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subbykat -> RE: when your dominant becomes submissive (4/23/2011 5:22:04 PM)
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ORIGINAL: softlips76
Hi all, I'm dealing with a bit of an issue... I am currently being trained by an amazing lady. Our relationship is more that of good friends along w/the D/s dynamic. She has other slaves and the ones I've chatted with seem to adore her, however, they're also male. LOL
She also happens to be training a dominant. When she started training him, their relationship was that of Teacher/Student. She would sub for him to train him properly. I have NEVER liked seeing her in submissive mode. Even before she was my Mistress. Now their relationship has deepened and she is submissive to him almost all the time. I'm not sure she realizes it. It distresses me to see the woman I submit to, the woman who wants me to surrender to her, so submissive. Especially when the person she submits to is someone I have no respect for. Yes I have met him and while his 1st impression was BAD, the rest haven't been much better.
Before anyone brings it up, I have wondered if what I was feeling was jealousy. I don't believe that it is. I love watching her in action with her other subs/slaves. She looks powerful, gorgeous, sexy. As a submissive, she's still beautiful, but when I see her that way, she is not someone I want having control over me.
How do I approach this with her? I do realize that when I do approach this it will mean not only the end of our D/s relationship, but possibly our friendship as well. :(
It must be difficult seeing your Mistress in a way that undermines her power over you. But there's much power in submission, just as there is in being dominant. If you could see her submission...her ability to yield to another... as a strength, rather than a weakness, it might help you better understand and respect your own role.
It's like the saying goes, "Water lays low, but it can move mountains."
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