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MizChief -> Lovely service (5/8/2006 3:08:27 AM)

My lovely gloriousangel had her first experience of a different kind of scene yesterday. She always performs ((big grin)) beautifully when she is being whipped, beaten, spanked (oh I could go on and on but I would get so distracted and never get the post written) .. she is so very responsive and although she is still learning she is amazingly willing to work hard to do things well.

but yesterday she spent the day at a large (100+ people) family party that my husband and I held, being a general dog's body, looking after me, following me around, making sure that my needs were always met. She performed this service with a constant and unfailing smile, and everyone asked "WHo is she?" and I explained she was a friend of ours there to help- and so many said "She sure is a loving friednd- she takes such good care of you"- "What a nice girl"...  (I have a physical disability and need help getting some things done, so people know I often need assistance). She anticipated our needs (mine and my husband, her Master as well), and she spent time with our guests making them feel at home and welcome. She worked in the kitchen, she worked picking up.... she worked her beautiful bottom to the bone (well, luckily there is still plenty left there for us!!!). She did get a chance to eat and drink, but she put everyone else first, and did this with complete and total joy.

Never once did I need to look around and think "WHere is she?" She was always right were I needed her to be.

To have her "scene" in this way was a new thing for her, and she excelled. She was graceful, worked hard to please, and was a shining example of loving service. We felt so proud of her, I am still high from my happiness at how good and special  her service made me feel.

We were too tired when we got home to have any real "other" play, so we just snuggled and fussed a bit, and then sadly had to send her home, but she never complained and never asked anything for herself. We did talk about how things went, and she never even realised how her actions were such beautiful service.I wonder how often subbies don't realise the how their behaviour, outside of a physcial "true" S&M scene, can make a Dom's heart sing.

I guess I just wanted to post and say how wonderful I felt when she worked so hard to do her best to serve no matter what that service is. Her grace, caring and willingness were such wonderful gifts to her Master and Miss yesterday. Dollface, I am so very, very proud of you.

It's easy to be a subbie when you are the one getting all the physcial stimulation and fuss, and when all the attention is focused on you- so much more difficult when you are expected to be part of the background and get none of the credit or attention for yourself, and when you have to work so very hard at work that really isnt very much fun. Not many subbies put "cleaning up a huge mess after a party" as one of their kinks.

Thank you, Dollface, not just for all your help, but for being so loving and so absolutely selfless... I am so proud of you.

B.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 4:34:58 AM)

you are more then welcome miss.  I had a great time at the party.  In fact i enjoyed every part of helping you and Master.  Anytime I have a little task as well but need to speak to master about it.  You will be proud of me for what I am about to do for you and master




RavenMuse -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 4:38:32 AM)

There are too many out there that think of submission as solely a sexual thing rather than something embracing a lifestyle. Whilst that maybe fun at times, it isn't, for me, the core of D/s.

Looks like you have found a lovely girl and heres hoping everything continues to go well for you all.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 4:45:27 AM)

Yes I am so happy to be a part of them ravenmuse.

People look at bdsm and think of it as purely punishment and sex but there is more to it.  And i am enjoying every moment of it,  I am so lucky to have a Master and a Miss that care about me so much as they do.




RavenMuse -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 4:52:22 AM)

Absolutely sweetie, as I've said in other threads, I can Top someone I don't care about but I couldn't be her Master. For me the drive to take control, to take responcibility for her comes from the point where I start to care. What happens outside the bedroom is every bit as important as what happens inside it, often more so.

You look to have found a couple who match well with what you need, lucky girl and lucky owners. Nice to see.[:D]




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 5:15:36 AM)

Yes they know that I am going through a very hard time at the moment not going into detail as it will upset me.  But they are helping me come to tearns with it.  And I am very very lucky.  They are so proud and keep saying where did Master find someone so caring as me.





LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 6:27:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse
There are too many out there that think of submission as solely a sexual thing rather than something embracing a lifestyle. Whilst that maybe fun at times, it isn't, for me, the core of D/s.

Looks like you have found a lovely girl and heres hoping everything continues to go well for you all.

