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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 8:50:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

I swear, the more I'm around the male subs on CM, the more I contemplate just becoming a lesbian.

I'm with you there.

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 8:52:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty

There seem to be a lot of guys who reply to a profile, based only on the picture, then script you into thier fantasy life... So you like all the things they like, and would be very interested to know them... They never actually open your profile, nor notice if your name is bold or pale ...

That seems to make the most sense... the number of men who do it, either way from what I gather, is a bit off-putting!

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 8:55:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: mariba

slavejali, that is logical. But honestly, if you are not wired to be a Domme it seems like it is an action doomed to fail. Also, I think it is a very assertive thing to ask a woman to change their orientation, why would a malesub do this? MistressImp is probably right, it is just a guy thing.

Mari.

First off you're probably not dealing with an experienced sub to start with.
Boys I've noticed after being turned down for the propositions of: "I'll be in your town next week might I submit"? When they have one of most active scenes in the country in their back yard.
I'm a novice but refuse housework, service and only want kinky sex.
and my personal favorite...I'm a no limits sub and beg to be in your service I'll lick your boots, dress in heels as a sissy, let you pork me with a strap on...but I want you to mop my floors...whhhaaaat? you mean clean your toilet with my toothbrush right? umm no I mean mop my floors...but I'll be your sissy umm no mop my floors. They want to serve their way to forfill their fetish without any concern for what the dominant actually wants.

These are likely the ones coming looking for you. If they can convince a female ANY FEMALE to let them serve their way then they can be "super sub"

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 9:00:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

It kind of works both ways. I've had female submissive friends try to convince me I'd make a great dom, specifically dominating them. One was so persuasive, she got me to actually try it once. To me, it was the funniest experience I'd gone through in the scene because I so made the worst dominant of all time, unless dominant equals serving the woman who wants to serve you. But my friend seemed to enjoy it immensely at the time, although I think in the end both of us felt really awkward about the whole experience....

What a superlative, sentient post, littlesarbonn! I always love reading your replies.

Your experience as a 'Dom' is the exact mirror of mine as a submissive; it was just plain wierd and I can't wrap My brain around 'serving' someone, anyone, period!

I'm hardwired to control and I'm hardwired to be sadistic. While I have a masochistic streak that enjoys pain for pain's sake, I can never make the transition to submission.

Yet, I receive endless approaches from male Doms wanting to "help Me find My true submissive self"!

<laughs uproariously at the thought....

Keep up the salient self expression for those of us who enjoy reading your thoughts,

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 9:08:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

I swear, the more I'm around the male subs on CM, the more I contemplate just becoming a lesbian.

Amen. I would add the more I am around egomaniac doms the more it makes me want to find a Mistress some days.

Is that what all guys think with, what they have between their legs?? Sheesh.

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 9:52:32 AM

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More to the point, why does anyone bother losing sleep over someone else's wants? We're all here for our own desires, regardless of what you might think... Me, personally, I'd like to find a nice, local switch that I could actually trust enough to top me once in a while...

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 10:00:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

It kind of works both ways. I've had female submissive friends try to convince me I'd make a great dom, specifically dominating them. One was so persuasive, she got me to actually try it once. To me, it was the funniest experience I'd gone through in the scene because I so made the worst dominant of all time, unless dominant equals serving the woman who wants to serve you. But my friend seemed to enjoy it immensely at the time, although I think in the end both of us felt really awkward about the whole experience....

What a superlative, sentient post, littlesarbonn! I always love reading your replies.

Your experience as a 'Dom' is the exact mirror of mine as a submissive; it was just plain wierd and I can't wrap My brain around 'serving' someone, anyone, period!

I'm hardwired to control and I'm hardwired to be sadistic. While I have a masochistic streak that enjoys pain for pain's sake, I can never make the transition to submission.

Yet, I receive endless approaches from male Doms wanting to "help Me find My true submissive self"!

<laughs uproariously at the thought....

Keep up the salient self expression for those of us who enjoy reading your thoughts,

TexasMaam

Thank you for your kind words. I tend not to post that much these days mainly cause I seem to be saying the same things over and over, or the threads all seem to be asking the same things with different thread titles.

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 10:34:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn
Thank you for your kind words. I tend not to post that much these days mainly cause I seem to be saying the same things over and over, or the threads all seem to be asking the same things with different thread titles.

....so I've noticed, and you've been missed!
Yes, the threads get tedious at times.
Email Me, we'll start our own threads.

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 4:55:54 PM

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Thanks for the advice, but honestly I was just trying to show my body type in my pic. It is really hard to take pictures of yourself (which is what collarme wants). What do you have to do to look sub in a picture?

Mari.

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 5:53:58 PM

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Some people are just desparate and stupid. *Shrug*

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 10:20:34 PM

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Because in making you a servant to their kinks, they are in fact dominating you in my opinion. M

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RE: Why do malesubs try to make femsubs into femdoms? - 5/7/2006 11:05:18 PM

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Wrong thread, sorry.

< Message edited by BlkTallFullfig -- 5/7/2006 11:07:42 PM >

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