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FukinTroll -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 1:53:46 PM)
Ya know, I was manacled... um... married for a very long time and the big thing I focused on was keeping the same fervor in the relationship that I had when it was brand new. It does not take a lot a work, but it takes team work, everyone involved have to want it. It took me about 15 years of dissatisfaction to finally give up the fervor ghost and another 5 for the ums to be old enough for me to feel comfortable with traveling. After I realized there was no fixing it the fervor was gone and it was just getting through until I was confident that the ums were big enough to be w/o me in the winters. I have dated a lot, and the sure ticket to bootsville is when the girl has an expectation for the relationship to cool. In fact, this time last year I kicked a girl to the curb for stating an anticipation of the relationship cool down while we were eating dinner. I asked: You really want a relationship where everything is just comfortable? She said: Well, when all this cools down... I said: Stop. Finish your dinner. She nodded and finished dinner.Now, pack up and get the hell out. She said: What? I said: I am not looking for perfect, but I will not settle for less than exceptional. Kissing, for me, is the catalyst for that fervor, that incredible alive ON TOP THE FUKIN WORLD relationship that I need. It is not a want for me, on the wants I am reasonably flexible, but my needs are inflexible and my need of partners that want to keep the fire and fervor alive in an exceptional relationship is a must. YMMV Thankies needles Slurp~

needlesandpins -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 2:08:33 PM)
ok, i have to ask....YMMV? needles

FukinTroll -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 2:12:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: needlesandpins ok, i have to ask....YMMV? needles Okay, I'll spell it wrong, but I'll tell ya anyway. Your Millage May Vary Slurp~ EDITED to fix correct spelling. DOH!

daintydimples -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 2:30:55 PM)
This: quote: ORIGINAL: flcouple2009 If I am not interested in kissing someone I am not really interested in doing anything else.

needlesandpins -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:23:27 PM)
ta very much needles ps i'm not sure i know what that means lol

soul2share -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:27:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: needlesandpins ok, i have to ask....YMMV? needles Okay, I'll spell it wrong, but I'll tell ya anyway. Your Mileage May Vary Slurp~ EDITED to fix correct spelling. DOH! Edited again to fix the other typo........ smoochies from the spelling lady. [image]http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/wetkissf.gif[/image]

poise -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:28:30 PM)
He meant to say Your Mileage May Vary. This usually means the poster is speaking from their experience only, and that it isn't a guarantee that their beliefs will be shared by all. Your Millage May Vary is a whole other subject. property taxes indeed. No wonder slave farms are thriving

soul2share -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:29:28 PM)
It's sort of slang for things work differently for different folks.....

needlesandpins -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:39:52 PM)
getcha. i like it and i may just steal it lol needles

sexyred1 -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:44:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez, FT, you are killing me.... Okay, so maybe I have a teeny tiny minuscule touch of sadism. Slurp~ Ah, but that is the good kind of sadism. There is no way kissing could be sadistic, is there?

FukinTroll -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:52:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez, FT, you are killing me.... Okay, so maybe I have a teeny tiny minuscule touch of sadism. Slurp~ Ah, but that is the good kind of sadism. There is no way kissing could be sadistic, is there? Well, that really depends if I am kissing up your neck, sinking my teeth into the nape, butterfly kissing down your chest and just hovering and inch above your lips every now and again. Kiss the neck and hover over your lips, kiss the breast and hover over your lips, kiss your ribs and then hover over your lips, nibble where your ribs flow down into your hip and then slide up to hover over your lips... inches away. Hmmm... prolly no way to make a kiss sadistic. But that just might be. Slurp~

sexyred1 -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:53:41 PM)
I knew you would come through for me, FT!!! My comment was the verbal equivalent of eyelash batting....[sm=preen.gif]

FukinTroll -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 3:56:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I knew you would come through for me, FT!!! My comment was the verbal equivalent of eyelash batting....[sm=preen.gif] And my Slurp~ is the cyber equivalent of my licking your clit. Looks like a win win to me. Slurp~

hausboy -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 4:42:50 PM)
Kissing for me is one of the most intimate things I can do. The only time I'll kiss a woman is I'm very serious about her and want to take it emotionally to the next level. I'm not a very oral person--so for me to get to that level of comfort with a woman is a big deal. I might be fisting her up to my elbow--but if the emotional piece isn't there, I won't kiss her.

soul2share -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 5:13:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez, FT, you are killing me.... Okay, so maybe I have a teeny tiny minuscule touch of sadism. Slurp~ Ah, but that is the good kind of sadism. There is no way kissing could be sadistic, is there? Well, that really depends if I am kissing up your neck, sinking my teeth into the nape, butterfly kissing down your chest and just hovering and inch above your lips every now and again. Kiss the neck and hover over your lips, kiss the breast and hover over your lips, kiss your ribs and then hover over your lips, nibble where your ribs flow down into your hip and then slide up to hover over your lips... inches away. Hmmm... prolly no way to make a kiss sadistic. But that just might be. Slurp~ I'm not sure who is the bigger sadist....the Troll or my own imagination! It's getting HOT in here! [image]http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/icecubesmiley.gif[/image] aaaaaahhhhhhhh......that's better.....

soul2share -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 5:16:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hausboy Kissing for me is one of the most intimate things I can do. The only time I'll kiss a woman is I'm very serious about her and want to take it emotionally to the next level. I'm not a very oral person--so for me to get to that level of comfort with a woman is a big deal. I might be fisting her up to my elbow--but if the emotional piece isn't there, I won't kiss her. Yep, this is me too.....I had a play partner that was absolutely the greatest sadist I've met so far, he could beat me to tears, but if he ever tried to kiss me, I'd have to call a stop on it.....the emotional connection wasn't that kind between us.

Arpig -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 6:23:37 PM)
I'm with you FT, I love kissing. As to if I'm good at it...I don't know I've never kissed myself. Some of those I've kissed have said I'm good, some have said not so good. One even said the best ever, but that was a long time ago, and she didn't have a lot of experience to judge by, so I'd hazard that I am OK at it. And I'm with Syl as well...the lips should be a destination, and sometimes the longer it takes for the kisses to get there the better. And I also agree with CalifChick about the different types of kisses and how you can just get lost in them. Your whole world just narrows to that one point of contact between your lips and her flesh. I love the taste of salty skin on my lips. I'm clearly very agreeable tonight. [:)]

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 7:45:20 PM)
i absolutely love kissing; kissing and cuddling and touchy-feeliness. little kisses, big drawn out kisses, kisses in funny places, hugs and kisses, kisses that fog up the windows. i love kissing and feeling the passion build, or kissing as the passion ebbs into contentment.

FelineFae -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 7:52:14 PM)
Why kiss when you can be someone's chew toy ?

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Let's talk about kissing (3/20/2011 7:56:33 PM)
why can't nibbling be part of kissing? =p

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