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MaamJay -> RE: Hi (3/18/2011 7:09:09 PM)
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Hi and welcome
A friendly warning ... you will likely cop some flak here from folks who take honesty very seriously in the context of bdsm and a D/s lifestyle. They tend to come down hard on 'cheating' and some would go as far as seeing your even being here as cheating. So be aware and ready for that, and try not to let it scare you off.
Whilst I believe in honesty too, I am a bit more liberal-minded, and I see some aspects of bdsm as not particularly sexual, so I will play with a married sub as long as the play doesn't get sexual. For example, spanking ass or flogging shoulders isn't as sexual as a massage to Me! It may take you a while to find others with the same perspective though. However, you can also learn a whole lot from this site, and that in itself, will make it worth copping some flak here and there. Do be aware though, that once you let this side of yourself out ... it's very hard (if not impossible) to stuff it back in the box again, and it can make living with a vanilla shift from difficult to intolerable. So this is a dangerous path you are setting out on, make sure you want to walk this way. I don't regret one minute of My journey along it ... but not everyone feels that way.
Good luck
Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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