a day in the life of a 24/7er?

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hardcybermaster -> a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:09:18 PM)
I want to see a fly on the wall doc of some people who supposedly live the lifestyle(lol) 24/7. Maybe we could see a Dom beat his scrambled eggs into submission.After that we could watch him lose his job as he couldn't cope with not being the boss,and after drowning his sorrows we could be amazed at his attempts to handcuff the cops who try to arrest him. Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do?

maybemaybenot -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:13:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do? Nope, they don't. Bunch of pansy assed liars, I tell ya.

IronBear -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:15:00 PM)
Just go view first hand any relationship (long term and successful) in and out of the lifestyle. BDSM does not create new lifestyles

FukinTroll -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:17:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot Nope, they don't. Bunch of pansy assed liars, I tell ya. You swore you wouldn't tell! SLURP~

LillyBoPeep -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:28:16 PM)
24/7 really isn't that far-off of a concept. the person in your example is a headcase, not an example of any 24/7 person i've ever known.

maybemaybenot -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:30:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot Nope, they don't. Bunch of pansy assed liars, I tell ya. You swore you wouldn't tell! SLURP~ I lied. [&:] Take me out back, tie me up and beat me. I deserbe it. I really do.

FukinTroll -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:32:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot I lied. [&:] Take me out back, tie me up and beat me. I deserbe it. I really do. At least you're reasonable with the punishment... albeit unrealistically light in the severity, but reasonable nonetheless. SLURP~

Aileen1968 -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:35:23 PM)
If It's the weekend... Wake up. Run out to get his newspapers. Make him coffee and get his fruit and granola. See if there's anything to work on on my to do list. Do anything he asks throughout the day. Cook whatever he asks for. Sleep cuddled up next to him. If it's a weekday.... Same stuff. Just add in work.

poise -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:43:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster I want to see a fly on the wall doc of some people who supposedly live the lifestyle(lol) 24/7. Maybe we could see a Dom beat his scrambled eggs into submission.After that we could watch him lose his job as he couldn't cope with not being the boss,and after drowning his sorrows we could be amazed at his attempts to handcuff the cops who try to arrest him. Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do? I'm sorry things are so limited in your views. Here's to hoping your ignorance isn't contagious!

Prinsexx -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:43:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster I want to see a fly on the wall doc of some people who supposedly live the lifestyle(lol) 24/7. Maybe we could see a Dom beat his scrambled eggs into submission.After that we could watch him lose his job as he couldn't cope with not being the boss,and after drowning his sorrows we could be amazed at his attempts to handcuff the cops who try to arrest him. Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do? No. I only breathe for one hour in every twenty four. Call me a cold blooded lizard if you dare.......

frazzle -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:54:21 PM)
Aileen, he doesnt want real life, He's only ever known fantasy porn. [:D] As subs/slaves we get woken up forced into given Him a blow job, (wether he realy wants one or not) somewhere before or after we are expected to have made coffee/tea magically appear.[8\|]

Aileen1968 -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 4:59:33 PM)
Silly me....back into my cage in the closet.

frazzle -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 5:04:09 PM)
As if you ever leave there [:D] hey we dont have the ability to live real lives LOL

