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Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 6:40:18 AM   
sunfiregt82


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Status: offline 		I know I have a wierd question, I don't even know if it poppular. But I was wondering if anyone knew anything about putting wieghts on a girls pussy or what they look like ? I do not even know where to find out about this, Is this a common fetish ??? If anyone has any clue on what I am talking about, please explain it to me if you don't mind, Thank you for taking the time to read this and have a nice day !!!
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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 6:55:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yep. Its lots of fun, fairly common and wonderful.
You can use weights to stretch her lips (objectification), for sadistic purposes, or just because you like the way they look.
The main thing that's gonna determine how much it hurts her is going to be the strength of the clamps that you use. Clothespins are wimpy (IMHO). I like 5 and 10 pounds clamps, but they huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurt.
Oh my Gawd, the sounds she makes when those clamps snap shut. Then start adding weights. (I make her prep the ties in advance-she has to create the implements that cause her own suffering. I am such an asshole:-))
At that point, a good whipping is a terrific final touch.
Hell, now I got a early A.M woodie, damnitall.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 6:57:45 AM   
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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 7:05:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like to use clover clamps with weights. As the weights pull on the clamps, it pulls the clamps tighter, causing more pain. Another twist is to clamp the clit and then add weights, this is truly mindblowing!

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 7:12:03 AM   
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You can use weights to stretch her lips (objectification)


How is that objectification?

Objectification is the reduction of a slave/sub to the status or appearance of an object, not the hanging of weights from them.

Unless you've got one really fucked-up coffee table.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 7:20:36 AM   
sunfiregt82


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Status: offline 		Thank you guys for responding back to me, :) Have a nice day !!!

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 7:45:30 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

You can use weights to stretch her lips (objectification)


How is that objectification?

Objectification is the reduction of a slave/sub to the status or appearance of an object, not the hanging of weights from them.

Unless you've got one really fucked-up coffee table.



Do it long enough that her lips permanently hang way down, it sure the fuck it is objectification, just as nipple stretching is. What else do you call deliberately modifying her body so it fits a twisted taste?
Plus., I tend to think rings when we talk cunt weights, and that's another form of objectification.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 7:55:51 AM   
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Do it long enough that her lips permanently hang way down, it sure the fuck it is objectification, just as nipple stretching is. What else do you call deliberately modifying her body so it fits a twisted taste?


Not "objectification", for a start.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 11:46:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		attach a clamp or install a ring to the desired body part and hang weights from the ring/clamp. its really easy, and fun. i agree with ownedfemaleflesh clover clamps are great fun in this context, and yes, the clit is a wonderful place to do this.

oh heaaaaaaatheeeeeeer........

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 2:00:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Its called body modification

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 2:58:01 PM   
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Its called body modification


Or plain ol torture....

Lol, I think Kana got some wires crossed with the current "Objectification" thread that he's also posted in....

Objectification is mostly a headspace dynamic rather than a description of specific physical acts.

Focus.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 3:09:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		objectification..making/changing one into something less than human....

piercings, stretching, putting holes into....all part of objectification. I'm no longer me. I'm something he has changed into something else to be used by him for his use/pleasure/whims.

When you own a car or a house you do with it what you want....change the paint, the size, etc...because it's an object. It has no say in what you do to it. Same with objectification. I'm his object. He changes the paint, the size, etc..to whatever he wants.




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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 3:20:44 PM   
Focus50


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objectification..making/changing one into something less than human....


To define it in a few words, as you've done, I'd say objectification is "treating one as less than human".

Again, it's a Dom to sub headspace dynamic rather than a generic name for all things bdsm.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 4:33:42 PM   
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piercings, stretching, putting holes into....all part of objectification.


I would have called those things "body modification", as someone stated above.  When I think of objectification, I think more of being a human chair or human footstool, etc.  Or sexually, I think of a woman being used as a cum bucket, or a male being used as a human dildo.

I'm not saying that you're wrong.  Just that I would have used completely different terminology for what you described.

But of course, that's why I hate it whenever we get into discussions about terminology on these message boards.  There never seems to be consensus,  Because of that, I always fall back to my default position of "who cares what you call it, so long as you enjoy it". 

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 4:36:47 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: Focus50


quote:

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objectification..making/changing one into something less than human....


To define it in a few words, as you've done, I'd say objectification is "treating one as less than human".

Again, it's a Dom to sub headspace dynamic rather than a generic name for all things bdsm.

Focus.


Hey, you say tomato, I say tomato...:-)


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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/23/2011 4:45:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: Focus50


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

objectification..making/changing one into something less than human....


To define it in a few words, as you've done, I'd say objectification is "treating one as less than human".

Again, it's a Dom to sub headspace dynamic rather than a generic name for all things bdsm.

Focus.


Hey, you say tomato, I say tomato...:-)


If you think about it carefully, your definition could be said to apply to almost every single dominant act, whereas objectification is generally used as a more specific term.

Try googling and looking at some BDSM definitions pages, if you don't believe me. Or even clicking your mouse pointer on "objectification" in someone else's CM profile, and see what CM has to say about it* :)

*it surprised me too, if that helps any - I didn't realise those "interests" came with their own definitions until very recently, and then only by accident :)

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/28/2011 7:10:14 AM   
Asherscorp1


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Status: offline 		I currently have three piercings and rings inserted through my inner labia for just this reason. Master loves to hang various things from them. We are going to do three more for a total of six (three on each) and then begin the real systematic stretching to permanently modify them. For now, it's just for fun when He feels like it. I will say it's not too bad for the first few minutes but once any weight has been there a little while the discomfort just builds and builds. The only caution I would give is know your sub/slave's body very well for this. You can cause severe harm peircing or hanging weights from piercings so make sure you are very aware of what you are doing and don't risk tearing any tender tissue.

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 4/28/2011 7:26:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I misread your question at first, thinking it said "in a \... pussy".

There is an old trick using chain that came to mind.  I personally use the largest dog's choke chain I can find, removing one ring from one end.  These chains are usually exceptionally smooth and with tight links.  The chain is then sterizized by boing and soaking in alcohol, well lubed, and inserted as far and as much into the pussy as the girl can take.  Much like the  effect of fisting, the vaginal nerve endings are extremely sensitized by the stretching.  She is told to hold the chain inside her as long as possible, and we go about our regular daily routine, whatever it may be.  At the apropriate time, the ring is grasped and the chain removed extremely quickly in an upward motion.  It has never failed to induce an extreme orgasm.

Slightly off topic, but a point of interest...

Lou

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RE: Embarssing question ! - 5/2/2011 6:13:12 AM   
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The others have given you the rest.

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