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Do you ever have to beg? - 10/7/2004 11:17:23 AM

Nettles

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I've got kind of an odd question (or question group): Have you ever been made to beg, either by your dominant or your own needs, and how did/does it make you feel?

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/7/2004 12:06:20 PM

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Ugggggggg! I am the worst begger in the whole wide world. I am So incredibly stubbourn that I get into the mindset "if i have to beg for it, forget it" ....but then I find myself wanting or needing something so badly that I am right on verge of doing what I don't want to do, and that is beg! I imagine that for me to actually beg it would have to be something BIG! ....otherwise, it just wouldn't feel right. You can't fake a good beggance (did I just make that word up too?!?) moment.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/7/2004 12:44:06 PM

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Hmmmmmm Beg huh....

Begging doesn’t turn me on sexually but what does is seeing the Dom enjoy it so for Him yes i do it and enjoy it. I do feel however i am not very good at it but that maybe because it is something that isn't a turn on for me in general but just a turn on because it is pleasing for the Dom.

i don't mind begging and have actually tried to find help on begging because i feel it is something i am not that good at. Sometimes i don't know what to say *smiles* other then please please Oh Please Sir!! Or more, please don't stop... see i sound silly huh?

My needs are meet by pleasing so if the Dom likes to hear me whine and beg i do it! There is a lot i will do that isn't really a sexual turn on for me long as it isn't something that turns me off or i am afraid of.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/7/2004 12:58:11 PM

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THIS IS MY OPINION ONLY....that stated,

First to define the word beg:a.To ask for as charity, b.to entreat(ask earnestly, emplore)

Do i as a slave girl beg? Yes and i do so with great honor. To beg means one knows their place, understanding that one has been chosen by her Master to do His will. Personally is see no difference in begging than saying please and thank you. Most people see the word beg and view it in a negative way, i see the word and find joy in doing such.

Many women have been told to beg before cumming, and do so with glee..so what is the difference? For one to beg for basic things simply shows that she understands who and what she is, it does not in any way make her value less.

Be very clear though that at work or in the general public is much different, it is not ones Master she speaks to. There is a time and a place for everything, what i do with a slaves pride before Master, i most certainly would not do before my boss. My behavior at all times is such that my Master can be proud, be He there or not. (giggles, well sometimes here in this forum this slave speaks a bit too much of her mind, and is held accountable for it)

Not sure if this helps, for it is only my humble experience.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/7/2004 5:04:55 PM

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Begging is serving a Masters commands. A slaves existance is for Masters pleasure. Master makes it beg and it is honored to do so.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/7/2004 5:56:23 PM

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quote:

Ugggggggg! I am the worst begger in the whole wide world. I am So incredibly stubbourn that I get into the mindset "if i have to beg for it, forget it" ....but then I find myself wanting or needing something so badly that I am right on verge of doing what I don't want to do, and that is beg! I imagine that for me to actually beg it would have to be something BIG! ....otherwise, it just wouldn't feel right. You can't fake a good beggance (did I just make that word up too?!?) moment.

Midear Syn-

I just checked your profile to be sure you weren't my ex<g> (you're not).

I love making a girl beg, and it's especially good when it comes hard to her, and I can just make her break and babble for what she wants.

Yummy.

My favorite word in the english language is 'please', particullay when pronounced

"p-p-p-pleeeeee- ohmygodppppleeeassssssse!!!!
( that should be about sixteen syablles)

Even in 'vanilla' sex, I'll stop just as I am entering and ask 'yes?'- the girls that answer with 'please' immediatly are always the keepers<g>.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/8/2004 12:18:26 AM

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Not my thing. I have too much dignity even in the deepest parts of sub-space to actually beg. I can ask, in all humility, for some gift or boon, but it never actually comes out with that certian timbre that tops are looking for when they want you to beg for something. I've just spent too much of my life doing without. I have never been that invested in anything - including my own life. Probably just as well. Apparantly cold quiet resignation is unnerving to crackhead muggers.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/8/2004 4:16:54 AM

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Quite a few Doms and Dommes answering this question ....

