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submale987 -> orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 4:54:52 PM)

I am going to have my first session of submission with a domme in a few days. i am nervous about this for all the usual reason but especially as i am unsure what will happen if i were to 'cum' during the session. as i never done anything like it before im not sure how the domme will react. any advice greatly apreciated



WhiteRadiance -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 5:01:58 PM)

I am sure she has seen a sub cum before.  Why should you be worrying about cumming?  Afraid she'll make you eat it? >:)~
 
I am sure she will put you at ease... or you will not be able to cum until you are on your way home... lol



EarthGoddess52 -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 5:04:30 PM)

That issue (concern) should be part of the pre-session negotiations.  Ask!!!



WeeIttyBitty -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 5:10:01 PM)

If your afraid of that possibility at the time, take along a condom, and tell your domme that you brought it along so as not to make a mess. Iam sure she would appreciate the consideration.



Proprietrix -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 7:09:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submale987
I am going to have my first session of submission with a domme in a few days. i am nervous about this for all the usual reason but especially as i am unsure what will happen if i were to 'cum' during the session. as i never done anything like it before im not sure how the domme will react. any advice greatly apreciated


In some states here in America, that would take it from Pro-Domme to prostitution. I certainly don't know the laws in the UK. (I would guess they are more relaxed than ours.) But just something to keep in mind.



LadyHugs -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 7:19:24 PM)

Dear submale987, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I wouldn't be as concerned about "cumming" but if you're "going..."  If you loose your bladder, hope to do it over a tile or vinyl floor.
 
You'll be fine --
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs



BellaMami -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/5/2006 9:33:50 PM)

Agreed this should be dealt with before activites begin.



TexasMaam -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/7/2006 9:34:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submale987

I am going to have my first session of submission with a domme in a few days. i am nervous about this for all the usual reason but especially as i am unsure what will happen if i were to 'cum' during the session. as i never done anything like it before im not sure how the domme will react. any advice greatly apreciated


It's a non issue.

When you feel as though you're going to cum, ask permission to, then follow Her instructions.

If she says 'no you cannot cum' but continues to stimulate you to the point that you cum all over yourself, be assured that was Her intention in the first place!  Then you'll just have to take whatever punishment She metes out for your obvious inability to control yourself.

Have fun!  ; )

TexasMaam



LoneGoddess -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/7/2006 10:48:19 AM)

Boy, he sure is assuming a lot here. As if she'd let him cum... *evil laughter*

Keep in mind, she may not... he may not earn it. As Judy Tenuda would say, "It could happen".

LG~



Nuke718 -> RE: orgasm with domme (5/8/2006 1:22:58 PM)

I don't think the OP said it was going to be a Pro Domme session.  But regardless the ladies are right, it SHOULD be brought up in the discusion/negotiation phase.  If it hasn't, and you are worried bring it up. 

You can say something before things get going along the lines of "I am easily aroused, and am worried about having an orgasm during the scene.  I would like to know how you want to proceed if it gets to that point".  Or as suggested above, if iyou start getting close ask for permission BEFORE you reach the point of no return. 

Other than that relax and have fun!

N



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