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stellauk -> RE: Honest Question (4/8/2011 5:01:15 AM)
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Well having started such a thread congratulations on being a One Kink Wonder.
What is a One Kink Wonder you may ask? A One Kink Wonder is a submissive, usually a male, who becomes incredibly focussed and obsessed with one particular kink. It takes over. It dominates his entire life. It can ruin relationships, endless hours are taken up on the Internet typing in specific words on search engines and seeking the One Kink, bringing feelings of excitement, wonder, arousal, and quite a few stiffies.
It can take away so much time, for a trigger can happen anywhere, at any time, at any place. A trigger can be a word in a conversation, a woman walking by you on the street, a picture on the Internet and that's it.. you're gone.. You struggle to get through the rest of the working day. You come home from the supermarket having bought turkey drumsticks and you cannot understand why. And it can lead to furtive twenty minute marathons in the cubicle at work as you work yourself up furiously trying to conjure up the images and imagine just for that release. You get jizz on your fingers, your dating skills and your attention span suffers, and it can really screw up your life.
The problem is is that any potential friendship or relationship you could have with any woman becomes a victim to The Kink, or even The Kinks (yes 'you really got me' you say to yourself) as it becomes the most vital, essential piece of information - does she enjoy The Kink? Is she into it? Will you both be able to Share The Kink and live happily ever after? You cannot rest until you find this piece of information, it disturbs your sleep, your concentration. She never understands, she takes you for a pervert, a horndog, she feels cheapened, objectified, and she moves on.
And so do you, dominated not by any woman, but by The Kink..
Or in your case.. The Kinks, and I am not referring to the 1960's rock band.
In fact, given your OP and your age I would have you pegged as a One Kink Wonder. Especially if you've been going round with the same thoughts and the same fantasies in your head since first grade.
The screen name is not encouraging. 'Boner Bob'. Tell me, do you walk up to people at places like munches and parties and say 'Hi, I'm Boner Bob on CM'? You must have a wicked reputation. I can just see the eye rolls coming from dommes when they get 'New Messages' and see the pale blue letters 'Boner Bob'.
Two things. First thing, BDSM is all in the mind, this is where it starts. The boner comes much later, right at the end, after you have shown someone just how intelligent you are, your personality, and what you can offer a woman emotionally and intellectually. Dominant women are generally pretty intelligent women, they need stimulation, attention. 'Boner Bob' just doesn't cut it. It states the obvious, you are male, you have a boner.
Second thing, everyone is kinky, even if they don't admit it. You come across as Captain Obvious, stating your kink right out, indicating that you have a boner, and that you have always wanted to worship a lady. What? Any lady? The first woman who comes along?
At your age you really should know better, but you don't, because you are a One Kink Wonder.
You seriously need to take a chill pill, get over the kink, and brush up on some really basic gentlemanly dating skills if you're ever going to get anywhere.
Seriously.
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