Temperature play vs Impact

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Lashra -> Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 5:39:00 AM)
I'm just curious about something. This weekend I did a knife wielding rape scenario with my male sub which went beautifully. He took to knife play like a fish to water. Now we've never played with temperature play before so I introduced that this weekend as well. He seemed to like it ok but afterwards during our cuddling aftercare, he said though he enjoyed it, he preferred impact play to the temperature play. As the impact play seemed to get him deeper into subspace. Which is where I wanted him to go. I was just curious because I've heard so many female subs say how they LOVE temperature play and can really get into subspace with it. I havent heard what many male subs think of it. The two submales that I've spoken to say yes they do prefer the impact play. Is it an individual thing or could it be gender related? I'm just curious and wanted to hear others thoughts. ~Lashra

Halcyone -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 5:58:09 AM)
I'm a female submissive. I hate cold. Hatehatehate. The few times I've suffered through play with ice, I've been about as far from subspace as I can get. Impact play (and knife play), on the other hand, is delicious.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 7:20:45 AM)
Personally I haven't noticed any gender differences. I think most people like impact more than temperature play. I know I dislike temperature play.

BitaTruble -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 5:22:53 PM)
I like heat play but if Himself keep the ice cubes in the tray and the squirt gun for the kidlets, I'd never complain. I don't embrace being cold.. no doubt why I live in MN. lol Celeste

kyraofMists -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 5:36:34 PM)
I like heat play and I don't like ice play. I tolerate pain really well, but the pain from ice is just not something I have learned to process. I really enjoy impact play. I think some of my more memorable impact plays have been when he started out hard and fast. I become aggressive and it leads into a great scene. Knight's kyra

fastlane -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 6:17:29 PM)
Since it is summer..bring the heat on...I love it. Ice cubes melt sooo fast and working up a sweat is easy, even in the shower. Fastlane buys exta deoderant and sez ..Let the games begin....kevin

Littlepita -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 7:22:04 PM)
I also can't stand cold play. My Joe got the ice cubes the other day and I was protesting loudly! I do like heat play though. Especially with my Pyrex dildo that he heats in very hot water. Swoons

akisha -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/8/2006 8:36:50 PM)
Personally I like both. Being blindfolded, having hot wax dripped on you then stroked with ice is totally amazing smiles Being paddled or flogged till your skin is on fire is just as good. I think i need to do both alot more before i could decide which is better weg [:D]

allspicey -> RE: Temperature play vs Impact (5/10/2006 2:13:21 AM)
I'm with akisha. I like both, preferably alternating. There is nothing like having an ice cube melt in an intimate place then having a mouth that's been warmed by a hot drink clamp down. Whoooeeee! Wax play really gets me as well. I hope one day Master will try flashing as it's kewl when done right. allspice{T}

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