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agirl -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 2:41:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 quote: ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1 Now I know this might not sound like much of a challenge to some of you A "challenge" can only be understood in context. Everybody's challenges are their own. Carol is afraid of heights. It is a serious challenge for her to climb a ladder. It is not for me because I don't have the fear. I'm afraid of being eaten by sharks (despite a ridiculous three million to one ratio in who eats who). It is a challenge for me to get into the deep blue whereas it's not for Carol. She doesn't have the fear. It is never the specific challenge that matters. What matters is how we face our fears. As Jeff mentioned....a challenge is the most personal thing.(I'm convinced I'm going to, at least, get sucked by a Basking Shark if I splosh in the sea. I feel your fear Jeff!) I don't actually care HOW I face my fears but I get a little bit of high when I do. In fact I've got a list as long as my arm of things I'm (supposedly irrationally) afraid of.I only have to smash one, for my confidence to shoot skyward for a good while. It has all sorts of beneficial knock-on effects. I'm an enormous wuss in the most incredible ways....pathetically so, frankly. We all have our personal victories........it'd be self-defeating to compare. I had my first (and only) tattoo this weekend. No biggie to anyone else, in fact pretty damn boring. Not to ME though......I had no objection and no worries about being marked for life, but I WAS apprehensive about the pain, the process and the site (my mons). It was also unexpected...ie, I had no idea that this was the day! There's marked difference between your latest post and the one where you felt sorely challenged. agirl

domiguy -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 3:18:12 PM)
This is the real dealio. If you don't feel it, don't fucking do it. It's your fucking body. Maybe your guys is a complete douche and just wants to show you off like you are some farm animal. Just to let you know, if you are not completely fucking ugly, repulsive or disfigured you are going to stick out like a sore thumb due to you being young and about one hundred pounds less than the average woman at one of these soirees. From your description you are attractive and people will stare. Expect it. If you are an exhibitionist and like that fact that fat and leather bound people will be staring at your naked body then go for it. If not, have some dignity and tell him to go fuck himself.

Asherscorp1 -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 4:33:30 PM)
domiguy, I feel that most of your post isn't worthy of a response but I will say this, "having some dignity" as you so put it would never, ever involved telling my Master to "go fuck himself" over a command he has given me. Anything that even implies that course of action is offensive and wrong-headed to me.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 4:42:19 PM)
Honey, I don't know if you've come across domiguy yet - but if you haven't then he's... not to be taken entirely seriously, generally speaking. In this particular case he's got a bit of a bugbear about the public scene - I think it's because he knows his arse would look inferior in ''proper DOMLY' leather trousers. He knows a utility belt would not flatter him. [8D][8D]

Asherscorp1 -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 4:46:41 PM)
Well, he does a good job coming across as an ass. If it's all a joke then I am sure he will only laugh at me pointing that out.

domiguy -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 4:57:11 PM)
Maybe a tad bit too strong? What would type of a command would it take for you to go tell "Master" to go fuck himself? It says right in your profile that you "hate" Exhibitionism. Maybe you will enjoy being stripped down and beat in front of a bunch of black leather bound bratwurst. You only said that you hate it, but what does your opinion mean anyways? Absolutely nothing. Why did you even bother posting? Afterall, you are just an insignificant female slave.

sexyred1 -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 4:58:19 PM)
Black leather bound bratwurst is a seriously hard limit. How dare you scare her with that!! You bad man.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 5:30:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1 Well, he does a good job coming across as an ass. If it's all a joke then I am sure he will only laugh at me pointing that out. It's kind of...halfway between a joke and seriousness. If you're coming from the perspective that the scene is a nasty, scary place full of scary people (which he is, for reasons I've never quite understood), and that coercive force in a relationship is a bad thing (as far as I know, that's just not how he rolls) then his point - that you're being pushed to do something you don't want to, and at the end of the day you don't have to do it - is valid. He's just...colourful in his expression of it. He's part of the furniture. If you stick around long enough then you'll start to miss him when he doesn't post. (By which I mean: hi, domi. Nice to see you. Stop being such a douche to the nice lady. :p)

heartcream -> RE: Fishing ... (3/28/2011 7:11:56 PM)
One man's douche is another man's voice of reason. I find domi really funny and even wise in his humor. I dont know if domi is a douche but for me he is worth listening to, surprisingly kind and informed.

ranja -> RE: Fishing ... (3/29/2011 12:43:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Asherscorp1 We did go to the party well fuck me , who'd have thought that sooo how did you get him to take you there? after what i got from your other two posts it seems he needed prodding... i want to know where you prodded

Aynne88 -> RE: Fishing ... (3/29/2011 7:04:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heartcream One man's douche is another man's voice of reason. I find domi really funny and even wise in his humor. I dont know if domi is a douche but for me he is worth listening to, surprisingly kind and informed. Yep. I don't think his post was meant to be funny at all, what he said is true. If you don't like how it's worded...well..semantics I guess, but he's right.

Asherscorp1 -> RE: Fishing ... (3/29/2011 7:31:39 AM)
Ranja, we spent the better part of two days discussing our relationship and one of the best traits M has is that as soon as something his brought to his attention he fixes it. So ... he did. Lol. In fact two nights before we went to the party He showed me how sadistic he can be when he chooses to. Doesn't mean my first assessment wasn't correct. Him being hesitant to let that side show was something we talked a lot about and there was a lot of discussion about what makes a person a bad person and what makes a Dom a good Dom. He has never had a sub who was sincerely masochistic so things He felt should have been pusing me were, to me, just teasing. Once He understood that I truly have a much higher tolerance than He has seen before He was able to start letting go of beliefs that had been put in place by other people.

ranja -> RE: Fishing ... (3/29/2011 9:33:05 AM)
Lucky you, your conversational skills must be much better than mine though my man is just as keen to fix things when i eventually manage to express myself in a manner He understands... unfortunately His stance on public play is like Domiguys and just as unlikely to change... ah well, i go dancing instead

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Fishing ... (3/29/2011 1:23:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ranja Lucky you, your conversational skills must be much better than mine That...really doesn't surprise me much. If you talk like you post, so are most people's.

ranja -> RE: Fishing ... (3/30/2011 2:22:20 AM)
i forgive you

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