mistressko -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 6:38:06 PM)
As a Domme to whatever human things choose to submit, I am also a sub/slave to my Lady. She is a very FIERCE Domme let me tell you! Get up, the first time she rolls over even if it's dark out. Give her loving phrases, help her up, and see that she can make it to the door. Put on my leash and we go outside. Wait while she tries to use me as a toilet. Get pulled fiercely along if I can't keep up. Struggle up the stairs. Unclip my leash. See that her morning drink and food needs are taken care of FAST or there is much growling. Brush her hair and tell her that she is pretty. Find something to entertain her with until noon. Get a break of an hour or two around lunch time (she never has lunch) and if I'm lucky a nap. Take her to a beautiful park in the afternoon. Struggle again to keep up to her. Wait while she once more defecates in my presence (a true exhibitionist, no?). Carefully buckle her into the car. Give her water from my own cup. Drive home gently so she doesn't verbalize her discontent. Lovingly prepare the supper meal which I know will be gone before I turn around. Frantically search for her evening's entertainment so that I can have a break. Tuck her into bed at whatever hour she chooses to sleep. Tiptoe quietly around until my own late bed time lest I wake her up. Even Dommes don't have it easy sometimes. But she IS beautiful. This is an accurate representation of what she looks like - she comes from those fancy bloodlines with Sirs and Ladies: http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_mbATdyRfCFM/THL1j-NYYVI/AAAAAAAABTk/czgPVL3Gmhs/s1600/german+shepherd.JPG The only difference is the Dom or Domme (really hard to tell from that angle) in the pic is naked and my own prefers her regal collar. -K

peppermint -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 6:50:55 PM)
We are 24.7,,,but our life is so normal most of the time you wouldn't recognize us. No matter how much kink we like..the dishes need washed, the clothes cleaned. the floor swept. We can't always do kink cause life interfers so much. However, we are happy in what we do do.

porcelaine -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 6:53:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do? Greetings, It would be helpful if people recognized that it's the framework of the relationship that is continuous, not the kinky activities that many presume. Namaste, ~porcelaine

DarkSteven -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 7:04:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster I want to see a fly on the wall doc of some people who supposedly live the lifestyle(lol) 24/7. Maybe we could see a Dom beat his scrambled eggs into submission.After that we could watch him lose his job as he couldn't cope with not being the boss,and after drowning his sorrows we could be amazed at his attempts to handcuff the cops who try to arrest him. Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do? To be honest, I can't imagine anyone living 24/7 solo, without a partner, as you have attempted to represent. Also, note that your hypothetical Master is unable to accept any degree of control from anyone but himself. That's counter to the self discipline required to get through life. But why are you concerned? You live in the cyber realm - why look down on those who live in the realm of real life?

LadyPact -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 7:15:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardcybermaster I want to see a fly on the wall doc of some people who supposedly live the lifestyle(lol) 24/7. Maybe we could see a Dom beat his scrambled eggs into submission.After that we could watch him lose his job as he couldn't cope with not being the boss,and after drowning his sorrows we could be amazed at his attempts to handcuff the cops who try to arrest him. Does anyone really life the lifestyle 24/7 as so many suggest they do? I do realize that, as an OP, this isn't really worth a reply. However, I'm going to say just a word or two about the highlighted above. Being the person in charge of My dynamic doesn't mean that I've declared Myself ruler of the entire universe. Beyond doubt, I'm the person in authority where we are discussing My Dominance and his submission. At the same time, because I recognize what that authority means and what responsibilities go with it, this allows Me to understand and respect those areas where there are powers that have greater authority in the world than I do. I have no problem with attempting to assume power where I have none. Due to the very fact that I expect the authority that I have in the dynamic to be respected, I find it quite easy to respect the areas where other folks have authority. It doesn't matter if that's another person's dynamic, a work situation, or a legal one. I'm actually not one of those folks who struggle for power. I know where Mine lies and I have no issue respecting those areas where it doesn't belong to Me. I only have to be on top of the chain in the dynamic. As for the rest, I'm just like everyone else. I will never be the 'most senior' leather person on the planet. I'm just fine with that and I'll bet the flies on My wall would recognize that.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 7:22:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porcelaine It would be helpful if people recognized that it's the framework of the relationship that is continuous, not the kinky activities that many presume. YUP. exactly.

peppermint -> RE: a day in the life of a 24/7er? (3/6/2011 7:34:42 PM)
We do 24/7. Doesn't mean that there is kink happening every minute of every day. We do have social lives that do not involve kink. We cook dinner like normal people. The house needs cleaned as all houses do.

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