Welcome to CM and the boards. Hang out on this side, and although your eyes will still hurt at time, you can meet some great people here. It's the land of the insane, the inane, the ridiculous, the silly and the entire gamut in between.
And you would be surprised how many of us are submissive only to one and therefore do identify as submissive because we submit. Submissive does not mean introvert or passive, it connotes solely your preferred interpersonal relationship dynamic, nothing more or less.