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BurntKitty -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:32:09 PM)
Welcome to CM, John. Word of advice here: try not to use text speak here in the forums. Most of the dominant women here prefer a submissive who can communicate clearly without the use of it. I read your profile as well. You have nothing in the side where you would write about you and what you bring to the relationship (besides your dick), just what appears to be long winded journal poetry. My eyes were drawn to the "I, me, my cock...". Complete sentences, broken in to separate paragraphs are a lot more pleasing to the eye and show effort was put into the writing of the profile. Listen to the posters here. they've provided valuable advice.

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:34:30 PM)
im done talking on here im tired of all the hostility to me bye

BonesFromAsh -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:34:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: john1001 anyone who is willing to be a slave for a women and do those things they are submissive....perioddddd it should be obvious to everyone.. it is to me.. Welcome.... Just a thought on your "journal"....being a slave to your cock doesn't make you submissive. Claiming that women are supreme because your cock makes you weak also doesn't make you submissive. You have much to learn, not-so-young jedi.

LadyPact -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:34:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: john1001 thanks but if there a domme why wouldnt they think that female supremacy is true they are dominating men i know some dominate woman to but most believe in female supremacy.. i see it in a ton of domme profile.. loves .......female supremacy.. thanks for the luck i appreciate it Welcome to the forums. Maybe I can help you. I do happen to be a Dominant woman who does not believe in female supremacy. My reason for this is that I do not believe that one human being is 'superior' in value when compared to another. It doesn't matter if you are basing it on gender, race, or religion. I am a Dominant because of who I am. Not anything to do with the fact that I happen to have a vagina or that I have two X chromosomes. Women, just like men, have various strengths and weaknesses due to who they are as an individual. The two ladies who tried to address your comments about this subject were very straightforward with you. There are some of us Dominant women who want absolutely nothing to do with the supremacy bit. Most of the time, if I see that checked as an "interest" on someone's profile or see it in the text, that is an automatic indicator that they are not compatible with Me. I also noticed that you said a number of Dominant women are asking you about your kinks. That's all well and good. Actually, I'd suggest that you discuss those matters with those who have indicated to you that they are interested in knowing those things. The public in general usually doesn't need that information before getting to know you as a person.

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:36:16 PM)
your submissive im not dealing with your submissive women thats not why im here ok? so why are u talking to me? only dominant women should talk to me thats why im here with all due respect

VideoAdminTheta -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:39:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: john1001 your submissive im not dealing with your submissive women thats not why im here ok? so why are u talking to me? only dominant women should talk to me thats why im here with all due respect John, anyone is allowed to respond to your post. This is a public forum and you cannot control who responds to you. You don't have to respond to anyone and you can just ignore those you don't wish to engage with, but they are allowed to post. Thank you

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:40:29 PM)
I UNDERSTAND THAT BUT THEY ARE QUESTIONING ME ABOUT ME NOT BEING SUBMISSIVE THATS ALL IM SAYING GETS ME MAD// I KNOW THIS IS A FREE FORUM SURE OK..

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:42:23 PM)
THANK U MISTRESS I RESPECT EVERYTHING U SAID THANK U VERY MUCH I WILL CONSIDER AND LEARN FROM EVERYTHING YOU SAID THANK U AGAIN

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:46:05 PM)
OK I DONT KNOW IF YOU READ THE whole thing. but i did say that im very capable of having a relationship normal without kinkyness like a marriage.. this is just some kinky fun i would like but i do want a normal marriage relationship also.. thank u

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 12:48:35 PM)
mistress i have to humbly admit i didnt know that some dommes dont believe in female supremacy.. i thought they all did and thats why they dominate men i stand corrected thank u very much for helping me i appreaciate it greatly

LadyPact -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 1:07:49 PM)
Please do not call Me "Mistress". I am not your Mistress. You are certainly welcome for the help. I think you should do what you can to get to know people and the way they really do things as opposed to what you assume. Enjoy your stay. I hope you will use these resources as the educational opportunity that they have the potential to be. I'd also encourage you to get to know some folks in real life.

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 1:07:52 PM)
I REALLY REGRET STARTING THIS THREAD.. IF I KNEW IT WOULD BRING ALL THIS ANGER ON ME I NEVER WOULD HAVE.. HAVE A NICE DAY EVERYONE

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 1:11:00 PM)
i have a friend in real life who is a good woman.. we karaoke together.. i called u mistress because you are one. not because your mine i know your not my mistress.. everyone is so darn testy.. like i said i regret starting this thread i will not start another one again have a nice day

