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Online - 3/11/2011 12:44:48 PM   
dougie159


Posts: 21
Joined: 2/20/2011
Status: offline 		Does or can online or Email domination work, or even can it be effective. i'm hoping so. In the absense of key holder for my CB2000 and someone to control me would cyber at least keep things hopefull and going

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RE: Online - 3/11/2011 12:49:11 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		It's really going to depend on who you ask.  The folks who are making money from online will tell you a resounding yes.  The folks who have no interest in online only at all are going to tell you that it doesn't work for them because they need a real life connection.  The answers are going to vary based on personal interest and experience.

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RE: Online - 3/11/2011 12:56:30 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		If you and an online Domina are both committed to making it work, sure.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Online - 3/11/2011 1:02:53 PM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		Due to not thinking of all aspects of my nickname and using some form of Lockit since day one of my online experience, my name brings on a lot of men looking for some cyber lock up. I have gone in and out of discussions about this, year after year. lol

Cyber lock up is about the man in my opinion. Seeking cyber lock up is all about what his cock is or isn't doing and I just have to say... there has to be more to life. At least in my world. Maybe some people might not mind conversing about his cock day in and out... oh I am so horny... I love lock up.. but mistress I am so horny! It kept me up all night trying to get hard in this cage. Mistress when may I be released? Thank you mistress I will kiss your ass for this, for life!

Really, what is the dominant getting if she isn't getting paid for such? Some joy in talking about the state of a man's cock, day in and out? Some pleasure knowing he is locked up and the cock must behave? Tell me... most of us want a bit more in life don't we? Is that really working? I think not because there are so many men out there seeking the focus on their cock and so many domina's not looking to focus on a cock... well.. unless it is really and truly their cock.

Dougie... your questions and posts have been rather clueless up to this point. Add that the focus is your cock and satisfaction... it could be a cold day in hell before you get the attentions you seek. Pay attention now... most don't care if you have hope that you could achieve some sort of encouragement that there might be something out there... simply because we aren't dominant women with a key and a desire to only be that. If you like objectification... so be it... but don't think you are going to have a positive experience objectifying us to objectify you or your cock.

Pay attention now...

Did this work? That ought to tell you how well it works.


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RE: Online - 3/11/2011 3:15:37 PM   
Arpig


Posts: 9930
Joined: 1/3/2006
From: Increasingly further from reality
Status: offline 		I have done some online torturing, and been told that I'm damn good at it...I don't even need to have them do it on cam. I don't really care if they actually do it or if they just say they do it. They are the one's who are getting off on it, not me.

What do I do while you are tying up your tits? I'm likely working on my D&D stuff between sending you commands (even if you are on cam...its just not that interesting...I'd rather be detailing a nation of orcs).

What do I get out of it? Not too fucking much. Its mildly entertaining to dream up some nasty things a person can do to themselves safely, but after doing it a few times you've pretty much dreamt them all up.

Why do I do it? I do it for people I like as a favour to them (though now that I've admitted that I am not riveted to the screen during the session I've probably ruined the illusion.)


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RE: Online - 3/11/2011 7:26:05 PM   
leadership527


Posts: 5026
Joined: 6/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: dougie159
Does or can online or Email domination work, or even can it be effective.

That would very much depend on what, exactly you are looking for. Can you define "effective"??


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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael

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RE: Online - 3/13/2011 6:19:32 PM   
SensualDomme75


Posts: 2
Joined: 9/15/2009
Status: offline 		I have dominated a submissive online for over a year, and have found the relationship far more powerful than I would have imagined possible. It is probably more difficult to find a Domme who is interested in online, but certainly not impossible.

Initially I had to think of ways he could serve me, but over time I realized all the many tasks - both mundane and sexual - I can have him perform either to make my life easier or for my enjoyment.

Good luck in your search!

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RE: Online - 3/14/2011 12:12:31 AM   
SexyBossyBBW


Posts: 1693
Joined: 2/25/2010
Status: offline 		The only way I would dominate online, is if I've already met, and dominate him period.   If someone is submissive, he would be inclined to obey his dominant...   Online or off.
I liked Lokit's response best, for what it's worth.    M


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