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Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/5/2006 2:36:37 PM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		Hello to all. Especially to those Domme's that have taken the time and interest to respond to several threads I have started here. And those that shared their opinions and thoughts in other threads i read right here in this section of the Forums.

I will not attempt to name any of You in particular, but I hope all of You that contributed in a positive or helpful way will recognize themselves. I sincerely thank You! 
I just don't want to leave out any names that I felt a fondness for just from Your posts.

I don't have a question for anyone. I just want to share that through this great site, i "may" have found the one. And I do mean the "one".

So far, She seems like exactly what i have been looking for. One who like me. wants a sincere loving one on one bond with a D/s partner for life.

I am both very happy and excited to have this opportunity to communicate with Her on messenger and a few long phone calls already. And it has only been a few short days that we have found each other!

However, She and i have both been hurt before...badly. So we are being very careful and trying not to make any mistakes when it comes to finding out if we are truly right for each other. Especially me. I can get to excited to easily since finding just one Domme that matches me is clearly not an easy task. Where as for a Domme, i think You all know You can be very selective since there has to be 1,000 sub males to every Yes She currently resides over 1200 miles away. But we both agree that a meeting MUST happen soon so we do not waste each other''s time. We will be meetng around June 12th as She already had plans to visit here in Florida. How lucky is that!!! So we are both cautious and very hopeful that the magic, the chemistry is there once we meet face to face. It will be sad if it's not there for the both of us. The search for exactly what we want is not easy for any of us regardless of what kinks we may have. In our case, we both feel that the chemistry must be there for love to grow:  And needless to say our fit as a D/s couple.  

So if i may ask one thing of all of You that read this post. Please wish us good luck in that this could be the match She and i both want. I'm hopeful,  excited and happy so far. Can you tell? 
Thank You all that in some small way perhaps even made this finding each other possible by allowing me to post here and Your responses to them.
So if i must ask a question....Is this what we call "under consideration?"  Finally! The search just may be over.....yeah!     

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/5/2006 5:18:46 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		I think you are both being very wise to take things one step at a time and I do wish you luck and happiness and hope this works for you. As for being 'under consideration', you need to ask her that, but I would say it's probably doubtful until you have your face to face meeting first. Honestly, I don't know because 'under consideration' isn't something with which I've ever dealt so I don't know the particulars of this aspect of collaring.

Celeste

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/5/2006 5:53:47 PM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		Your Domme should be the one to determine with you that you are under consideration. Good luck, one step at a time, be open, communicate and have fun.

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/6/2006 8:25:56 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Going slowly and meeting early on is a wise thing to do.

Having been in a long-distance relationship which finally met face-to-face for a week I'm going to offer some unsolisticed advice.

(me do that? why that never happens! *grin*)

Don't over plan your meeting. Keep it light and friendly to see how you will click. Face-to-face can be quite different than what you expect. However be open, don't plan any unusually events or activities for yourself during that time so if things click you can easily adapt.

When I met my former submissive from Vancouver (I lived in NYC) we turned out to be just like we had been in emails, letters and the phone. He was able to cancel his hotel reservations and stay with me and we had several adventures solo and with my trainee at that time.

However meeting and having this time ended our relationship because I learned that once I had him in the flesh, I couldn't settle for long distance any more. Neither of us was in a financial situation where he could move to where I was (I had a family already so anyone being my submissive or slaves needs to move to me). We remain great friends to this day and if he ever decided to move to the states, he'd be welcomed in my household.

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/6/2006 8:54:45 AM   
TeeGO


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Status: offline 		Congrats and I hope this works out.

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/6/2006 9:29:42 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		Thank you Tammyjo for your advice. I think you are right. And so far we have not even talked about the details of exactly where and what day we will meet. We both understand that if we hit it off as good as I think we both want to, that where we go from there is pretty much open. Meaning that if the chemistry is right for both of us, we will just know and want to explore further. But you are right, to try to agree that wel will do this or do that etc., would be fool hardy for the both of us. We both know what we nee dand want out of a relationship. We both know that we are on the same page that way. But that all important chemistry needs to be met. A nervous time for the both of us. Wondering and hoping we will both feel the same way when we are standing in front of each other upon meeting. It will be sad if one of us sees the chemistry and the other does not. We both know that and are willing to risk the little disappointment or rejection if the other turns out to not be feeling the same way. We have discussed this and think we are both mature enough to understand that it could happen. So that is why I am not getting overly excited yet. I have tigth reins on my emotions in case of the let down of Her not finding me to be exactly what she wants. I can just hope we see somethign in each other to want to continue getting to know each other and maybe................     

