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Mercnbeth -> RE: Greetings A/all I am back (10/7/2004 3:25:45 PM)
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Being the direct and opinionated person that I am, I wanted to make sure that your previously started 'apology' thread was not forgotten.
There are some very fine, obviously caring, and honest people who post to this group. Before addressing master gold's apology or the sincerity of it, you may want to consider what has transpired previously.
This post in another lounge thread from Moderator 3 was also concerning master gold.
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Now as to the whys. I normally would not post this, however I feel a strong need to protect the users of CM and will explain my actions. And try to outline what has happened.
As everyone knows Master Gold has been asking for advice and telling everyone on this forum that he has been trying to meet someone. The members of this site have been great at offering advice and being sympathetic.
As late as 11:29 this morning he posted about still looking. And being hopeful.
Today at 4:46 he posted that he has someone and has had them. That he was on here trying to find a sub/slave for a "friend" of his who was really disabled and in a wheelchair. And that he had been less than honest with the members here. He offered an apology for his actions. Of course this set me off, I cannot stand lies.. especially in the forums. We all talk about the players and wannabe's on this and other sites. And strive to help others here.
I posted to him, when I hit reply and went back to the forum he had already removed the post. This said many things to me, as I am sure it would others as well. So I asked about the deletion of the post. He instantly started emailing me trying to take it private. Some would say so that he did not have to account for his actions on the board, I may tend to think this way as well.
Since the lie was to the entire community I refuse to go private with it, and I am not taking the original thread down just yet either. I spend a lot of time on this site, working on it to make it better and a great place to be. I try very hard to make sure we keep the forums clean of garbage.
I am not satisfied with the explanation I was given and think if he plans to stay in the forums he owes an apology and needs to be honest with everyone. I call bullshit when I see it. Always have and always will. Either be honest or I call you on it. I pay attention to things and what people say. I catch on to something that is wrong and I will call you on it. That's just the way I am. There are far too many liars as it is. I will not sit by and tolerate good community members being misled. And I do not tolerate backpedaling either.
I am waiting on an explanation.
Also consider master gold's profile....
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About My disability, Cerebral palsy is not progressive, transferrable, nor transmittable. CP effects the motor function part of the brain. Therefore there are times I do not know my own strength.
I have a very low tolerance for lies, so I'll already admit that I may be bothered more by this then others. But with all the time taken to apologize, if truly sincere, why wouldn't the profile be changed?
Forget the obviously self appointed master title, can trust ever be given again? Or is this all some kind of mass misunderstanding?
And as for your current post...quote:
If I would change my profile "" every time I found some one. It would be a long profile and or journal.
Whether you realize it or not, that speaks volumes about you. As EStrict noted, your position is incongruous with your words of sincerity and honesty. It takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it. I'd say that enough people here are suspect.
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