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FukinTroll -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 12:03:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: needlesandpins when i was looking for someone i wanted to chat through pm first to see if they had a mind i could connect with. needles And all this time I thought it was my SLURP power. SLURP~

needlesandpins -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 12:28:22 PM)
you may well be in that very lucky position where your reputation is great enough for that to be the case lol needles

0ldhen -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 12:30:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: needlesandpins you may well be in that very lucky position where your reputation is great enough for that to be the case lol needles May???????

kissheels -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 12:34:45 PM)
i can think oof two reasons, one chat does not work for everyone, and messengers are faster (agreeing with needlesandpins) also maybe messengers have cam options, not sure about CM on that one

needlesandpins -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 12:47:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 0ldhen quote: ORIGINAL: needlesandpins you may well be in that very lucky position where your reputation is great enough for that to be the case lol needles May??????? i have to say may, for i am new here and have no idea who anyone is or their reputation. however, it's nothing i'd take notice of anyway. needles

LillyBoPeep -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 1:58:51 PM)
some people prefer IM clients to the slow c-mail system. if you don't want to talk that way, simply decline.

NocturnalStalker -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 2:08:47 PM)
I hate when people ask if I have Skype. Skype is gay.

Arpig -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 2:18:49 PM)
I've been here a long time, and I've never been asked to take it off CM. I've been asked to just plain take off more than a few times, however.

kissheels -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 2:52:58 PM)
Can We continue this thread on MSN or Yahoo messenger?

BrokenSaint -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 3:13:00 PM)
I've always felt it was kind of hilarious people were so reticent to move conversations over to a different medium that tends to function better. The cm chat works pretty poorly for me when it does work, and when you're talking a conversation online you really have no way of knowing whether you missed a line or not. I'll take reliability, but I digress. Pretty much every chat program ever is free to create an account on, some of those take about 40-50 seconds to whip up an account (though some are much slower, especially since bots with image recognition are often used to make them for marketing). This means you can come up with something in no way tied to you off the top of your head, and pow, it's your new screen name. Basically if safety is the concern, you're just as safe either place.

saltie -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 3:41:41 PM)
For me its the ones who want to move to fast that want to write outside of collarme after sometimes just one mail here. One wanted to meet me at a bar at night in a bad town. If it turns out I dont want to talk farther then they will keep writing me at my email address or in a instant message after being clear I am not interested. Not saying months of writing here but not giving out my address so fast like some want.

Arpig -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 3:59:24 PM)
quote: For me its the ones who want to move to fast that want to write outside of collarme after sometimes just one mail here. One wanted to meet me at a bar at night in a bad town. If it turns out I dont want to talk farther then they will keep writing me at my email address or in a instant message after being clear I am not interested. Not saying months of writing here but not giving out my address so fast like some want. Look, its simple really...if they want your addy to fast for your comfort, then just say no. If they get pissed off, then Block & Delete. They weren't a match for you anyway. I would have thought that was pretty obvious.

NocturnalStalker -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:08:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BrokenSaint I've always felt it was kind of hilarious people were so reticent to move conversations over to a different medium that tends to function better. The cm chat works pretty poorly for me when it does work, and when you're talking a conversation online you really have no way of knowing whether you missed a line or not. I'll take reliability, but I digress. Pretty much every chat program ever is free to create an account on, some of those take about 40-50 seconds to whip up an account (though some are much slower, especially since bots with image recognition are often used to make them for marketing). This means you can come up with something in no way tied to you off the top of your head, and pow, it's your new screen name. Basically if safety is the concern, you're just as safe either place. I hate chat programs because it seems like there is a time limit on when to reply just for the sake of being polite. Compared to e-mail or something where you can do your day-to-day life while occasionally building up a message, it's that a chat requires more of my undivided attention which detracts from other subjects of interest to me.

poise -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:09:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker I hate chat programs because it seems like there is a time limit on when to reply just for the sake of being polite. Compared to e-mail or something where you can do your day-to-day life while occasionally building up a message, it's that a chat requires more of my undivided attention which detracts from other subjects of interest to me. You just havent found one worthy of all your attention yet. [:)] (or at least 85 percent of it)

poise -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:11:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arpig I've been here a long time, and I've never been asked to take it off Is that all it takes? Well then, please take it off! Inquiring eyes want to know. [;)]

NocturnalStalker -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:14:14 PM)
Well Poise I always reply to your mail first! Wink wink

JohnWarren -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:19:51 PM)
Frankly, I don't like to type for long periods of time. It's painful. If someone wants a complex exchange or wants to move forward toward a meeting. I want to move to phone as soon as possible. It would take hours to cover the ground you can in five minutes of give and take on the phone.

Arpig -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:23:53 PM)
quote: Is that all it takes? Well then, please take it off! Inquiring eyes want to know. Oh no you don't...I wear a shirt when swimming for the sake of public decency. But since you asked so nicely...here ya go! [image]local://upfiles/218457/2266E3955C59417F9A92FA99B7389EFF.jpg[/image]

poise -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:32:21 PM)
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NocturnalStalker -> RE: why do ppl want to continue talking outside of collarme? (3/15/2011 4:33:13 PM)
What has been seen cannot be unseen.

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