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/6/2006 9:31:31 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your well wishes Teego.

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/6/2006 9:39:47 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

I think you are both being very wise to take things one step at a time and I do wish you luck and happiness and hope this works for you. As for being 'under consideration', you need to ask her that, but I would say it's probably doubtful until you have your face to face meeting first. Honestly, I don't know because 'under consideration' isn't something with which I've ever dealt so I don't know the particulars of this aspect of collaring.

Celeste


Thank you Bitruble.  I guess it was not clear that my question about being under consideration was a vain attempt to be funny. I honestly do not look upon what She and i are doing at this point as really being under consideration at this time. But yes, i am hopeful that our meeting may then lead to Her telling me I am under consideration. And funny, I have never dealt with being under consideration either.
Hey, with any luck it will be love at first sight and we can go past Go and not even need to consider it just consideration.  Now back to reality. But that would be easy, romantic and nice IF it happened.    

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 4:27:56 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		An update and a few questions please:

I am very happy to announce that I am now truly under consideration of Msklyn. I could not be happier. Earlier, I used this term ( under consideration) without the thought that would be a step we would take this soon. But after hours of honest open communication, She decided it was time to take that step even prior to our planned meeting June 12th.
She made it clear that I am now not permitted to talk to other Dommes and that I was to inform any and all Dommes that I have been talking to concerning a possible relationship with, that I am now under consideration and request that they honor that and if they wish further communication with me, that they or I would have to get permission from my Domme to continue any talks of any kind. I understand this to be a normal part of the proper protocol in our chosen lifestyle. I happen to fully agree with it and like the respect of this agreement.

Sadly, MsKlyn was in an automobile accident a couple of days ago. One of Her daughters was able to track down an e-mail address for me and informed me of it. I do not have full details yet, but am waiting on pins and needles to know how serious it was. From what I do know, she will survive....meaning it is not life threatening.  I am waiting to hear more from her daughter. so please, send some white light and prayers Her way.      

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 1:00:35 PM   
MistressLove999


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Status: offline 		You know I do wish you the very very best dear. I am really happy for you, that you have found a Domme who excites you. Becareful go slowly, YOU know how easy it is to be hurt. Your a sweet man, and a very nice person to chat with.
Sorry to read she was in an accident hope all is well with her. And she has a quick recovery.
Hopefully you will keep us posted after you meet her and let us know how it goes.
Last, you know, if you need to talk, I am here. Will go  with the no news is good news and out of respect for your being under possible for consideration will not contact you. 
Wishing you all the very best life can bring you,

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 1:12:07 PM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		I'll wait on pins and needles with you..
 
And congrats... after watching you learn and grow here with all of us I have to say if anyone truly deserves to find happiness it would be you FLsubmalecd. I'll pray that the Gods and Godesses watch over both of you.
 
Jewel

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 1:15:49 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		You have my best wishes and my good thoughts.  Since you are in contact with her daughter I hope you got the room and address for purposes of FTD and cards. Or perhaps all is wonderful and she is recuperating at home already.

Best wishes,
Ronne

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 2:13:32 PM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		MistressLove999,

You have made my day. Thank You so much for Your well wishes.  You are definately a Domme  respect and enjoyed getting to know.
As far as being hurt goes, yes, I had been badly hurt and so has She. So we both realize that we want to be so sure of each other's intent and emotions. She is a very honorable Lady that i trust very much. I feel She senses this same honesty and trust in  me. So we ar eboth hopeful that whenn we do meet it will be good for the both of us. Yet we know that if one of us upon meeting does not have the same good feelings that one of us could be somewhat hurt. I guess what i am saying is, we are both guarding against going through what we both have in the recent past. I will not play with a Woman's heart and soul for any reason. I know She feels the same way. Your words to me are very much appreciated MistressLove. Thank You Ma'am.
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ORIGINAL: MistressLove999

