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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/9/2006 10:46:55 PM

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Ok ok I'll stop writing all of those nasty emails to you.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/9/2006 10:48:35 PM

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So it's YOU???

Do you eat with that mouth, kiddo?

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/9/2006 11:05:10 PM

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Heeheehee *evil laugh*

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/9/2006 11:21:03 PM

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You could always have a bit fo sport with the fucktard and start posting his emails to you in the open forums, then email him back a link to it... considering the proficiency folks around here have with being amusingly cruel, he should stop in short order... and if he doesn't, more fun for us...

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 12:32:49 AM

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LOL, honey just tell him you KNOW your sexy and irresitable but he will just have to move on cause he can't have you.
Just another case of a troll/moron hiding in the lifestyle, trying to bully you into being a sub is wrong when you have clearly stated your a domme.
Oh, btw what was his name???? LOL

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 1:03:48 AM

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Collarme doesn't allow postings of emails sent to the forrums.

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ORIGINAL: Dustyn

You could always have a bit fo sport with the fucktard and start posting his emails to you in the open forums, then email him back a link to it... considering the proficiency folks around here have with being amusingly cruel, he should stop in short order... and if he doesn't, more fun for us...

- Dustyn

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 4:00:09 AM

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This lifestyle has always attracted predators. The internet has only amplified that attraction.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 4:05:45 AM

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Frankly you should take your own advice... you told him to block you and to move on..... block him and move on rather than looking to create drama about it on here. It is a simple enough problem to solve.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 4:23:36 AM

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He was blocked. However, I do not feel others should be subjected to his type of behavior. Especially sweet subs/slaves. Hence this "complaint." No drama as i am not into soap operas. Why should nice people have to put up with a-holes? People like this seem to run rampant unchecked and that just isnt cool with me. And if his online behavior is any indicator of the type of personality he has I would worry bout any sub going to him.

Thanks for the advice all. And for the Support Team for responding to my concerns.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 4:35:51 AM

TigerLily23

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It is truly unfortunate...I too have been e-mailed by several 'doms' (for I don't consider a man who cannot control himself to be a true Dominant) who could not respect my wishes (not to be sent nude pictures of their escapades, etc...) and yet they still continue to harrass me...my suggestion is as the others: don't sink to his level, block him and move on.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 5:44:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: OnyxGoddess
Why should nice people have to put up with a-holes? People like this seem to run rampant unchecked and that just isnt cool with me.

Welcome to being an adult in the real world. We can't eliminate people just because we don't like their attitude. My guess is that a few times other people have thought badly of you- should they have been allowed to get you thrown off of a list just because you had a sucky attitude towards them?

We DO however all have the power to ignore and block them if we want.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 7:09:04 AM

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We can't eliminate people just because we don't like their attitude.

We can't LA? *sulks and kicks at the AK-47* It just doesn't seem fair to me somehow. LOL

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 7:23:48 AM

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Yep three words: BITE ME IDIOT and hit the block button.

heheheh... gotta love that NC attitude Ma'am...

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 8:55:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Every time I've ever written to a moderator about a harassing e-mailer, they've taken care of it. I don't bother them unless it's a serious case (someone who makes threats, recreates a profile in order to e-mail again after being blocked, and so on).

And, yes, I get a lot of hateful e-mail.

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Writing the moderators or reeporting them has doen very little in my expereince.

From my personal experience, nothing has happened, case in point, one 'stalker' for lack of a better term, has deleted his profile at least 4 times after being blocked, so I filed cyber-stalking and harassment charges with the police department this week. If he contacts me again, it will be a federal offence.

I guess you lucked out, I still see the same trolls over and over again deleting their profiles and emailing me again. Like others here, I was told basically that a moderators job is NOT to handle these things. I was just told to block the person, which does nothing when, they just delete their profile and start it up again. I will handle these things on my own and just press charges, so far so good. Once I find 'Master Right', I will hope that he will put a stop to things once and for all.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 8:59:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dustyn

You could always have a bit fo sport with the fucktard and start posting his emails to you in the open forums, then email him back a link to it... considering the proficiency folks around here have with being amusingly cruel, he should stop in short order... and if he doesn't, more fun for us...

- Dustyn

I did that, sorts, I started posting the trolls emails and links to their profiles off-site as to not break the terms of service on CM. Worked like a charm, most of the predators and trolls leave me alone. Besides, those who read BOS are always guarnteed a good laugh.

Thats how I handle(d) things.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 9:03:18 AM

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I've been a member here since 12/22/2004 and have never been harrassed.

What am I doing wrong?

Which moderator do I write to report a lack of proper harrassment?

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 9:06:18 AM

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*Gets a very long pointy stick with which to 'harrass' Caitlyn*

*Poke*

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 9:14:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

I did that, sorts, I started posting the trolls emails and links to their profiles off-site as to not break the terms of service on CM. Worked like a charm, most of the predators and trolls leave me alone. Besides, those who read BOS are always guarnteed a good laugh.

Thats how I handle(d) things.

I read it before, lol, how you attract all the mosquitos to you is somewhat baffeling. And some of the pictures...ugh.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 9:15:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn
I've been a member here since 12/22/2004 and have never been harrassed.

What am I doing wrong?

Which moderator do I write to report a lack of proper harrassment?

Actually, I was just thinking the same thing. I have never been harassed here. Actually, I don't know that it is even possible that someone could make me feel "harassed" online. Maybe I'm just not sensitive enough but I just don't take this online stuff very seriously. Sure I get my fair share of unwanted emails but unless I see you in my rearview mirror or standing at my front door I don't perceive any real threat or harassment. Maybe it's just me....

Send me a gazillion emails telling me how un-subly I am, how ugly I am or how you think my opinions suck....the only reaction that will get is for me to hit the delete button....after I stop laughing at you of course.

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RE: Dom harrassment!!! - 5/10/2006 9:16:35 AM

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