From a submissive's standpoint, I have to agree with RoeBabe ... begging does nothing for me, but it can be quite a nice thing for the Domme. I had one who wouldn't make me beg, per se, but would make me admit that I enjoyed the current situation she had me in ... which wasn't hard to do

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/10/2004 11:46:12 AM

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Have to beg? No. Wind up begging? Yes.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/10/2004 2:07:19 PM

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me beg? ...ummm nope. Errrr, well, ok. One time, so far, .. i have.

One time ... after having actually lost count of how many times Master caused me to orgasm one evening, i decided i was physically exhausted and i begged Him to stop. He didn't stop. In fact my begging resulted in Him doing quite alot... EXCEPT stopping. my Master always has the final say. my begging has no effect on Him. i begged that one time. i haven't begged since.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/10/2004 4:12:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nettles

I've got kind of an odd question (or question group): Have you ever been made to beg, either by your dominant or your own needs, and how did/does it make you feel?

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My begging is mostly tied to sex, and is definitely for my Master's amusement, but also a little reminder of how lucky I am to be his and in that position in the first place. The first time I did it I felt silly and stupid, and also couldn't think of anything to say other than "please, I beg you." lol But now, I only have to project how I really would feel if I were unable to touch him, and the desperation and begging flows, and the relief at the first touch is enough to put me in subspace.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/10/2004 7:06:49 PM

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my begging has no effect on Him. i begged that one time

It's a toss up, her begging me to stop, or then begging me not to.........................

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/11/2004 5:35:48 PM

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Ok, I can understand just what you mean, but... How did/do you feel when you finally let go and put yourself into your "beggance" (yeah, you did and it's a good 'un)

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/11/2004 5:38:44 PM

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Yesss, I can see that. But I meant being sooooo needy for something that you simply opened yoursrlf up and begged for it, not to satisfy anyone else, but because you needed it so badly that you lost/relinquished self-control?

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/11/2004 5:44:42 PM

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Thanks, gitta...

I think I understand where you're coming from. Mostly, I'm trying to find out if anyone has ever been reduced to whimpering, blubbering, craving, needy begging. This is not about satisfying one's dominant (although I would be VERY satisfied if my sub ever went this far), but needing something so badly you simply have to beg because you simply have to get it, whether it's stopping, going farther, an orgasm or whatever.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/11/2004 5:47:32 PM

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Thanks, kajari...

I think I see what you mean. My question concerned more of being so needy that you had to beg regardless of consequences.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/11/2004 5:53:56 PM

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Thanks, Suleiman,

I think you've hit the mark here. If I understand you correctly, you simply control your "neediness" out of dignity. I've been looking for instances of people discarding that dignity because the need became so great.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/11/2004 5:55:55 PM

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Thanks, danae...

Can you describe how that makes you feel?

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/12/2004 10:36:41 AM

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Greetings.

Geez, it was nice to hear from other subbies that have difficulty begging!

i, too, have an incredibly difficult time begging - not because i think it's beneath me or because i'm stubborn or willful. my difficulty stems from a few things i believe. First, when i'm scening i tend to drift off to subspace quickly and that in turn hinders my communicative abilities. Second, i think i concentrate too much on trying too hard to beg - i think just repeating 'pppppppuuuuuuuhhhhllllleeeeeeeezzzzzzzzeeeeee' over and over sounds silly (which isn't helped by the fact that i think everything i say in subspace sounds funny). How does all of this generally make me feel? Well, if i'm pressed to continue begging for a long period of time i'm likely to become increasingly frustrated with my perceived failure and pretty much pull myself out of any subspace or role that i was in which in turn makes it even more difficult to beg.

Though, i've recently encountered a couple times where begging has ripped out of me quite unexpectedly while in a pain subspace. *laughs* well, not sure if the instance where i yelled out 'That's not fair!' really counts but it most certainly had a petulant ring to it! In these cases, i hadn't been asked to beg nor did i even realize what was coming out of my mouth until i'm wearing a shocked expression and watching my Master grin up at me laughing so perhaps that's the key for me - no thinking, no direction, just plain reaction to my Master.

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RE: Do you ever have to beg? - 10/12/2004 12:22:55 PM

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When it comes right down to it the bottom line is what is it that you do or don't want and what are the parameters to your getting it. Enough said!

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