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Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 10:17:07 AM   
BlueSphinx


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Status: offline 		As a sub I have desired to submit to the humiliation and objectification of a Mistress' smelly feet as her footstool and footrest for as long as I can remember. With the Mistress' I have been privileged to serve, few seemed to comprehend the absolute, unequivocal power of the smell of their feet.  One was good enough , in a casual aside, to explain to me: "Women fundamentally want to project themselves as very, very clean.  Smelly feet are counterintutive to them."  To the Mistresses who may wish to respond to this, would you agree?  Thank you for considering a response.
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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 10:49:18 AM   
Proprietrix


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ORIGINAL: BlueSphinx
One was good enough , in a casual aside, to explain to me: "Women fundamentally want to project themselves as very, very clean.  Smelly feet are counterintutive to them."  To the Mistresses who may wish to respond to this, would you agree? 


I wouldn't so much agree with the statement that women want to project themselves as clean, as people prefer to have good hygiene. (At least the people I hang out with.)
I'm curious... why would you want a Mistress who doesn't practice good hygiene?

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 11:09:00 AM   
BlueSphinx


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I'm curious... why would you want a Mistress who doesn't practice good hygiene?


I actually appreciate and admire a Mistress who is both hygienic and well-turned out.  I think it's possible (desirable?) for a Mistress to both be well-groomed and clean and have me peel off a pair of her favorite well-worn shoes she's worn for hours and use my face as a footrest while she uses the computer, watches TV, reads, naps, dines on a meal I prepared for her, and so forth. Thanks for your response -- and your question. 

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 11:46:55 AM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		I don't want my feet to smell and take measures to ensure that they don't.  I would be turned off if a male *wanted* to serve feet that were 'smelly'.  Aside from that, perhaps it's not that the Mistresses  are insecure about foot scent, but do not wish to be reduced to nothing more than a smelly foot by the slave/sub they keep.  I would prefer a submissive to find me powerful (all of me) and not find power in the aroma of my feet.

Edited to add:  I agree, there can be power in stinky feet... like a humiliation tool. But I think the power is only granted to the Dominant if she using it as a method of humiliation or if it's just something she enjoys.  The power/control decreases quite a bit when she sits down, has no real desire to do so, removes her sneakers and   rewards her eagerly awaiting footslave.

< Message edited by MistressLorelei -- 5/10/2006 12:00:34 PM >

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 11:57:16 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I suppose it is because most women take such particular pains to not be smelly and sweaty and so on that it becomes fetish for some people (like how many times have we heard fartsniffing, girls?). 

Yet no one comments (other than perhaps a silent, rueful and meaningful laugh) when women wear their mens shirt because they like the smell or like the smell of sweaty men. 

It all comes out in the wash; n'est ce pas?

Ron

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 12:07:09 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		I think that Ron, Our honorary Mistress, has hit the nail on the head.  Thank you.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 3:04:53 PM   
MistressLorelei


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

I think that Ron, Our honorary Mistress, has hit the nail on the head.  Thank you.


The honorary Mistress who likely has smellier feet than the rest of us....  sounds like a footslave's dream come true! 

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/10/2006 4:32:43 PM   
Mistrix


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Status: offline 		I just absolutly LOVE foot worship and right down to the heel massages.  BUT I am a super clean woman and wouldn't feel COMFY if my subbie wanted to smell my stinky feet.  I would want it to be enjoyable for me and if my feet stinked after working in them all day well, I would feel repulsed.  That is just my two cents.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/11/2006 3:55:48 AM   
MadameDahlia


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Status: offline 		For many people... both men and women... health is determined in a multitude of ways -and- good hygiene is one of the many methods. Someone who wallows in filth and allows excrement to pile up to the ceilings is probably not going to be the healthiest person.

While that's an extreme example so are biological and instinctual drives. And in some ways the instinct to be clean (or at least to smell appealing) is downright primal.

