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How do I get started ? - 3/26/2011 12:53:21 AM

catta

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Ok Im comletely new to this . I have many questions and dont know quite where to look for the answers. Maybe I can gat a few from here ?
1. I have always thought of myself as straight , but have always enjoyed rough sex where I am the dominant one and treat the other party a little rough

2. I have lately had gay fantasies and have been with a few guys but only penetrated once - but it was an awsome experience - would like to try it again even with female - penetrating me with toys etc...

3. Generally however I would like a submissive girl - what should I expect ? Where do I look ? how best to gao about it ? !

sorry for all the questions - but im really confused ....HELP PLS

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/26/2011 1:06:12 AM

Jennislut

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find a submissive girl and tell her to penetrate you.

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/26/2011 1:24:09 AM

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or find a sub girl who doesnt have an issue with a bisexual dominant who wants to act on that bisexuality.

*edited to complete the thought*

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/26/2011 6:44:51 AM

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So you basically want to try a bunch of stuff and see what works for you. I'd suggest a local club if you were in the US. I don't know what opportunities there are in Malta - start looking!

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/29/2011 7:41:20 PM

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Maybe try switching/power exchange.

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/29/2011 7:45:23 PM

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I would not worry about getting into a relationship. I think its clear that you need to experience what the world has to offer.
Wear a condom - have others wear condoms with you - and have fun.

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/29/2011 7:57:56 PM

CarpeComa

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First you must cut down the largest tree in the forest... with a herring!

Barring that, I suggest reading a lot and talking with people.

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RE: How do I get started ? - 3/29/2011 10:02:49 PM

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