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ORIGINAL: naughtynick
I thought BDSM was all about sex.
Are you are assuming that all Dominas share this perspective with you? Most do not. In fact, a good portion of the BDSM population does not share this perspective with you. Some do though, and perhaps you will meet one who does. I am doubtful that it will be here though.
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It is something unusual that makes you horny.
No. It is something that makes YOU horny. Again, you are assuming that all Dominas share this opinion with you.
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A fetish is something that is about having an orgasm over a bizarre situation or object.
That is one definition of the word. To deny the other definitions of the word, shows only ignorance.
FYI:
fet·ish
n.
- An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
- An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
- Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
- An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
I've seen all of those definitions used within the BDSM population. Again, don't assume that everyone uses the same definition you use.
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It is not all about being a slave without anything sexual involved.
To some people, it is precisely this. And that is their choice.
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Thats just some stupid lame ass excuse because the domme is too lazy to do it themselves. They should hire a maid instead.
Beyond the fact that you have nothing to back up this claim, why are you even concerning yourself with other people's domestics? Are other people's cleaning habits a soapbox you hop up on often?
Besides, if they are "too lazy" to clean their home, they are probably "too lazy" to exert themselves with having sex with you, therefore these aren't the women you would be seeking anyway. What does it matter one iota in your life whether or not some lazy person somewhere is in a relationship with some guy with blue balls who cleans her house?
I simply don't understand why you even care what other couples are doing in their own home? Why does it bother you so very much that people aren't conforming to your perceptions, your definitions, and your expectations, for THEIR relationship?
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