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SailingBum -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/5/2011 10:39:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming If you think he's being a dickwad to the kids, STAND UP FOR THEM. You're their mother- not a potted plant. You GO, girl! [:)] Hijack... dreamerdreamin check your email you dolt sheesh.. Back to the drama. BadOne

IrishMist -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/5/2011 11:15:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Any submissive that has children quickly learns what being a "switch" is all about. [;)] LOL Miss Tazzy, you could not have said it better

thishereboi -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/6/2011 5:06:48 AM)
I usually roll up a newspaper and hit him in the nose with it.

sunshinemiss -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/6/2011 5:32:57 PM)
Sunny Quote of the Day goes to dreamerdreaming [sm=cute.gif] for You're their mother - not a potted plant.

lizi -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/7/2011 6:08:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovelyesme thanks for all the answers, suggestions, and support. Do not be misled-He is a loving father, a safe one, but at times, clueless. i know too well how easily parents can injure adolescent spirits. i would never hesitate to stand up for my wee ones between even moderate emotional or physical harm. i was/am curious how to blend these familiar parts-Mamma Bear with new ones-submissive-so getting feedback is extremely helpful. Thanks. i am sure i'll have many others.... esme There is a lot of room in a D/s dynamic for respectfully bringing up this type of thing. My Dominant is not perfect, however I'm not interested in letting him know that I notice that. When I have something to say or to offer to a situation, I say it - in a respectful and circumspect manner. (True story) Him: Let's do a 100 mile bike ride this Saturday! Me: Sounds fun, however I've only ever ridden up to 50 miles with you in our past rides, do you think I could handle something like that and still enjoy it? I get so little time with you, I'd hate to spend it with leg cramps throwing up in the bushes. Him: Let's do a 50 mile bike ride this Saturday and if things are going well, we'll go for a new record and do a couple more! Me: Gosh, great idea! I'll pack sandwiches and get our emergency kit ready Friday night- if you think of anything else we'll need call me and I'll grab it before heading up there Sat. I'm not interested in making him look bad, after all I picked him. I view my job in our relationship as that of being his executive assistant. If I don't assist whenever I can, I'm selling our relationship short. He will not lead as effectively without my input. I have a choice as to how to format the input and I try to do it unobtrusively, kindly, respectfully.

TreasureKY -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/7/2011 9:42:09 PM)
Fast Reply: Despite the idea that respectfully communicating your feelings is acceptable, be prepared for it not to be. Some men can't handle hearing anything negative, no matter how nicely you try to communicate. Some don't care. [8\|]

IrishMist -> RE: when He is er, not at HIs best (4/8/2011 9:19:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TreasureKY Fast Reply: Despite the idea that respectfully communicating your feelings is acceptable, be prepared for it not to be. Some men can't handle hearing anything negative, no matter how nicely you try to communicate. Some don't care. [8\|] How true that is [&:]

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