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mariba -> Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:30:10 PM)
"You claim to be a sub, you FOLLOW directions, you do not set conditions! You may REQUEST certain types of behavior in your profile but any Dom worth his title will completely ignore that condition, hence I am writing back. If you are looking for a dating service, try something else. Here, you follow directions. If you want an explicit example, you have my permission to write back" Just curious, how many people feel that "Here" you have to follow this sort of crap? Is it some rule that I missed somehow? Mari.

dogobedience -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:37:59 PM)
Welcome to online BDSM

Littlepita -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:38:49 PM)
Either delete the jerk or give him a good piece of your mind and what you think of his conditions. No, you don't have to put up with that crap. Why would you?

MyDomIsMyFantasy -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:39:33 PM)
I have found the best Doms, to be on ALT.COM

Clothespingirl -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:40:09 PM)
What, didn't they tattoo the rules on your forehead when you joined? Mine say, "Slave of every nerd with a keyboard!" I remember one kid, about 23, ordered me to chat with him. I emailed back: "Did you notice that I'm as old as your mother? And did you notice that I don't take orders from strangers?" Didn't hear from him again. Too bad, he was handsome enough to tempt me to break my resolution against cradle-robbing! [;)]

unquenchable -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:40:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mariba "You claim to be a sub, you FOLLOW directions, you do not set conditions! You may REQUEST certain types of behavior in your profile but any Dom worth his title will completely ignore that condition, hence I am writing back. If you are looking for a dating service, try something else. Here, you follow directions. If you want an explicit example, you have my permission to write back" Just curious, how many people feel that "Here" you have to follow this sort of crap? Is it some rule that I missed somehow? Mari. No, I do not feel the need to follow that crap, nor would I think it warranted your time in posting it here. Just delete, block, and move on. un---------

thegreymistress -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:41:54 PM)
People like that is what gives Dominants a bad name. I do not expect anything other than proofof serious obediance prior to establishing an agreement with one I wish to serve me. Until then they are people just like everyone else.

juliaoceania -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:42:28 PM)
I remember going into chat as a novice and having dozens of IMs flood my screen telling me to "get on your knees sub"... just take it with a grain of salt, hit delete, move on. I blocked those IMs in my messenger, you can block pesky freaks here, Just saying what I would do.

Sinergy -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:44:30 PM)
The problem with hitting the ignore button is you then prevent yourself from being able to deride, insult, or shredding the person's idiotic and peurile maunderings in the future. What fun is that? Sinergy Could be wrong, but there you go.

fastlane -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:48:21 PM)
no, you ran into an Ass...we are not all like that. especially me...just ask 11? LOL Kisses, Kevin

mariba -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:51:29 PM)
MyDomIsMyFantasy, I have been on Alt for years... I know how to deal with them there. I am fairly new here and don't know the protocol. I am just asking because everyone seems so nice here. You have to play tough on Alt, I don't want to do that here because I am new and don't know the protocol. I just want some advice. Mari.

MsMacComb -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 6:58:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mariba MyDomIsMyFantasy, I have been on Alt for years... I know how to deal with them there. I am fairly new here and don't know the protocol. I am just asking because everyone seems so nice here. You have to play tough on Alt, I don't want to do that here because I am new and don't know the protocol. I just want some advice.Mari. The protocol is what you set and decide. If someone is being rude, pushy or mean, ignore them or give them directions on where to go and what activity to engage in when they get there. [:)]

BitaTruble -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:02:09 PM)
Mari, The problem with Mr. DomGod is he forgot the cardinal rule. He doesn't 'own' you, so you can, indeed, make as many or as few demands as you desire. If 'he' doesn't like it.. he can block you and move on.. even hide your profile from his view if it's so offense to him. Sounds like he was trying to push your buttons because he can. You have all the choices here and he has none, zero, zip, nada. Bet that really gets his panties in a twist. Hell, if I were you, I would add a note to my profile with at least a few more demands and make it clear they were specifically added because you were told they couldn't be there. But, I'm a bitatruble on rare occasions and just like pricking doms who are full of hot air so I can watch them deflate around the room like a balloon. ;) At the very least, I'd send him a note and request he completely ignore my profile just like I'm going to completely ignore his very existence since any dom worth his salt respects the parameters of people whom they do not own! Celeste

mariba -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:04:17 PM)
unquenchable, I guess I was wrong. Everybody here is not nice and helpful. Thanks for the real life lesson.

Rayne58 -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:07:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mariba "You claim to be a sub, you FOLLOW directions, you do not set conditions! You may REQUEST certain types of behavior in your profile but any Dom worth his title will completely ignore that condition, hence I am writing back. If you are looking for a dating service, try something else. Here, you follow directions. If you want an explicit example, you have my permission to write back" Just curious, how many people feel that "Here" you have to follow this sort of crap? Is it some rule that I missed somehow? Mari. I wonder how long it took him to type that with his hand on his dick???? [8\|][;)][:D]

bandit25 -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:07:52 PM)
Mari, Just hit delete. I get that crap all the time. I clearly state that I don't "do" watersports and I just got an email asking if I'd like to be someone's toilet slave. Apparently, the guy doesn't know how to read.

fullofgrace -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:13:31 PM)
ugh. just because you are a submissive or a slave does not mean you are every dominant's submissive or slave. do what feels right to you. personally, i think cm needs a bitchslap button...

BrutalAntipathy -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:15:17 PM)
I wouldn't write a person with a list of conditions longer than a Kennedy rap sheet in the first place, as their mode of thinking is clearly so far removed from my own that we have too little in common to be a match. It sounds to me like the guy was either a wannabe that doesn't have a clue what he is doing, or else he was trying to elicit a response. Since BitaTruble thinks the button pushing scenario is it, this is most likely the case. Block the guy and move on. Up to an until you agree to be owned, you need not take anything off of anyone. And there is no dominant code of conduct which states that a dom/me should neglect being curteous, polite, and respectful when writing a submissive or slave.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:22:23 PM)
LOL......dont we all at one time or another wish for such a tool...since we finally got web cam..can a bitch slap button be so far out of reach?..humm...[8\|]...Tempting

Lordandmaster -> RE: Odd message from a Dom (5/9/2006 7:39:49 PM)
"Puerile." Derision stings less when it's misspelled. quote: ORIGINAL: Sinergy The problem with hitting the ignore button is you then prevent yourself from being able to deride, insult, or shredding the person's idiotic and peurile maunderings in the future.

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