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I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 12:58:05 PM   
Californiabeauty


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Status: offline 		Hello: My name is Californiabeauty. I have a question...Are there any real, genuine, male Doms looking for a sensual, warm, giving genuine submissive in the San Diego, Chula Vista, east county area??? After months and months of looking, I am coming to the realization they are all on the east coast, out of the country or in Canada...they are gay, barely over the age of consent, or into very painful play...Just had to vent...
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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:13:19 PM   
myotherself


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From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline 		You've been looking for 'months and months'....seriously, that's not unusual.

It took me 5 years to find Master, and I know others who are still looking now after many years of looking.

If you're looking exclusively on here then it's going to take a long time. Why not increase your chances by looking at a local club or munch too?

Oh, and welcome to cm!

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:15:53 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the forum. I hope you feel better, now that the rant is over.
With that defeated attitude, it looks like your only viable option is to date vanilla.

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:16:54 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Or relocate to where she assumes the fab Doms are.

But assume, is the operative word.

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:17:04 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Best of luck to you.

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:18:10 PM   
mynameispez


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Status: offline 		i personally dont find collarme as a good place to find anone in your area...do you use fetlife.com?

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:19:55 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Californiabeauty

Hello: My name is Californiabeauty. I have a question...Are there any real, genuine, male Doms looking for a sensual, warm, giving genuine submissive in the San Diego, Chula Vista, east county area??? After months and months of looking, I am coming to the realization they are all on the east coast, out of the country or in Canada...they are gay, barely over the age of consent, or into very painful play...Just had to vent...


Hello Very Frustrated orrrrrr CaliforniaBeauty......please make up your mind which one. At the ripe young age of 62 one would assume you would be wiser and less whiny.

Thank you for underlining my point whenever an 'age preference' thread appears.


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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:20:05 PM   
mustlovedogs


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Status: offline 		I'm a male dom still looking. As per my sincerety? When I'm feeling it I'm feeling it.
One can not fake a feeling, at least an inward sensation.

And I am seeking as many sensations as possible before I "belly-flop" into the abyss!

If you are a sensitive, kind, slightly-damaged, lady in the L.A. area, write me!

I prefer a, "sadder but wiser" girl.

Joe

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:21:21 PM   
kissheels


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Status: offline 		i can relate to the frustration, but  i am wishing you the best of luck in your search

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 1:21:22 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Have you tried any munches or events in your area?

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 3:34:12 PM   
MzReel4Real


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From: Michigan
Status: offline 		Hello and don't feel badly about the need to vent my dryer has the same experience. Others have given you some great suggestions and advice if you decide to act on them....attend munches, become pro-active, involve yourself more on site (s) or just move. Whatever option you pick....I hope you enjoy your time here on CollarMe. You might want to consider becoming active on the forums...and allowing people to "get to know the real you" as well.



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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 6:35:18 PM   
BurntKitty


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ORIGINAL: MzReel4Real

Hello and don't feel badly about the need to vent my dryer has the same experience. Others have given you some great suggestions and advice if you decide to act on them....attend munches, become pro-active, involve yourself more on site (s) or just move. Whatever option you pick....I hope you enjoy your time here on CollarMe. You might want to consider becoming active on the forums...and allowing people to "get to know the real you" as well.




I think I <3 you!!!!

OP- listen to the others, they've offered sage advice. And welcome to CM.


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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 7:49:54 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the boards.  First rule of thumb?  Learn patience.  Second rule of thumb?  Remember that your rant is a permanent imprint now.  Meeting someone online has on a few occasions been within a few days. That's not the norm.  It can take years.  Don't settle, wait for the right man.  And yes, there are straight male Doms out there and here.

Join in the forums, get yourself known, be positive and make friends, there's some great people on here.  Some of whom have already given you great advice above my own post.  Don't settle just because you don't think you'll meet the man of your "dreams".  When you least expect it, someone will come along. 


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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 10:27:16 PM   
Arpig


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quote:

or in Canada
Of course they are! All the best things are in Canada...that's why were always on top on the maps!

Welcome aboard and good hunting.


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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/22/2011 10:38:47 PM   
WyldHrt


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quote:

Are there any real, genuine, male Doms looking for a sensual, warm, giving genuine submissive in the San Diego, Chula Vista, east county area???

There are, but they are all chasing me
Just kidding
Welcome to the forums! IMO, you have been given some good advice. Relying on any online site is not the best way to meet people. You will have more success if you join in, both on the forums and in the RL community.


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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/23/2011 12:11:06 AM   
kissheels


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

or in Canada
Of course they are! All the best things are in Canada...that's why were always on top on the maps!

Welcome aboard and good hunting.





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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/23/2011 12:24:43 AM   
FukinTroll


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From: Under a bridge
Status: offline 		I have been on this site for a long time, but in this general market for a much longer time. If it weren't for these pesky standards I am sure I could be living in a designer refrigerator box with some sleaze as we speak.

Must do something about that crap. Maybe I will go to the Health and Safety thread, after all, where else could you get better medical advice than from a bunch of sadists and masochists.


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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/23/2011 5:08:44 AM   
CountThisOut


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

  It can take years. 





Like tiggers said - this will be my lucky year on CM I just now it. 7 is my lucking number... I'll just keep writing to all the bots and maybe by some rare chance the human that wrote the script will be checking it in an archival back up and write. LOL

Calf. Beauty not that you care, just a vent post but with in a few years of CM first going live it was pretty much scoffed upon by the kink community as a viable life style web based socializing tool. Why it still exists is a good question. Maybe like that pathetically bad signer on Star search that as a goof was voted number one, it is the same mind set with CM.

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/23/2011 5:51:16 AM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Californiabeauty

Hello: My name is Californiabeauty. I have a question...Are there any real, genuine, male Doms looking for a sensual, warm, giving genuine submissive in the San Diego, Chula Vista, east county area??? After months and months of looking, I am coming to the realization they are all on the east coast, out of the country or in Canada...they are gay, barely over the age of consent, or into very painful play...Just had to vent...


Do you want just any Dom or do you want the right Dom?

The right Dom is unlikely to be available at the snap of your fingers.

Patience.

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RE: I AM VERY FRUSTRATED - 3/23/2011 6:47:16 AM   
0ldhen


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mynameispez

i personally dont find collarme as a good place to find anone in your area...do you use fetlife.com?



PPPPPPTTTTTHHHHHPPPPPTTTTTTT...............................

I've met in RLRT more folks off collarme than, I could even find to talk to on that other site.

To the OP, hang out on the forums, go to munches, write a nice profile here.

And welcome to cm!



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