tazzygirl -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 1:31:57 PM)
John, no one is angry. No one is questioning your submissiveness, or your desire to be owned by a dominant woman. What we want to know is... outside of the bedroom,... who are you? What are your interests beyond BDSM? Me, I love to read, pretty much anything I can get my hands on. I love to take walks. I love to window shop. I like to crochet, knit and candlewick. I adore dogs, cats and kids. I love the beach and the mountains. Thats just an example of what we are all requesting of you. Put these things in your profile. If a Dominant woman likes to take hikes, and you do too, then there is an opportunity for a conversation about hiking. We are actually trying to help you.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 1:53:58 PM)
hey john, welcome to cm. you've been given a bunch of good advice here. you are a male sub. there are a bazillion of you guys on here, and they all want the same thing you do. you are looking for a domme, and there are less of them on here than any other type. think about that and what it implies. what you have to do is stand out from the crowd in some way. that's what your profile is for. make it different, make it memorable, make the reader come away from reading it saying to themselves "hmmm, now that's an interesting person". use the "interests" part of the profile to define what your kinks are, and don't mention them in your profile. write about yourself in your profile. you're going to law school? make sure that is mentioned for example, it tells a prospective domme several things about you: you are intelligent, work hard, have the potential to be make good money, and have no ethical standards whatsoever (ok, relax, the last one is a joke). what else is there about you? do you like nascar? watch a lot of sports, or are you a pbs type of person? things like that. you won't be kissing her ass and feet most of the time, and she's likely to want to talk with you now and then, so present yourself in your profile as the sort of person who she'd enjoy talking to. any fuck can grovel and lick toes, what can you do that they can't? hannah lynn _________________________________________________ Hi John, welcome and good luck. Heather

Killerangel -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 1:54:31 PM)
Well OP, I really can't see the negativity that you're going on about, in fact I thought people were rather restrained in their postings since this in the intro section and all. In fact, pretty much everyone has tried to help. Here are some genuine attempts to help steer you in the right direction though I can see they'll most likely be ignored. Dear John, Welcome to CM, here are some things to think about. -Desperation and grovelling is never attractive. Stand up and be someone that a woman would be proud to claim. -Stop basing everything you know about D/s on porn and then criticizing others because their views are not based on the same fantasy type crap. Which leads to... -Go out and see what this is like in real life. Find your nearest munch and go enjoy some friendly conversation. -Watch closely how you are presenting yourself in the written medium. Fix the formatting issues on your computer so you can type out a complete paragraph instead of the broken up sentences. Use capitalization, punctuation, and correct grammar. -Stop throwing tantrums and discuss things like a grown up. A woman wants to be with a man, not a child. -You've spoken of many Mistresses who are interested in you...these are financial Dommes. They want money, which is fine if that's what you're into. Otherwise it's going to be a long, hard road to find a Domme, don't take my word for it please educate yourself and look up past threads in the CM search function so you'll know exactly what you should be doing and how. -Offering to service women sexually isn't that special, especially for a Domme, women in general run into that every day of their lives. What else makes you a good companion? -Reconsider your journal, its is completely focused on yourself and what you want. It's very much a turn-off for a Dominant woman to keep being confronted with yet one more reminder of how needy your cock is and how much YOU love feet. Now things are up to you. Many women have given you their time and informative comments - you can recognize that as true help and get your act together or continue to stomp your feet. Please reflect on which course would be the one that will eventually find you a Domme. I do honestly wish you good luck and I hope you find your happiness.

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 2:00:04 PM)
WELL i love karaoke i sing and host everyweek i sing over a thousand songs.. i have a nice woman who sings also.. we karaoke together. we are only friends and we live apart... but we are close friends. thats all no sexual relationship at all. i am not into this 24/7.. just sessions i do HAVE a life outside of this and there are times i can't think with my cock.. i have to work.. or if i was married i would'nt even be doing this i'd stay faithful to my wife if i had one.. but im single and no sexual realtionship.. but i have fetishes desires anyway.. i do karaoke for a living.. im very calm.. im not angry.. a lot of people jumped on me bigtime.. i only want a domiant women..mistress for sessions. im not gonna marry a mistress.. just for sessions.. thats why i only talk about fetishes. on here.. look dominant women on here want to make money through what they do as mistress's not free talk about hikes.. a lot of them told me they dont care what i do .. as long as i give them money now thats over 90 percent of the dominant women i ahve talked to on here. thats just reality they are looking only for money thats why they are mistress's i cant tell u enough almost everytime they want tribute RIGHT AWAY.. before talk.. thats reality.. money before attention or talk.. i appreciate your help thank u..

HannahLynHeather -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 2:04:13 PM)
quote: i only want a domiant women..mistress for sessions. im not gonna marry a mistress.. just for sessions.. get involved in your local bdsm community. go to munchs and demos and such and meet people. hannah lynn <holy shit i can't believe i just told somebody to do that and actually meant it!!>

tazzygirl -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 2:05:01 PM)
John, that was wonderful! And should be in your profile, minus the last paragraph, that part is too negative. As far as paying, unless that is your kink to be financially dominated, pass those women by. The female Dominants I know dont do that. Im sorry that you have talked to the worse of the women on collarme... that isnt all of them. It takes time to find a woman who you are truly comfortable with, who you desire and who desires you. Give it time, it will happen.

john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/23/2011 2:12:21 PM)
i sing over a thousand songs not many can do that i karaoke host and sing everyweek i perform for peole everyweek and yout right there our times i can't think with my cock.. i have to work i appreaciate you and what u have to say.. i really do but im only wanting a domme for sessions not 24/7 so why should she care what i do as long as i pay her? just asking you thanks so much

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