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Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 5:14:11 PM

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I have been with the same Mistress online now for about a year, we enjoy ourselves as often as we can. Recently though, she has become swamped with work and has had zero time to be a domme. Being the good little slut that I am I have remained patient. Last time we talked, she brought up the idea of a "masturbation schedule". Something like Monday, you can masturbate from 7-8. Tuesday you can't masturbate. Wednesday you must masturbate at noon, and send me a picture of it. Obviously more specific than that, but that's the general idea. I was wondering if anyone here had tried something similar and how well it worked out, and if you had, if you could possibly send me a copy of the schedule so that I can present her with some ideas. Thank you all for your time.

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RE: Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 5:26:40 PM

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Yes, its been done- but no, we don't want to help you dom yourself.

Edit to add: would it kill you to smile for your avatar pic, OP?

*puts on helpful cap*

If she wants you to masturbate on a schedule, you're the one who knows what would work for you. We don't know what would fit with your existing schedule. So communicate with her.

Really, it sounds like she's just not that into you. How hard is it to have a conversation about this, with her?

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RE: Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 5:32:54 PM

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There are 7 days in a week.
Each day has 24 hours.
Hope that helped!

I'd really love to offer you some guidelines, but I'm having
a hard enough time just keeping both hands on the keyboard.

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RE: Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 6:06:48 PM

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Dang it, poise. I just love that picture!!

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RE: Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 8:19:41 PM

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I'm going to try to temper a knee jerk reaction here and make sense while I am overworked, overtired and have one kick ass headache. I may not do so well. lol

It was your overworked/overwhelmed dominant's idea for a masturbation schedule and you want any of us that have done this to send your our time line or method? Darlin, it isn't rocket science.

Bottom line is that your dominant doesn't have time to be a domme, you say... and yet she is going to work out a masturbation schedule she is going to have to monitor? That sure sounds like being a dominant to me and it is one hell of a lot of time... with most guys. How long is this work schedule going to be? If there is an end to it... guess what buddy? My way would be either... freely masturbate, maybe in certain ways... and don't bother me with the details or... no play for the playtoy!

What does not having time to be domme mean anyway? I am dominant all the time. If I have a submissive, I am his dominant all the time, whether we play or not... it doesn't matter. How long can you be patient? I mean... this is mostly for you... so... how is that being patient? So patient you want to get the ball rolling so to speak and bring to your overworked and most likely tired domina... a plan for her idea?

Sweetheart... something just isn't right about this picture. Maybe it is me... maybe it is the situation or you. It's your job to figure that one out. You won't be graded. I am overworked and tired.

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RE: Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 8:39:31 PM

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OP, I'm of the opinion that, since she's your mistress and the one with the hectic schedule, she should be the one creating a schedule for you. If it were me, I'd put you in chastity and make you wait until I had time for you. I'm evil like that.

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RE: Setting up a schedule - 4/4/2011 9:55:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

OP, I'm of the opinion that, since she's your mistress and the one with the hectic schedule, she should be the one creating a schedule for you. If it were me, I'd put you in chastity and make you wait until I had time for you. I'm evil like that.

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