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ResidentSadist -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 3:38:01 PM)

I have tried
my best given
but can't follow
the OP's meanings

perhaps the rhythm
or the structure
painfully strikes me
my eyes hurt
my brain throbs

I want more
or I'll scream
need whole sentences
I'm turning blue
reading this haiku




sunshinemiss -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 3:43:33 PM)

I think he and Kevin could become good friends.




john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 3:59:55 PM)

well thats not my journal
the criticism was that i put it in my journal
which i did not..




john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 4:01:06 PM)

oh boyyy




LadyTeazer -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 4:13:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001

many mistressess are so testy
about me calling them mistress..
i can them mistress
because thats what they
are










NO, NO, NO, NO, NO !!!!!!!!!

A dominant woman is not automatically a "mistress"!!

I, for one, will not tolerate or allow a male to address Me with that title, as I do not like it.

Many, many years ago, a dominant woman corrected a sub male who automatically addressed her as "Mistress" by saying that "...a mistress is the girl that your husband is f*cking. So do not call Me mistress!" I liked what she said, and I agreed with it. Even though that is the vanilla definition, and we here are in the BDSM world, I still agreed with it.

I know that many of the ladies here have no problem with being called Mistress, and insist on it. And if it works for them, that's fine. I am saying that not all dominant women care for that title. So be safe, and address us as "Ma'am", until such time as you are instructed to do otherwise.





john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 4:29:29 PM)

yes
this is why i said people
on here our testy about
because people on here
get angry about things
that really are not that important..

ok
but thats why i thought it wasn't a problem
because over 90 or more percent of dommes
love being called that..
mistress..
or princess..
or goddess..

i have yet to see a domme
on her headline profile
say im ma'am...
its mistress
goddess
or princess..
or lady something...

ok

why does everybody make this lifestyle complicated
it really isnt..

sure ok
but ma'm makes u sound older
than mistress.
heck i called my grandmother ma'am
but ok.
i know a lot of dommes dont like ma'am
it is a term for old women..
at least thats what my mother always said
she said im not a ma'am
im young not old..




john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 4:33:41 PM)

ok




Delilya -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 4:51:46 PM)

best of luck




hausboy -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 7:30:40 PM)

john:
I've met a number of friends on this board, and managed to only piss off a small number of other people.  I'm going to give you some advice:

1. Stop calling the women "mistress".  Don't say it again. Just stop it.

2. Don't type all in caps.  If you want to emphasize your point, use the underline or bold feature--typing all in CAPS denotes yelling. And while you're at it, the text speak (ur, im all lower case) just makes you appear to be a juvenile, not an adult.  Most here want a mature adult.

3. Please stop typing like you're writing haiku poetry.  Just type in sentences, and after a few sentences then start a new paragraph.

4. When responding to someone, it is helpful to use that "quote" feature...  after you see the last [QUOTE}, you can type your reply. Use the "preview" feature to make sure that it looks right.

5. It's okay to be new. everyone was new once.  And most made mistakes and faux pas when they were new.  It's only a problem if you keep repeating the same mistake.

6. Listen to the folks here--change/add to your profile so that it makes you more like a human being and less like a wanker.  You have some interesting things about you (the karaoke for example) so use that in your profile.  If you are serious about being with a Domme 24/7, they will want to get to know you as a person first, submissive second.

7. Get a thick skin.  This is the internet. Everyone is an expert from their armchair.  If you are going to get upset any time someone responds to you and you don't want to hear their opinion, you won't last long.

8.  This is is big--you don't want to go to munches, but you want to marry a Domme.  Guess where the Dommes are, john? At munches. Many of them. I go to a munch (dinner) once a month at a local restaurant for submissive men and Female Dommes.  And guess what we do when we don't go to dinner?  We go to a FemDom party where guess what we do, john.... the men serve the Dommes!  yes, true.  And who knows? That special Domme may be perusing the boys there looking for "one."

Seriously--read this carefully. listen to the advice you've been given.  finding friends on CollarMe is easy peasy.  Finding play partners is a bit more difficult, but do-able.  Finding the one for life--not impossible--others have done it--it just takes time, patience and a bit of luck.

Good luck, john.




NocturnalStalker -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 7:40:04 PM)

This topic reeks of hypocrisy.




john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 7:55:34 PM)

i already cut my journal down
to hardly nothing...
its very short and too the point
about me..


and i would appreciate it
to not tell me how to type
or what to say

this is a free forum.
and ill post anyway
i want..
if you dont like it
you dont have to read it
i was told that
already on here..
and im telling u now..


and most dommes
want to be called
mistress on here..
or princess
or goddess
or lady something
or madam..

i have e mailed
many dommes on here
and i call them mistress
and out of over 100
just one objected..
so your wrong about that..
so i dont know what the heck
your talking about..

im submissive to women
but men ill tell off if
i have to

im not submissive to them
at all.

you act like this
is not an adult
website..

lets not be children here
where we have to
be ever so careful
what we say

what are we
babies?

many people on here are thin skinned
i have seen it with this thread..

im not 3 years old here.
lets be mature
and not little children please..

i find it amazing that people
on here are going to tell me
how i should type and
tell me what to say
IN MY OWN JOURNAL..

