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BdsmGrunt -> CDs and gays (3/19/2011 10:42:06 PM)

Just wanted to speak for all the CDs out there just because we dress as women does not mean we want cock in so sense. Some of us like to experience the sexuality women have that men do not and that's the only way in doing so. Also it's so taboo for society for men to dress as girls in a way it's like rebeling. I was wonder if anyone felt the same out there.



DarkSteven -> RE: CDs and gays (3/19/2011 10:51:49 PM)

Felt the same as what?

If you mean, feel like crossdressing is not the same thing as being gay, you'd get near 100% agreement here.





Palliata -> RE: CDs and gays (3/19/2011 11:40:24 PM)

It goes without saying - the only thing that makes you gay is a desire to have sex or relationships with members of your own gender. The rest of it is just ignorance playing itself out and not to be taken seriously.



BdsmGrunt -> RE: CDs and gays (3/19/2011 11:43:29 PM)

I know I just want to speak to this who don't understand this.



porcelaine -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 12:34:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BdsmGrunt

Just wanted to speak for all the CDs out there just because we dress as women does not mean we want cock in so sense. Some of us like to experience the sexuality women have that men do not and that's the only way in doing so.


Greetings,

I'm curious to know if the women you encounter have a noted preference for sexual liaisons between you and other men, or if that is something you've strictly observed from interested parties of the male persuasion?

Namaste,

~porcelaine



BdsmGrunt -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 12:48:15 AM)

Sticky males ask. I wouldn't mind a female party asking of I would, but I just dislike the automatic assumption



porcelaine -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 1:45:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BdsmGrunt

Sticky males ask. I wouldn't mind a female party asking of I would, but I just dislike the automatic assumption


I suspected that was the case, but I thought I'd ask just to be certain. Now I'm curious, but you don't need to answer this if it's too invasive. In your engagements with other men, do you find it easier to interact when presenting the feminine, or are you able to indulge in either guise?

Namaste,

~porcelaine



NocturnalStalker -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 1:47:44 AM)

Technically, no you're not gay.

To everybody out there that sees you on the street, you're a goddamn firework.



Palliata -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 1:51:23 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Technically, no you're not gay.

To everybody out there that sees you on the street, you're a goddamn firework.


I'm confused. Are fireworks gay?



NocturnalStalker -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 1:55:57 AM)

You could say they're flaming. 



BdsmGrunt -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 1:59:39 AM)

No I have to be fem when talking to men



IronBear -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 2:01:00 AM)

I have still yet to hear anything of substance to make any sort of comment about unless you take badly spelled one and a half liners said in a defiant manner, from the OP.... The only logic and attempts to turn this into some sort of half decent discussion id coming from the CM regulars.. Personally I hoped this thread may be a rather good one and relational to what I see happening here..



porcelaine -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 2:05:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BdsmGrunt

No I have to be fem when talking to men


Thank you for indulging my curiosity. I used to converse with a cross dresser a couple of years ago and found him rather engaging, but somewhat fearful of sharing himself in the manner you have.

Namaste,

~porcelaine



BdsmGrunt -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 2:50:25 AM)

Indeed well I'm just tires of hiding it. I've always felt this way for a long time, and iron bar?!go somewhere else then



Asfixation -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 3:09:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BdsmGrunt

No I have to be fem when talking to men

I'm not confused about what gay means nor am I confused about what cross dressing is.
But I'm confused if you are now many a personal statement in the above, or attempting to make this informative.




stellauk -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 4:17:41 AM)

Okay, so you come onto a message board and start a thread which says:

quote:

ORIGINAL: BdsmGrunt

Just wanted to speak for all the CDs out there just because we dress as women does not mean we want cock in so sense. Some of us like to experience the sexuality women have that men do not and that's the only way in doing so. Also it's so taboo for society for men to dress as girls in a way it's like rebeling. I was wonder if anyone felt the same out there.


However in your most recent journal entry you write:

quote:



I guess I really don't define myself as a crossdresser. Infind it exciting and fun. It's so taboo and against social standards I guess it's the rebel in me.



Then:

quote:



I know I just want to speak to this who don't understand this.



Okay, so you've got our attention. What is it you want to say?



DarkSteven -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 4:57:51 AM)

I'm somewhat confused why you chose to make your statement on collarme. You're preaching to the choir. If you want to enlighten, make the same statements at a place like a Tea Party rally.



Asfixation -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 8:51:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm somewhat confused why you chose to make your statement on collarme. You're preaching to the choir. If you want to enlighten, make the same statements at a place like a Tea Party rally.

Sprinkles holy water :)



BdsmGrunt -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 9:57:15 AM)

Damn harsh, don't read too far into everything. Lol



ResidentSadist -> RE: CDs and gays (3/20/2011 10:38:35 AM)

Dood . . . er ... um ... maam . . .

Were you all dressed up when you posted this?  I know DS said you're preaching to the choir but it sounds more like you're preaching to yourself and just wanted us to watch.

And about this whole gay identity thang . . . if you "have to be fem" when talking to men, you want the female role.  The female role is to serve a man's cock so quit bullshitting us and yourself.  Yes, you're gay.  Finish your job as a female attention whore and learn to suck a dick!


. . . and no you don't speak for "all the CD's and gays". 

eta: do you really expect us to take a homophobe in a woman's dress seriously?  We have seen this all before and its just rerun for us.  Good luck finding yourself and your sexual identity... 



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