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RE: Tasks for a sub at home - 3/13/2011 11:18:46 AM

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Has anyone any other suggestions or thoughts/comments?

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Nun Of D Above

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All duties, tasks and other instructions (detailed) are part of the DUTY STATEMENT a bound document which is required reading weekly as it has attached duty roasters (where applicable) and updated materials and timetables..

Yea..... we're not 24/7 TPE, we don't do duty statements and documents.

Your final line in your OP stated clearly and I do quote:

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Nun Of D Above

So??????? Whose fault is that? You have a problem in people responding on how they run successful homes and relationships? Bit rude your response was in my book.

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RE: Tasks for a sub at home - 3/14/2011 7:22:04 AM

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One suggestion. No busy work. She'll be smart enough to know you're asking for stuff that doesn't matter and that you aren't going to ever care if she does it or not.

Remember, if you don't care about it, then making her do it means you have to pay attention to it instead of doing something more fun later on. So if you miss your favorite show because you need to inspect the work and/or punish her for doing it wrong or take the time to teach her to do it your way, or just watch her do it over, realize that you caused that result. And if you aren't going to bother to see if she did it, then she'll know you're a hypocrite and that isn't how you wish to be thought of.

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RE: Tasks for a sub at home - 3/17/2011 1:57:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

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Has anyone any other suggestions or thoughts/comments?

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Nun Of D Above

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ORIGINAL: nunofdabove

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

All duties, tasks and other instructions (detailed) are part of the DUTY STATEMENT a bound document which is required reading weekly as it has attached duty roasters (where applicable) and updated materials and timetables..

Yea..... we're not 24/7 TPE, we don't do duty statements and documents.

Your final line in your OP stated clearly and I do quote:

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Has anyone any other suggestions or thoughts/comments?

Thanks
Nun Of D Above

So??????? Whose fault is that? You have a problem in people responding on how they run successful homes and relationships? Bit rude your response was in my book.

No offence intended, however I did outline the nature of the situation reasonably clearly, your suggestion, while valid for your lifestyle are not relevant to mine.

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RE: Tasks for a sub at home - 3/17/2011 2:47:02 PM

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I wouldn't go for a duty statement myself, but I'm a believer in a whiteboard with no more than three things written on it at a time. For many people, having something written down sticks in the mind a lot better than just mentioning it to them while rushing around looking for car keys.

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RE: Tasks for a sub at home - 3/23/2011 10:51:47 AM

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Obviously you know your partner best
but if i had to masturbate every hour i would get sick of it
and please do not have her drive with an egg or plug inserted... have her put it in the supermarket toilets or something instead
point 3 is ok though

ETA if she likes dressing up you can insist she wears proper uniform to clean the house... shortish black skirt, stockings, lil white apron, tight white shirt, that kinda thing

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