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RE: Clarify "natural" submission? - 4/19/2011 2:56:25 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I'm an alpha. I do not have a submissive personality. However when faced with someone that I feel is more dominant than I am, I have the urge to submit. I've heard it compared to a lion's pride. Among lionesses there is an alpha female, and she only submits to the head of the pride.

Agreed. I consider myself an alpha female.

Part 2: No one is A natural submissive. Being A submissive is a learned behavior. You can naturally have a submissive personality. They are two different things.

Disagree. Within the context of BDSM, they are *not* two different things. Some natural submissives like to submit within that BDSM context.

I like this definition very much, though I do not believe it to be universal.

I think "natural" is a term people use to signify that their submission (or dominance) isn't just an adopted role for the purpose of D/s kink or intimacies. That it's natural to them to submit in just about all ways to their partner's choices - in and out of the bedroom.

And I'm fine with that. It's desirable to me, actually, which makes "natural" a relevant piece of the communication puzzle.

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RE: Clarify "natural" submission? - 4/19/2011 3:26:22 PM

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I've been submissive for as long as I can remember. Never put a name to it until I was 41. It's my nature, I don't like confrontations though I can get into them if I have to. The Dominants I've been with haven't had to "force" anything from me. All I want is to make sure they're looked after to the best of my ability at all times. Inside and out of the bedroom. I'm big on service and treasure how it makes me feel. And of course I'm a wildcat in the bedroom, but also know my place. For me, that's it in a nutshell.

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