Kana
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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie Regarding that last line in the original post....I have a HUGE problem with people who say they have no say in their punishments. If you are OK with the punishment you are given and can handle it physically and emotionally...by all means..carry it out. BUT if ANYONE was to give me a punishment I thought would be dangerous to myself in anyway (physically/emotionally) you better believe I would stand up and say "I'm sorry, but there is no way...". And a punishment to find someone else for my dom to fuck would be a "no way" for me. You want to fuck someone else, you can let me go and find her yourself. Yeah, see I kinda feel the opposite. I'd have a huge problem with a gal who wanted a say in her punishment. I'm her Master (otherwise I wouldn't be punishing-duh). She choose me, which means she should trust me (At least to some level). More importantly it means that she willingly, of sound mind and body submitted to me, knowing who I am and what I am like and part of that is absolute dominion. When I give out consequences I think them over. I don't do it in anger and I don't do it randomly. I have a reason for doing what I am...and it's on her to accept that...as part of being a submissive. She gets no "I'm sorry option. " She had that time to think before she decided to serve me. Her current option is cede and accept, or don't let the door hit you on the way out.
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