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GreedyTop -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 12:35:10 PM)

personally, I read.  a good book followed by time spent face to face with good people works for me.  YMMV




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 12:35:43 PM)

To be fair, PeonForHer had a great point.  If a man has to work out his abdominals, so should the woman.  If you ask me, a taut stomach on a female is delicious.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 1:37:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Exercise. Use those muscles. Femdoms are a bit on the lazy side, from what I've seen. Pump some iron and get those endorphins moving!

Exercise is bad for you. Baaaaad for you. I'z lazy and proud of it! (Too lazy to even use proper grammar [8D])




GreedyTop -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 1:52:00 PM)

I bet tacklehugs give you teh right kind of work out~!




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 2:45:20 PM)

That's a workout I can get behind! Or on top of. Or underneath. Or something.

[8D][8D][:D][:D]




Tantriqu -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 2:51:55 PM)

A small amount of superb chocolate, a nature hike, phone-a-friend and try to make them laugh, doing things to a lovely man, or if ALM not available, Hitachi to the rescue! [I should paint a pre-raphaelite Lady-of-the-Lake with a wand rather than a sword . . . ]




CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 2:56:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressK2011

I know Dommes/Doms get mopey. Because I am at the moment. What helps pull you out of a funk?

-K


For the past week or so, I have been mopey.  I know exactly where it is coming from and have to sit this out until it runs it's course.  In the meantime, I have gone on hiatus and am here just for friends and to read these message boards. 

As RedMagic1 recommends, find something you have been putting off.  Gah, I am sorting through my mountains and tubs full of fabrics, separating them into new tubs I just bought (see through ones) so that the fabric for each quilt I have been planning is easy to find.  I plan to be doing quilting this summer and fall at my outside table, beginning with an HP one I put away and had stopped working on when an old, favorite table I had been working on broke.

I will start knitting fancy hats again soon to donate at an oncologist's office, there is weed pulling in my garden to do, clearing up my mint patch, planting my veggie garden starting with three types of onions, doing some painting (white paint on walls, extremely boring work), and some minor repairs around the house. 

Basically I get out of the house more often, get more exercize, stay busy, do things that will make me feel like I accomplished something, watch comedies rather than dramas, read "how to" books or sci-fi, avoid listening to sad music, pet my furbabies more often and do things that will make me smile or laugh.




CreepyStalker -> RE: Mopey (5/2/2011 4:34:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Exercise. Use those muscles. Femdoms are a bit on the lazy side, from what I've seen. Pump some iron and get those endorphins moving!

Exercise is bad for you. Baaaaad for you. I'z lazy and proud of it! (Too lazy to even use proper grammar [8D])



It is indeed; the internet says so...

http://www.cracked.com/article_19186_the-5-most-terrifying-side-effects-exercise.html




SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Mopey (5/3/2011 12:15:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: MistressK2011
I know Dommes/Doms get mopey. Because I am at the moment. What helps pull you out of a funk?
-K
Exercise. Use those muscles. Femdoms are a bit on the lazy side, from what I've seen. Pump some iron and get those endorphins moving!
How many fem Dommes have you seen/lived with/dated?
Okay, I am lazy about things I don't want to do. However, I'd challenge you to a duel in walking a big shopping center any day. for as many hours as you'd like! No food needed in between.

As to what gets me out of a funk? Usually, a new, sunny day... This
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AneNozInflicting pain upon my Beloveds followed by extended periods of receiving oral pleasuring is usually effective.
has also worked, once or twice. [:)]

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NocturnalStalker
If a man has to work out his abdominals, so should the woman. If you ask me, a taut stomach on a female is delicious.
You are again, showing your youth, by focusing on the wrong muscles, close to where you ought to find "delicious" delights to be eaten. On a man, if I were to choose an important set of muscles, the abdominals would not be it/them. M




Awareness -> RE: Mopey (5/3/2011 5:20:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia
I will start knitting fancy hats again
  For some reason the phrase "fancy hats" has me in hysterics.  I cannot recall ever encountering it before.




Ambyant -> RE: Mopey (5/3/2011 12:08:29 PM)

Get some real sunshine - nearly spring?
and I get happy when it's play time, with a favoured subject!
Always the best Diva~Zya




NiceGuyNihilist -> RE: Mopey (5/3/2011 1:26:02 PM)

Deleted my smartass response. If I'd realized I was addressing the same woman who asked for cheering-up ideas in the first place, I wouldn't have made it.

Have you ever read P.G. Wodehouse, Ma'am? If you like British wit, you'll never do any better. Try "The Tabby Terror" for starters: http://www.readbookonline.net/readOnLine/1568/




SnowRanger -> RE: Mopey (5/3/2011 1:48:36 PM)

I was feeling a bit mopey today; so, I went to the public sooting range! :-D




MistressK2011 -> RE: Mopey (5/4/2011 10:46:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceGuyNihilist

Deleted my smartass response. If I'd realized I was addressing the same woman who asked for cheering-up ideas in the first place, I wouldn't have made it.

Have you ever read P.G. Wodehouse, Ma'am? If you like British wit, you'll never do any better. Try "The Tabby Terror" for starters: http://www.readbookonline.net/readOnLine/1568/


Yes I have, thank you. ;-) It's nice to get all of the suggestions. In fact my mopey usually only lasts a couple of hours or an evening, and has not returned since - perhaps reading about how I will defeat it has scared it away forever? lol

-K




MissImmortalPain -> RE: Mopey (5/5/2011 8:28:55 AM)

I had a very mopey moment yesterday and remembered that in my list of things I forgot something. Karaoke. Which I did last night to this song http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhQWND9jKDA&NR=1 The song makes me want to cry and at the same times rebuilds my faith in my own gender in an amazing way. So if you sing like pavarotti or crack glass when you try I suggest doing it any time you can. Singing has a magic to it that can make us feel better even when we don't want to.

*side note* Last night I dedicated that song to all of the women that I know. So now I'm going to wander off and sing it again. Dedicated this time to all of the very wonderfull ladies here.




LadyPact -> RE: Mopey (5/5/2011 8:56:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Exercise. Use those muscles. Femdoms are a bit on the lazy side, from what I've seen. Pump some iron and get those endorphins moving!

Actually, that's the additional benefit of topping if you're talking about impact play, primal play, or take down scenes.  A good twenty minutes of florentine flogging will get your blood moving, even if you're just using lightweight floggers.  Much different than physically passive types of play, such as needles, fire, wax, electricity, and others.  




GreedyTop -> RE: Mopey (5/5/2011 9:02:41 AM)

*puddles*

I adore LadyP




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