Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Cuddling?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> RE: Cuddling? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 9:44:36 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		I actually prefer it.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to SexyBlackMan2)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 9:59:33 AM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline 		No OP, no one ever cuddles in D/s. In fact, once done with you, most Doms like to kill their prey after catching it.

Beware.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 10:14:30 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline 		Or makes their victims go cook.

What is it about sex that makes men hungry afterwards?

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to sexyred1)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 10:24:43 AM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline 		I don't cook; I am surprised they never killed me.

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 11:25:36 AM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		He loves cuddling but not right after play. Because he's always drenched with sweat and I'm always frozen with several blankets on top. He'll try to cuddle for a bit but inevitably he needs a cold shower to cool down.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to SexyBlackMan2)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 11:55:40 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 37833
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I don't cook; I am surprised they never killed me.


Pst.. my ex discovered its better I dont cook after sex. Being weak kneed and just a tad bit sleepy tends to make for a burnt snack.

_____________________________

Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

(in reply to sexyred1)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 12:48:19 PM   
leadership527


Posts: 5026
Joined: 6/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DuskMist
I was wondering, do Masters/Mistresses/Doms enjoy cuddling their submissive(s) or slave(s)? Especially after a play date, or sex?

The most common commands I give to Carol... BY FAR... are "hug me" and "kiss me". It is Carol that asks, "Do you want me to sit on the floor while we watch TV." and it's me who says, "Nope, I want you in my arms on the couch."

If it helps you any to answer any similar question you might have, I love Carol deeply and so the shape I command our marriage to take conforms to exactly what you'd expect for a guy that's been dopey in love for 15 years and getting moreso year by year.


_____________________________

~Jeff

I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael

(in reply to DuskMist)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 1:37:21 PM   
Palliata


Posts: 371
Joined: 8/9/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

No OP, no one ever cuddles in D/s. In fact, once done with you, most Doms like to kill their prey after catching it.

Beware.

To be fair, this is an option I never completely remove from the table. Can never be too violent, I always say

_____________________________

I speak not of The Way, but only My Way. Think it not an indictment of Your Way.

I'm male. I know it sounds female. Work with me.

(in reply to sexyred1)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 2:45:57 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline 		Praying mantis.  Just sayin'.


Cali


_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to Palliata)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 3:33:03 PM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		After learning the hard way, I make clear ahead of time that cuddling is an essential part of afterplay for me.

(in reply to DuskMist)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 4:21:18 PM   
porcelaine


Posts: 5020
Joined: 7/24/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DuskMist

I was wondering, do Masters/Mistresses/Doms enjoy cuddling their submissive(s) or slave(s)? Especially after a play date, or sex?


Greetings,

While I appreciate intimacy in its various forms, I usually desire to cuddle under specific situations. The gesture is most welcome when I'm in poor health, afraid or wrestling with a difficult subject, or after an admonishment. Having his arms around me is mentally restorative and provides a demonstration of much needed security.

Namaste,

~porcelaine


_____________________________

His will; my fate.

(in reply to DuskMist)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 5:32:16 PM   
avena


Posts: 80
Joined: 12/4/2010
Status: offline 		D is a self-professed 'cuddle slut'...as am I, so it works out quite well.

When we're together, the only time we're not in some sort of physical contact is when one of us is cooking, or I'm cleaning. And even then, he has a tendancy to come up behind me and hug/kiss/pet/whatever else tickles his fancy, regardless of what I'm doing.

I suppose that might change if we had more time together...but somehow, I doubt it. We're both very tactile people, and we crave that contact.

(in reply to DuskMist)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 5:41:04 PM   
phoenixmoonn13


Posts: 398
Joined: 6/11/2010
Status: offline 		lucky for me as i am into cuddles big time so is master fall asleep in his arms cuddles before work watching tv . and after sex love making and play

(in reply to SexyBlackMan2)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 7:24:33 PM   
strangedesire


Posts: 360
Joined: 12/23/2008
Status: offline 		I'm a snuggle slut, and also prone to sickeningly cute displays of affection when I'm not being violent and unpredictable.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Palliata

I have been known to send them away immediately after if the mood strikes me, but that's rare. Random acts of heartlessness sprinkled in a stew of affection make for nice, tangy variety.


Personally, I won't deprive myself of post-sadism snuggles even if it makes things significantly more exciting for her. I can work in random acts of heartlessness elsewhere.

Then again, there are times when she thinks it's over, and I'm just getting started....


_____________________________

On that other site as Exegesis.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 7:42:27 PM   
ShoreBound149


Posts: 622
Joined: 7/2/2009
Status: offline 		I don't sleep with my contacts in and I often mistake her for one of the larger pillows when she's curled up.

_____________________________

"People don't think it be like it is, but it do."

Oscar Gamble

(in reply to DuskMist)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 8:17:20 PM   
heartcream


Posts: 3044
Joined: 5/9/2007
From: Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop
Status: offline 		Okay so Doms like to cuddle it would seem, how about coffee? Do Doms like coffee or is that another thread?

_____________________________

"Exaggerate the essential, leave the obvious vague." Vincent Van Gogh

I'd Rather Be With You

Every single line means something.
Jean-Michel Basquiat



(in reply to ShoreBound149)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 8:24:18 PM   
FairDom6


Posts: 22
Joined: 2/26/2011
Status: offline 		This is definitely not about your role, this is just a preference thing in general I think. Some people are simply more affectionate than others.

_____________________________

Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so.

(in reply to SexyBlackMan2)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 8:25:32 PM   
LillyBoPeep


Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl


What is it about sex that makes men hungry afterwards?


it's not just men =p


_____________________________

Midwestern Girl

"Obey your Master." Metallica


(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 9:01:17 PM   
IronBear


Posts: 9008
Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		My deal is.. She makes me coffee and I'll spoil her under a shower (lotsa washing with heaps of soft suds on my hands) I go and cook supper so we eat where ever I choose. 

_____________________________

Iron Bear

Master of Bruin Cottage

http://www.bruincottage.org

Your attitude, words & actions are yours. Take responsibility for them and the consequences they incur.

D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.

(in reply to LillyBoPeep)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: Cuddling? - 3/20/2011 10:55:16 PM   
NuevaVida


Posts: 6707
Joined: 8/5/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DuskMist

I was wondering, do Masters/Mistresses/Doms enjoy cuddling their submissive(s) or slave(s)? Especially after a play date, or sex?

Thanks!



He's always putting his arms around me, and yes, even after sex.  During those times when I'm struggling with something, I tend to prefer NOT to cuddle, but he won't allow that.  It's especially those times, I'm ordered to wrap my arms tightly around him.


_____________________________

Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly.



(in reply to DuskMist)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> RE: Cuddling? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094