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undersoles -> Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/7/2011 10:12:08 AM)

i need a lil help please... how can i show a Woman that i am very attracted by Her Feet and Shoes? i dont want to be so obvious as to throw myself on the floor and kiss Her Feet, please note that Here and i hardly know eachother.

thank You



MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/7/2011 2:58:16 PM)

"I like your shoes." 
"Nice shoes."
"Those shoes really set that outfit apart."

It's been my experience that every woman likes a compliment on her shoes.  Vanilla, Domme, sub, gay, straight or bi.



mnottertail -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/7/2011 3:00:00 PM)

How in the fuck did you get them dogs in them shoes, girlie?

Like that?



IronBear -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/7/2011 3:07:51 PM)

Not into feet or shoes unless it is my foot landing on someone's ass wearing large steel toed, steel healed  combat boots with steel meshed soles.

For then OP.. How about bending over and saying she has great kick ass hoofers on and if she's like to try them out on you???? Other than that, the women folk are more likely to know.. Could ask in "Ask A Mistress" Forum.



jennydemilo -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 10:57:00 AM)

Get to know her first then divulge your kink you dont wanna scare her off. If she really likes you she will likely indulge your fetish at least a little bit. IE. dont blow your load to early :)

M. Jenny



Killerangel -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 11:20:04 AM)

Women who don't know you probably are not interested in your fetish. To get to know her a bit better compliment her in a general way on the footwear - the foot itself might be too personal and weird - and set about making other conversation. If you come across as being too interested in promoting your fetish before she knows you it's going to come across as being icky. Women don't generally like being a collection of body parts or vehicles for another's sexual fullfillment before they know that person.



Miyani -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 12:21:20 PM)

If you and she hardly know each other, *don't* show her that you're very attracted to her feet and shoes. Get to know HER. Show that you're interested in HER. She's not a walking sex toy.



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 12:29:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel
It's been my experience that every woman likes a compliment on her shoes.  Vanilla, Domme, sub, gay, straight or bi.


Sorry, but I'd just look at you uncomprehendingly.  Shoes and boots are for protecting your feet because you want to do something useful while wearing them.  I don't see them as decor.  If you did, I'd try to be polite, but I'd probably find it rather silly.  That's not what they're *for*.

Yeah, I can do the pro dom dress-up thing when people expect it.  Fortunately some of my SCA swordfighting gear (eg, the boots in my avatar pic) crosses over nicely.  But if I'm not being paid to look a certain way, then what I wear is chosen for a better reason than looking cute.  It would actually be a bit insulting to me if someone assumed it was just a decoration. 



IronBear -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 2:12:43 PM)

Well said my friend.. Footwear must be comfy and protect the tootsies.. If they add to your image of a\re part of your lifestyle then so much the better. I prefer to be wearing high riding boots which is both period and jolly comfy and good for my feet (according to my medical blokes). However the must be more than presentable for me. They must be spit polished at all times. (just habit and a certain amount of pride of image).  Otherwise, with pretty feet, I enjoy massaging a lady's feet (can be erotic and has led to a number in the past spending a long time in my bed after too).



porcelaine -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 2:39:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: undersoles

i dont want to be so obvious as to throw myself on the floor and kiss Her Feet


Greetings,

Unfortunately decorum must override the carnal in this occasion unless you're pretty sure about her receptivity. For what it's worth the image is hella hot. But I'm wee bit biased of course.


quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Well said my friend.. Footwear must be comfy and protect the tootsies.. If they add to your image of a\re part of your lifestyle then so much the better.


I like a man that adds a little oomph to his wardrobe. Shoes included. A well attired foot beckons me to the floor. I don't feel the same impulse from a sneaker. But a square toed black shoe of European design always grabs my attention. [;)]

Namaste,

~porcelaine



IronBear -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 2:42:58 PM)

I shall remember this sweet lady, when we eventually meet for a candle lit dinner.[;)]

I  think you will recognise me.. Black leather trouses tucked into knee high black boots, black silk collarless shirt with lace cuffs, covered bu a black and silver embroidered double breasted waistcoat, White stock with square cut ruby stick pin, topped off with a black leather frock coat. My preferred period formal outfit for kink..



