sub4hire -> RE: BDSM classes! (10/7/2004 8:18:49 AM)
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In a discussion about service & training, I mentioned that I thought it would be great if there was a BDSM school, specifically for subs- so, I did some research, (I love google!) and fuond the following: I know people who have done workshops. Never known anyone to go to one of these schools though. If I had any knowledge and I was also brand new. I know the two statements don't exactly fit together. However, having knowledge I know the "schools" would not be beneficial in the least. If I had zero knowledge then yes I would probably attend. If I wanted a taste of the lifestyle that bad. I don't happen to know in retrospect if I would end up regretting it in the end. Reason for my feelings is. I would be a submissive searching for my Dominant. My Dominant, not any Dominant. My Dominant is going to want me to serve him a certain way. Everyone is an individual. Nobody's training is for the world at large. So, more than likely chances are whatever training I may have received while at the camp or school or whatever would be null and void when I did meet my Dominant. This is also providing the school was on the up and up. Many of them out there tell you that when you come to them. You are nothing but a servant to serve who and what they want you to do when you want to. Also there is no escape once you enter the grounds. So, I think I would option for the seminar approach if at all possible. You take what you want and you leave what you don't want. You need to find your own style. Then a match who happens to mesh with your own style. My two cents worth anyway.
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