You know I do wish you the very very best dear. I am really happy for you, that you have found a Domme who excites you. Becareful go slowly, YOU know how easy it is to be hurt. Your a sweet man, and a very nice person to chat with.
Sorry to read she was in an accident hope all is well with her. And she has a quick recovery.
Hopefully you will keep us posted after you meet her and let us know how it goes.
Last, you know, if you need to talk, I am here. Will go  with the no news is good news and out of respect for your being under possible for consideration will not contact you. 
Wishing you all the very best life can bring you,


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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 2:48:08 PM   
FLsubmalecd


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ShiftedJewel
I'll wait on pins and needles with you..
 
And congrats... after watching you learn and grow here with all of us I have to say if anyone truly deserves to find happiness it would be you FLsubmalecd. I'll pray that the Gods and Godesses watch over both of you.
 
Jewel

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mnottertail
You have my best wishes and my good thoughts.  Since you are in contact with her daughter I hope you got the room and address for purposes of FTD and cards. Or perhaps all is wonderful and she is recuperating at home already.

Best wishes,
Ronne


Ms Jewel, Wow. I am honored to know that You were watching my learning and growth here among all of the best Domme's around anywhere. (the ones that take part in the "ASK THE MISTRESS" forums here at collarme.com
Thank You Ma'am for your prayers to the Gods and Goddesses to watch over Ms Kat. She is an honorable remarkable Lady. I am honored to just be under consideration by Her. I have got to be the luckiest sub male in the world. I never thought I'd find the "ONE"  


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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 3:01:01 PM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		OOPS!  That did not work out like i planned it. I copied and pasted two posts into one reply and accidently hit the send button before addressing Ronne. Sorry about that.

Ronne, I wanted to save you for last in response to all the great responses I've read today. The reaosn is I do have an update. Without hearing back from Ms Kat's daughter and about to go nuts, I did a search and found the hospital She is in. A few phone called confirmed that I had the right one. So next I tried to call Ms Kat's room with no answer. At least I foud Her and was able to send flowers right away.
After I did that, I finally got an e-mail from Her daughter with an update. Not as much as I'd like to know, but at least she is trying to keep everyone concerned up to date. Thank God, non of the injuries are life threatening. She has a broken arm,, some damage to Her face and ribs/lung. he may be released today or early tomorrow morning as most all further treatment needed can be done as an out patient. She is not able to talk righ tnow due to the facial damage. So as soon as She is home and ready,I'm sure we will chat via messenger. Right now, I am just happy She will be OK.
Thank you all for Your kindness and concern.    .    

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/12/2006 3:21:29 PM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much for the update, I'm so glad she is doing ok...

~~puts away the pins and needles...
 
Jewel

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/14/2006 8:35:37 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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Status: offline 		I want to update you that have expressed concern for Ms Kat. She is now home and was able to get on Her laptop to send a breif e-mail to me. She does have a broken arm/wrist, and a broken jaw. She also says She is very bruised and looks like a prize fighter that lost in the first round. lol So Her sense of humor is there. it was good to just get a brief note and a short chat with Her on IM. I just want Her to rest and take good care of Herself as She heals and mends. She is barely able to talk and said it is painful to try. So we won't be having any long phone conversations.
So at least She is in good spirits in spite of the pain meds and Her lack of ability to type other then with one hand, or to be able to talk.
Thank You all that have had Her in Your prayers. She and I both appreciate your concerns and well wishes.    

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/14/2006 8:41:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'll keep both of you in my prayers.

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/14/2006 9:52:19 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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ORIGINAL: bandit25

I'll keep both of you in my prayers.


Thank you bandit25
I/we appreciate your thoughtfulness 

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RE: Just want to share with all Dommes i've met here. - 5/15/2006 11:49:05 AM   
MsKyln


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Status: offline 		A sincere thank you to everyone for your postivite thoughts, prayers and postings.  The meds are Great, but lack of control sucks    But each day promises a better tomorrow.
 
Again, thank you all 
(Hugs, Swats and whatever applies )
 
Ms. Kat
 
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