i dont do that to
anyone on here..
so dont do it to me

if people dont like my journal
they dont have to read it
but i did cut it down immensley
since my language is too strong
for people on here



typing in caps
can also mean i just
didnt feel like typing in small
letters and im still calm

that is the case with me..

you dont have a thick skin
cuz your bothered by every little
thing i do on here..
i'm not..

dommes are on here also?
didnt you know ? lol

i find that people who always
find fault with someone
like me on here
are not friends..
and friends are not easy
to find on here
it's what i have experienced..
im ready to cancel my account
and find another site
like this where the people are
more friendly..

and maybe you never read my journal
before i cut it down
but my karaoke experience
was always in my journal
so again you dont know what ur talking
about

thanks for the advice
but its a zero to me..
take care







BonesFromAsh -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:04:24 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001
thanks for the advice
but its a zero to me..
take care


That right there is why you're going to have a difficult time finding what you seek. You've shot down a individual (one of many) who gave you some fantastic advice and in a very friendly manner. You chose to respond in a very silly way, much like a young child stamping his foot while yelling "you're not the boss of me!"
This shows you're lack of common sense, maturity and basic etiquette.

May you find what you so richly deserve.




john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:09:51 PM)

i didnt shoot him down
i just pointed out his
errors..
thanks for his effort

but i have a question?

why is he so concerned
about my journal
when im not trying
to reach him through it ?

i dont concern my self with other
peoples journals if
im not interested
and im sure other people
on here do the same..

just a question to ponder..

man i'm really unpopular here..
your another one attacking me lol
im laughing about it
not angry..

well take care




poise -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:10:07 PM)

Dear dear john. If only you had listened and acted upon some of the advice here,
you could very well be talking to that special lady right now, instead of creating such
a frenzy that your thread is now up to 110 posts.

Do you know that any woman that may be interested in you only has to click on
View Forum Posts to find all of the posts you have made here? Good luck. [:-]




hausboy -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:12:29 PM)

john,
I say this in the most loving, kind, nurturing way I know how.....and know that the mods will likely deliver a gold bordered CMail to my box, but it's worth every letter. I'm sorry, mods. I just can't stop myself.

john--you are a complete and utter toolbox if you choose not to take the advice of those of us who *are* experienced, have lived in this lifestyle and community for a long time, and get plenty of action on a regular basis.  you've got good advice from a bunch of folks and you continue to ignore it.

But go ahead. Keep doing what you're doing. You make the rest of us look like brain surgeons.
good fucking grief. 

well, you're in luck. I happen to love Haiku   Here's one for you: (yes, folks, it's in 5-7-5)

poor little john
wants only to serve his Domme
listens to no one

types with his winkie
"mistress please take me mistress"
such a big toolbox




hausboy -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:18:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001

i didnt shoot him down
i just pointed out his
errors..
thanks for his effort

but i have a question?

why is he so concerned
about my journal
when im not trying
to reach him through it ?

i dont concern my self with other
peoples journals if
im not interested
and im sure other people
on here do the same..



Did you not read the mod post?  Anyone can post here. anyone. I haven't read your journals--I read your introduction. Isn't that why you posted it?  so people could read it?  If you don't want people to respond to you, then CMail them directly (oh heaven forbid) and don't put it on the forum.  

Either this is your first time on a forum like this or you have some serious cognitive problem. And I'm not sure you pointed out any errors--I was sharing some tips.  You choose to ignore them--your choice.  Why do I care? I'm trying to *help* you, john.....but it's like watching a train derailment in slow motion.







john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:20:20 PM)

i listen to your advice
and others..
i really do..

But i dont have to
act on it..
Thats up to me
not you sorry..

I have acted on it
i cut my journal down
to almost nothing.
and its to the point..

and still people
are not happy lol


and if you want to make
friends on here
respect what other
people are saying ..
i do..

i respect their opinion
but i dont have to act
or agree with it
try it sometime
it will get u friends..


i appreciate what you
said..
i justs dont agree with it

i felt that the last person
who gave me advice
was more preaching to me
than giving me friendly
advice..
just my feeling..


take care
have a nice night




john1001 -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:27:59 PM)

with all due respect
your in the very tiny minority

with what i have seen on here
almost all the dominant women
have no problem with it at all.

Over 100 dommes
i have emailed ..
and only one objected..

im sorry but those
are the facts
i have experienced..

respectfully yours





LadyTeazer -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:32:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh


quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001
thanks for the advice
but its a zero to me..
take care


That right there is why you're going to have a difficult time finding what you seek. You've shot down a individual (one of many) who gave you some fantastic advice and in a very friendly manner. You chose to respond in a very silly way, much like a young child stamping his foot while yelling "you're not the boss of me!"
This shows you're lack of common sense, maturity and basic etiquette.

May you find what you so richly deserve.




Hmmmm..... for some reason, My comments did not show up. Ah well, our fine boy john would not have comprehended what I said anyway.

"take care
and have
a nice
night"

"oh, and i
respect you"




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: need badly women..mistress domination (4/24/2011 8:35:13 PM)

Hovercraft full of eels.
 
Just sayin.




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