darq -> RE: slave needs tips on not gagging (5/9/2006 1:53:45 AM)
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I would like to respectfully disagree ... I have a very narrow jaw for an adult female and I will confess it was a huge struggle for me to overcome the gag reflex ... Fortunately for me, I've always enjoyed being very oral so I had a natural motivation for improving my technique ... I do occassionally still struggle not to gag and I've had some close calls where I've had to 'fake' it and pray the Dom didn't notice ... But for the most part, with practice and determination, you can overcome ... Doms who insist on grabbing the head and 'skull fucking' really aren't helping though ... Also, 3 week deadlines just seem kind of mean, to me. Its like setting the submissive up to fail ... You're so focused on how little time you have left that you can't really relax and let yourself learn. Relaxing is VITAL to overcoming the gag reflex. If you find yourself still gagging in the middle of week 2, I might suggest respectfully pointing out to your dominant that you earnestly want to overcome this and be more pleasing to him. At least then he'll know that yes, you ARE trying and maybe he'll readjust his focus to helping you learn rather than giving you deadlines.
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