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Femdom/Humiliation question for beginners - 4/3/2011 12:17:04 AM

Inochi

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I use to be on this site a lot, but now that I am engaged and have found the love of my life the next step in our relationship is on its way. About 7months ago I told her after some issues in bed. I told her about some of my fetishes and desires to have fun in the bedroom and out. Well she took well to them one of them being a forced feminization role for me which was different for her at first, but has become just another thing now. It's hard to find such an understanding woman who has never heard of the lifestyle till now, and wants to do as much as she can for me. The problem we are running into now is she is having a lack of ideas to use during play. It's hard for me to really tell her all my ideas without me feeling like I am just coaxing her along. So I was wondering if any of you Mistresses out there would be able to supply some fun ideas that may fit our following scenario.

Normally if we are going to have a "fun" day/days I get dressed up heels dress whole shabang then it follows with just pleasing her, doing some housework, and what not then it kinda plays down because she runs out of ideas or after hse has came a few times and does not seem as interested. She says she wants to be but is unsure what to do after that. She recently bought a strap on without me knowing and supriesed me in bed with it. Which i was ungodly impressed and a little scared but it was fun and my first time using one. We have a whole house to play in at anytime, and a soon to be fenced in backyard to play in. So if you could think of some ways to add to the fun,tips,ideas,punishments,tortures :P I would me much obliged.

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RE: Femdom/Humiliation question for beginners - 4/3/2011 1:45:09 AM

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If I were her, I'd lie you down on your back on the floor and pee in you, with you drinking every drop and then lovingly, sweetly cleaning me up with your tongue afterwards.

And I'd catheterize you and fill your bladder with a LOT of saline.... And then have you hold it in, and beg permission to go pee. If I gave you permission eventually, I'd lead you to the bathroom by your cock, and hold it myself while you pee....

Or maybe instead I'd have you stand and hold it for me to the point of failure (until you wet yourself) and then funish you gleefully.

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RE: Femdom/Humiliation question for beginners - 4/3/2011 8:56:31 AM

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I'd personally go for Claudia Varrin's books. They are full of ideas with some practical advice along the way.

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RE: Femdom/Humiliation question for beginners - 4/4/2011 12:39:00 PM

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Or AAkasha's good girl's guide to domination. Utterly fantastic resource - google it.

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RE: Femdom/Humiliation question for beginners - 4/8/2011 3:39:41 PM

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Hi.

It might be fun if she took you shopping with you all dressed up. I like taking a sissy slave shopping. I know a slave that likes it when I wear pantyhose and he likes to touch it. I have fun slapping at his hand and he likes that too. Sometimes I'll have him wear hose under his pants so we're both dressed up pretty. Public play can be fun.

Other times I'll humiliate him at home. I'll dress him up and he'll cook for me and do dishes and after we'll cuddle and watch TV together.

I like sissy slaves. Wish I had more of them.

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