FelineFae -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 3:20:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Miyani

If you and she hardly know each other, *don't* show her that you're very attracted to her feet and shoes. Get to know HER. Show that you're interested in HER. She's not a walking sex toy.


This.

i worked in a bar and a guy with a foot fetish came in, and he was pretty into me, below the ankles that is. He told me that he had a fetish for pretty feet and high heels, and that he'd tip me if i let him give me a foot rub. Getting a foot rub after 8 hrs in 7 in heels ~and~ getting a big tip was a pretty good deal to me. He talked to me about nail polish colours and such, and really it was a nice conversation. However, this wasn't a relationship. It was the same interaction i might have had at a salon. If you want something longterm, see the person as a complete being, not just something conected to your kink. [:)]



kallisto -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 3:32:47 PM)

I worked with man who I found out had a foot/shoe fetish. It was summer time and I wearing a skirt and strappy heels that attracted his attention. He leaned over in the middle of the meeting and told me how much he was enjoying looking at my feet/shoes. It made me smile and I said "thank you". Keep in mind, this is someone that there was no relationship, other than a working relationship and not a close one at that. He was an older man and a bit of tease, but completely harmless. It always made me smile when he would compliment me on my shoes or the color my toes were painted.

But if you're after a relationship with her, then I would work on that and then your kink.



porcelaine -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/8/2011 3:47:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

I shall remember this sweet lady, when we eventually meet for a candle lit dinner.[;)]

I  think you will recognise me.. Black leather trouses tucked into knee high black boots, black silk collarless shirt with lace cuffs, covered bu a black and silver embroidered double breasted waistcoat, White stock with square cut ruby stick pin, topped off with a black leather frock coat. My preferred period formal outfit for kink..


I love a man in black! Since it's dinner I'll come wearing lolita gear. [;)]

Which reminds me, where's the walking stick?

Namaste,

~porcelaine



sunshinemiss -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/9/2011 12:51:39 AM)

Sunny
Quote of the day
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Unfortunately decorum must override the carnal ...



stellauk -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/9/2011 1:30:28 AM)

Become a cobbler.



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/9/2011 3:11:28 AM)

~  FR ~

Keep your comments to yourself and admire from afar.  You don't want to creep the woman out, or end up with a demand from your employer that you attend a sexual harassment "class" for you lack of tact. 



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/9/2011 9:48:30 AM)

you could simply say "nice shoes;" any further than that could start to get creepy.
if you get to know a person you really actually like and care about, you could then simply approach it as an offer of a foot massage or pedicure. women are generally more receptive to things from people who see them as a whole person, not just a set of feet (or tits, or ass, or whatever).

that said, i have to say sometimes being female makes things easier -- girls can go into a store together and lust over shoes all day, and no one tells us we're creepy. ^_- hahaha

ANYWAY OP -- go over to "Ask a Mistress" and read the "selling your fetish" thread. the info there might come in handy down the line.



ranja -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/10/2011 3:17:46 AM)

It was a sunny early morning was 20 and waiting by a traffic light when a little bald man stopped beside me, he looked down at my feet, i was wearing light brown suede flat shoes with some indian type embroidery on it.
As the light turned green he walked next to me and started a conversation, he asked if i would have a busy day, i did not... actually i had nowhere to go and was just wasting time until a meeting i had that afternoon... i also was hungry and had hardly any money on me... he offered me breakfast if i would let him caress my feet, i accepted
We went to his hotel. He ordered some food up, i suggested i should wash my feet, he protested i should not... after breakfast arrived he took off his suit and knelt before me in his white vest and underpants and ever so delicately took off my shoes... as i was eating my bagel he sniffed my shoes and then rubbed his nose along my feet and sucked my toes.

I was too young to appreciate the experience properly, but selfish enough to enjoy my breakfast and have a laugh...i took a picture of him... within an hour i was on my way again 



IronBear -> RE: Foot/Shoe Fetish (3/10/2011 3:33:52 AM)

WOW



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