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Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/19/2011 6:20:36 PM

jb2010

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Hey everyone!!!

I'm looking to get more involved in the forums and learn more about everything. Me and my bf have just started experimenting with getting into the lifestyle. We're looking for feedback, friendships, and ideas as we go forward. I would LOVE for some people to look over our profile and blog and help out!

We take turns controlling each other so feel free to suggest ideas for both of us.

http://beginningofsubmission.blogspot.com/

Thanks everyone!!! I look forward to getting to make some friends and meet people on here.

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/19/2011 6:28:24 PM

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I think I recall that Atlanta has a big scene.

I just read your blog and it sounds like you're trying all sorts of things. Keep it up!.

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/19/2011 6:46:11 PM

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Yes there is a scene in Atlanta but we haven't gotten connected or anything with it. We are college students so money is a bit tight so we're just trying to play it slow for now and then get into the scene once we know more about what we want and like. It does seem like it could be fun so thanks for your input :) Feel free to suggest any ideas or such that you'd like for us to try out though or feedback on what we're doing. :)

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/19/2011 9:05:04 PM

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a suggestion? do whatever dirty thing comes into your mind. surf porn and try things out, look over profiles and when you see something that sparks your interest write them and ask about it. use your imagination, the possibilities are pretty much endless, especially because you are taking turns. you have 5 holes between you, i'm sure you can think of interesting uses for most of them.

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/19/2011 9:11:02 PM

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Since you take turns, there is a Switch section here. Perhaps you can gain more ideas from there. Other than that, keep rockin they way you are!

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/19/2011 11:16:12 PM

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Thanks for the ideas Hannah and Tazzy! We have been looking around and getting some ideas. Sadly most of the profiles either revolve around wanting sex, paying people, or humiliation it seems. But there are a few gems in the midst of them all :)

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/20/2011 9:05:20 AM

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I'd go with reading stories, looking at porn and if it sparks your erm... interest... as it were then give it a go :D

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/20/2011 10:54:32 AM

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Thanks for the ideas Hannah and Tazzy! We have been looking around and getting some ideas. Sadly most of the profiles either revolve around wanting sex, paying people, or humiliation it seems. But there are a few gems in the midst of them all :)

Your last sentence says it all. You are willing to sift thru the dross for a few gems.

Keep that attitude and you cant lose.

Be well and good luck.

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RE: Looking for some feedback and ideas - 4/22/2011 6:08:45 PM

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Hi.

Taking turns controlling is called switching. Check out the switching section on this forum. An important thing to remember is who's in control at that moment and to keep it safe sane and consential so your relationship doesn't suffer because of your new found kinky interests. Maintain what's more important; the love you have. So respect each other.

Hope this helps.

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