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tsalal -> Gentleman dominant in WA -27/m (4/10/2011 11:31:38 PM)
Not really sure how to introduce myself here. I'm definitely a strong dominant male, but not like many of the profiles I've seen on this site. I've just come out of a very long "vanilla" relationship where we occasionally played bondage games, and I want more. However, I haven't completely entered the BDSM scene mentality yet. I'm still a classy guy who wants to take a girl out on the town, cuddle on the couch with a movie on, go for a hike or bike ride with, and all the usual stuff - I don't even want bondage sex 100% of the time. Not sure where I fit into the whole dominant spectrum, because I don't want someone who wants to be constantly belittled, made to bleed, etc but I want a girl who is comfortable with being tied up in bed, and who likes BDSM games. I can be crafty and cruel, but not in an overtly brutal way. The girl of my dreams is also artistic, pragmatic, intelligent, devoted, well-read and caring. Although I'm definitely an outgoing, athletic alpha male type, I have a tender side that the right girl can unlock. If you fall somewhere near the ages of 20-28 and any of this strikes a chord with you, get in contact with me. It should go without saying, but I have a car and my own place. PS: I've never used a BDSM personal or any kind of online personal before, so please forgive my sins in advance. I'm used to meeting girls face to face; this is just something new I decided to try!

myotherself -> RE: Gentleman dominant in WA -27/m (4/10/2011 11:37:13 PM)
As you're young and new, I will be gentle with you [:)] First of all, welcome! Secondly, don't believe everything you read on profiles on sites like this, or see on bdsm porn, or read in bdsm novels. Many people have relationships where it appears very ordinary and vanilla to the rest of the world, but between the partners there is either a D/s or M/s dynamic or they play kinky bondage games in the bedroom and are equals outside of that. Be wary of slapping a label on yourself - take your time, explore, get out and meet kinksters at events and you'll see that we are all just people, underneath it all. Have a think about what it is you want. Is it just a bit of kinky sex every now and then? Do you want to be the alpha in the relationship? Do you want to impose rules for your partner to follow? There is no right or wrong way to do bdsm, just what is right or wrong for YOU and your partner. I wish you luck in finding what you seek [:D]

DarkSteven -> RE: Gentleman dominant in WA -27/m (4/11/2011 4:00:36 AM)
Yep, what the bunny said. You want a normal, healthy BDSM relationship. Ignore the porn stuff, and happy hunting.

angelikaJ -> RE: Gentleman dominant in WA -27/m (4/11/2011 10:10:08 AM)
You don't seem unlike the wonderful man who is Master to me. Best wishes in your search.

ashjor911 -> RE: Gentleman dominant in WA -27/m (4/11/2011 11:01:00 AM)
Welcome To CM BTW= (by the way):75 % of who uses the personal side of CM are into 24/7/365 TPE, & cruel) however, you did spoke my mind what you wrote up there, & i think we are looking for the same thing, join the Club Enjoy, have a beer [:D]

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Gentleman dominant in WA -27/m (4/13/2011 5:17:37 AM)
Welcome to CM and the boards. It's all in what da bunny said. Pssst...Ashjor where o where did you pull up a figure that 75% of Doms are cruel? Juuuuuuuuuust askin............

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