

Punishment: "I'm disappointed in you"
Training trick: "Do this"
Games: I'm partial to backgammon

I have to make a separate thread on this one, even though it's a right old chestnut. Reply or ignore as you wish :)

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/3/2011 6:06:44 AM

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I don't know about the op's relationship, but if he were constantly pulling the rug out from under my feet, to keep me off balance, I'd lose trust in him. Have you bothered to ask her if inconsistency is going to be a problem for her?

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/3/2011 6:27:30 AM

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quote:

mentally and emotionally I was drained and shattered

This is punishment enough...Words from your own girl...

If you have to punish her daily to remind the both of you who she belongs to.... Well.. that just gives a whole new insight into your life that isnt exactly flattering....

Id be careful of the games you play some might grow tired of constantly being on edge and having the rug pulled from under their feet that they will go to an owner who can appreciate them with out the childish games....

Anyone who told me they would use something that could break bones on me easily would find that toy broken and of no use to my partner any longer and would be searching for another partner.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/3/2011 8:15:20 AM

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I have't done anything that she hasn't asked for, honestly. The daily punishments were her idea. And as for the part about telling her that it can break bones, a male slave friend of hers was brutally beaten, yet told her to ask for a caning. I explained to her how someone who doesn't know what they are doing could break bones (I've also had this happen to me) so that she understood why I held back when I hit her. Taken out of context, it can seem bad, but that wasn't my intention.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/3/2011 8:19:21 AM

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I think you might be confusing the term 'maintenance spanking' with the term 'punishment'.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/3/2011 8:19:21 AM

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Master would never hurt me intentionally. The explanation of the canes were as she said above. As for the emotions you quoted above, yes, they were sincere, but there were other things going on in my life as well. Now, I realize, I probably should have mentioned those as well.

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RE: Searching For New Punishments and Training Techniques - 3/3/2011 8:27:04 AM

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LP, you may be right. I am still learning a lot. Lol. There are terms for everything.

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