I don't think there are "too many" of anyone thinking anything (OK I think too many people try and box people in, but that's a life thing, not a Ds thing).  For them, it's based on sex and that's just as good as whatever core you have.

I think service in non-sexual ways is great and awesome.  At the movie store this weekend I stood guard on the collection my partners gathered as they perused.  One woman looked over at my (rather large) pile and asked if those were on the rack or mine.  I said that they were for my guys who were wandering around.  She asked why they weren't the ones looking.  I told her I'd already finished looking and wanted them to enjoy themselves.  She said that they were very lucky to have me.

Was it a big deal?  Not really to me.  Was it something a nice vanilla person would do, or even a dominant?  Absolutely.  But it was taking the opportunity to be together and just have a good time.  It felt good to me to be able to serve in that small capacity.

I also don't see anything wrong with asking for something for yourself.  I'm not a slave to be a martyr.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 6:28:43 AM)

good point there




RapturesDaddy -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 11:23:32 AM)

For me, NON-sexual servitude from a submisssive is as erotic, and sometimes more pleasing than sexual related actvites. Just depends on the moment and situation at hand, and how the "deed is done".

Perhaps because it shows devotion and not simple sex drive?

I tend not to question the reasons, but relish in these moments when they materialize.




proudsub -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 12:54:16 PM)

quote:

so much more difficult when you are expected to be part of the background and get none of the credit or attention for yourself, and when you have to work so very hard at work that really isnt very much fun. Not many subbies put "cleaning up a huge mess after a party" as one of their kinks.


I'm glad it went so well for all involved.

Being submissive to my Hubby, this is how i have lived my life for the last 37 years, we only added bedroom kink to it about 3 yrs ago.[:)]




juliaoceania -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 1:05:52 PM)

Thank you for sharing this, it truly made my day to read it.




thetammyjo -> RE: Lovely service (5/8/2006 1:18:54 PM)

You slave is a truly wonderful person. You are blessed by her devotion and service and I'm sure you and your husband have in turn been blessing her with your love and guidance.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/9/2006 12:28:28 AM)

I must admit yes they always show me there love we text each other every day and I am seeing him tomorrow and I am visiting his wife today.  It will be a nice suprise for her as she is not well at the moment.  I am enjoying learning the different ways to serving and pleasing my master and my miss




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/9/2006 1:08:08 PM)

I went to see my Miss in hospital today as she is not very well.  While i was there I was asked if I would shower her and wash her hair.  I never hestitated to say no i just carried on and did it to please her and for me to feel like I have done something to make her happy.  She said that she was very happy and that she was wiped out which means very tired.  I just want my miss to get well soon and come home as I miss seeing her at her house.




MrMister -> RE: Lovely service (5/9/2006 1:38:52 PM)

It is always so refreshing to hear of those that have found each other, and are enjoying something so wonderful.

And well wishes go out to MizChief. Hoping you get well very, very soon.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/9/2006 1:45:33 PM)

Thank you I will pass on best wishes to her and I will tell her about this post.  Thank you once again masters and sirs.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/10/2006 5:31:33 AM)

My miss was so proud of my services yesterday that she was still gleaming this morning from me washing her hair and just generally being there.




bandit25 -> RE: Lovely service (5/10/2006 5:43:07 AM)

What a wonderful post.  You are all truly lucky.




gloriousangel -> RE: Lovely service (5/10/2006 5:48:43 AM)

Master has also emailed me to say that I went out of my way to see her.  I live one side of town and they live the other.  I went all the way over there to see her.  I got a bit lost in the process but I thought to myself shall i give up and go home I thought no I will get a taxi and see her.  She was so shocked to see me.  Obviously we cant talk about the scene while she is in hospital mind you one of the nurses called someone a tart and she was disappointed that she was not calling her a tart or me for a matter.  So then we went into the shower area where we had a little cuddle and kiss as we can lock the door.  Now she is in  alot of pain with her back I am going to give her so much love when she comes out.




theRose4U -> RE: Lovely service (5/10/2006 9:14:04 PM)

It's sweet to hear of one so devoted for a change instead of all the rants of I'm brand new and no one's claimed me.

Good energy being sent your way.




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