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skylong -> Humiliation to you (4/16/2011 7:52:11 PM)
I have talked to a couple of sub. Their definition of humiliation is quite different. Any sub cares to share what counts for humiliation for you? Wild and gentle are all welcomed.

peppermint -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/16/2011 8:02:02 PM)
I don't have any examples. What is humiliation for one person is nothing to the next. Humiliation is a very personalized response.

porcelaine -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/16/2011 8:36:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: skylong I have talked to a couple of sub. Their definition of humiliation is quite different. Any sub cares to share what counts for humiliation for you? Wild and gentle are all welcomed. Greetings, There was a recent discussion about the subject that provided various perspectives you might appreciate. Namaste, ~porcelaine

skylong -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/16/2011 9:19:46 PM)
Thanks, procelaine for the link. I've read just a few but I will read more later. I guess my topic was slightly different. It was meant to ask what is humiliation to each sub. I am proud to say I am an ever learning dom. So, I want to see what each sub thinks.

Asherscorp1 -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/16/2011 11:16:11 PM)
Master once ordered me to lick the bathroom floor clean and that was humiliating for about 30 seconds. I have to say I get over the feeling of humiliation fairly quickly in most instances once my mind is occupied with carrying out whatever it was that made me feel that way to begin with. However, anything having to do with bodily functions (such as peeing on command for example) makes me blush, stammer, hesitate and feel utterly humiliated throughout the whole process and for a while afterward.

porcelaine -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 2:00:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: skylong I guess my topic was slightly different. It was meant to ask what is humiliation to each sub. I am proud to say I am an ever learning dom. So, I want to see what each sub thinks. You're welcome. Many of the submissives on the site expounded and shared their personal opinions on the subject and what that entailed. That's why i shared the thread. Namaste, ~porcelaine

txurinal -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 7:16:48 AM)
i cannot think of somthing that i would really call humiliating. i have been ordered to do various things publicly and privately but was always following instructions so was eager to please rather than feel humiliated. After many things i have done publicly, i am still very "pee shy" so i guess if i had to urinate publicly and could not, that would be humiliating

skylong -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 9:35:53 AM)
Interesting, so far we have pee related humiliation mostly. It'd be nice to hear from some who find "smaller" things humiliating. Simple things such as going to public without a bra or panties (clothed).

ForeverFire -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 2:35:22 PM)
Honestly...I'm a girlie girl. I love looking better than presentable on date nights. The most humiliating thing (for me) that He's ever asked me to do in public was.... Wear scruffy jeans, a simple t-shirts, flat shoes and NO MAKE-UP!! And on date night! Ick. (No, I am not kidding!)

Focus50 -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 2:50:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: skylong I have talked to a couple of sub. Their definition of humiliation is quite different. Any sub cares to share what counts for humiliation for you? Wild and gentle are all welcomed. Whoa, you certainly sold me the big dummy (football term for a feint pass). Yep, looked at your pic and immediately thought "male/sub".... Food for thought - for an "ever learning dom"? On humiliation, my rationale has always been by whose definition are you concerned about. I do all kinds of things to my girl that ignorant outsiders might see as humiliating to her, IF they could see at all. But from my perspective, I'd never do anything intenionally meant to harm (humiliate) her spirit or self-worth and certainly not in front of even an audience of just one. And even in private, since I value all my property, I don't piss on it, either. But each to their own.... Personally, I've always felt that anyone who feels a need to overtly humiliate or put down their partner...., well they have personal issues requiring professional help. Just my opinion. Focus.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 4:48:53 PM)
Wearing mismatched clothes. shudder

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/17/2011 6:42:03 PM)
when i swing the flogger and it slips out of my hand and flies across the room, knocking over the lamp. that's fucking humiliating! hannah lynn

coookie -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/18/2011 9:33:28 PM)
The acts are not really the focus but instead the reaction inside of me. For me going without a bra is not humiliating ... mostly because i never wear a bra lol. It really is subjective. There is definite element of humiliation when he spits in my face and calls me pathetic. Or when he calls me bitch in front of his friends and then tempers it with a kiss.

skylong -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/20/2011 8:55:19 AM)
Thanks ladies, and very few gentlemen. It is just so fascinating that it is different for everyone. I particularly like the mismatched clothes and no make up. I hope all of you continue to have a great relationship with your whoever.

leadership527 -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/20/2011 2:00:18 PM)
Well, I'm not a sub and honestly don't have much interest in humiliation so I skipped over this thread originally. But another thread just gave such a perfect example of something I'd find humiliating that I couldn't pass it up. The guy in the thread is obviously into humiliation play and I think he's awesome at it.

MissCherrie78 -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/20/2011 10:41:19 PM)
Hi, So obviously I am new here. Humiliation is pretty subjective. What causes me to blush and get flustered is when my Dom wants me to tell him exactly what I am feeling. Like explaining to him how wet I am.

skylong -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/20/2011 11:15:56 PM)
Wow... Cherrie, you know, that's one of my fav questions to ask even in a vanilla relationship. I'll look at that other thread later. Thanks.

ranja -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/21/2011 2:28:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leadership527 Well, I'm not a sub and honestly don't have much interest in humiliation so I skipped over this thread originally. But another thread just gave such a perfect example of something I'd find humiliating that I couldn't pass it up. The guy in the thread is obviously into humiliation play and I think he's awesome at it. i do not think that thread is a good example of humiliation... i do not know if the bloke in that thread is into humiliation at all, but in my opinion none of the responses to him were humiliating to him on that thread i saw a young cocky bloke poking some fun at old fatties and a whole bunch of people feeling so stepped on their toes that they try to humiliate him what did you see?

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/21/2011 8:03:55 AM)
There is very little I find actually humiliating. Most of the things that people would think are humiliating are in fact turn ons for me. There are somethings I find embarrassing and that make me blush (peeing on Hannah for example, but not the reverse), but not humiliating. I guess the only thing I find really humiliating is having to admit to myself that not only do I want to submit to Hannah, but that I feel I need to, that I can't seem to help myself. I hope that makes sense. Heather

Kana -> RE: Humiliation to you (4/21/2011 8:30:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather when i swing the flogger and it slips out of my hand and flies across the room, knocking over the lamp. that's fucking humiliating! hannah lynn Well, that's what ya get for using a cheesy implement like a flogger. :-) Try a cane or a tawse, something that can really elicit a reaction.

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