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her2spankmehard -> Thank you all. (3/16/2011 1:21:28 PM)
I would like to thank those of you whom answered my 2 questions. You have given me alot to think about and pointed me in the right direction in regards to this life style and how to carry myself. This name and profile is going to be redone when i figure out what i want to say in them. Thanks again all :)

hausboy -> RE: Thank you all. (3/16/2011 2:47:25 PM)
something else to consider is your screenname-- you may want to consider a name that is more reflective of you, as opposed of what you want her to do. So example: you have her2spankmehard which as you now know, is a bit of a turnoff for some-- you're already telling her what to do to you. Instead, consider the difference of the person who has a screen name "whippingboy" He's stating a bit of the obvious--what he's into--it may appeal to the more sadistic variety of Domme--but it's not "uwhipme" see the difference? Or you can always have a screen name that shows off something else you are into--believe or not, I'd bet that many Dommes on this site would be faster to answer a reply from "antiquecollector29" or "triviamaven566" than "pussylicker4u"

Arpig -> RE: Thank you all. (3/16/2011 2:54:43 PM)
Your welcome, thanks for asking, and thanks for taking the advice given...look forward to meeting the new and improved you.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Thank you all. (3/16/2011 4:23:31 PM)
I missed that thread, so here you go: Ditch the screen name and the "do me" list of kinks and the desparation. Read the FAQ at the top of the Ask A Mistress section. Use your profile to tell us about your vanilla interests and goals, much more than your kink. Never lead with your kink. Always lead with vanilla topics, so you can talk about what ELSE you might have in common with a prospective domme. In your first message, don't spam her. Talk about something vanilla in her profile, in such a way as that its very clear to her that you have actually read her profile. (Make it clear to her by using specifics gleaned from her profile- that your message is not a pasted, generic intro that you're spamming everyone with.) Choose a screen name that reflects on your vanilla interests or character. And stay positive, and have FUN! Good luck! [:)]

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Thank you all. (3/16/2011 4:50:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hausboy I'd bet that many Dommes on this site would be faster to answer a reply from "antiquecollector29" or "triviamaven566" than "pussylicker4u" This. Mail from someone with a sexually explicit screen name gets deleted unread and the sender blocked. I really don't care what a walking penis has to say, I don't want to hear it. Ever. It's just going to be more grossness, so why bother? Don't present yourself as a walking penis. Bad idea if you ever want a lady to be willing to talk to you.

Arpig -> RE: Thank you all. (3/16/2011 6:43:14 PM)
quote: Don't present yourself as a walking penis. Bad idea if you ever want a lady to be willing to talk to you. Now she tells me! No wonder I haven't been laid in years.

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