You see non-human primates grooming frequently. Part of the reason is to strengthen social bonds amidst the various members of the group. But the cleanliness is also a sign of health. Non-human primates seem to pick mates who will instinctually care for their offspring well - thus ensuring that the species continues to be a biological success.

The analogy aside... it's a societal norm to view "clean" as good and "stink" as bad. From the time we are very small we're taught to use toilet paper after we're done with business, wash our hands when we're finished cleaning up, wash our hands before dinner, take a shower or a bath after playing hard or working out.

Any odor that is viewed as being "gross" is immediately also labeled "bad" We're urged to use deodorants, perfumes, soap. We're taught that smelling off or "gross" makes us "bad". There's probably not a huge percent of the population that would deliberately sit next to the guy wearing three coats, a stained, yellowed t-shirt under them all, gloves with holes in them and the dirty looking 'beanie' on his head while riding the bus.

In perhaps the blink of an eye many people will make snap judgements. He looks that way because he's homeless. Judgement one. If he's homeless he probably never bathes. Judgement two. If he doesn't bathe he's apt to smell horrible, dirty... gross. Judgement three. And in the blink of an eye we sit next to the little old lady, who smells a bit like talc and maybe just a hint of her husband's aftershave. A majority of people would even sit next to the woman holding the screaming baby - just so long as it meant that they didn't have to sit in proximity to the apparently homeless, quite possibly smelly man.

Of course other things factor into that equation. Some might not sit next to him because they think he might be high or crazy. They think he might be dangerous. But all of those terms are made easier to think about with how he looks. The judgement keeps coming in waves. He's homeless because he's crazy. He can't keep a job. Or maybe he's crazy because he's homeless - doing any drug he can get his hands on. But all of that falls to the wayside. The immediate reaction is to his state of dress... his lack of care... his lack of cleanliness. Everything else comes from and sits upon that foundation.

Because of social conditioning most people are repulsed by "gross" smells. And if they've got little or no interest in smelling someone else who smells offensive they'd obviously strive to be the least offensive they can be by bathing, brushing their teeth, etc. I suspect that not many people (especially girls who are brought up to be cute... to smell nice... to always look presentable unless playing sports or doing work that expressly requires sweat and grime) find it arousing to smell like they've just left the gym... or we'd probably all be quite a bit more odiferous.


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RE: Foot Domination - 5/11/2006 4:48:40 AM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		Foot domination may be one of the favorite and balanced fetishes there is.  From the Mistress side, you can use it as a form of punishment, education or as a reward system. A good massage can bring a level of peace to anyones active day. Not to mention with the warmer days apon us, open toed shoes and sandels will create a need for well  groomed  feet . Not to say they are kept in poor condition otherwise.

From the subs postion, they get the strength and beauty of the womans leg ankle and foot to admire from a differnt  and lower view.  The scent of leather enclosed foot as its removed after a hard day of work still lingers with a scent. The giving of a pedicure for the more experienced and the truly gifted  subs who understand pressure points on a foot ,can almost put a mistress into a bliss they can not receive on their own.  Watching a womans face  from beneath as you hit the right locations on their foot, can really give a sub a form of connection with a dom. In fact , I have know sopme woman , that have claimed a very , very  good  foot massage can be as good as sex, except it can last so much longer..

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/11/2006 2:18:42 PM   
teazchaz


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Status: offline 		for a guy with a foot fetish, the power of the female foot is difficult to explain or for others to understand, in fact us foot lovers probably don't even understand it ourselves. But in my case, it isn't a stinky or sweaty foot that appeals, but rather a lady's barefeet after she has been walking around barefoot all day, and they are naturally dirty and dusty. The desire to be made to worship the barefeet of lady that are naturally dirty is really strong for me. It makes me feel so submissive to imagine a lady using me to clean her dirty feet like that. Would most of you find that also repulsive, or is that any more appealing to you than having a guy worship feet that are dirty and stinky?

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/12/2006 7:11:37 AM   
Proprietrix


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ORIGINAL: teazchaz
But in my case, it isn't a stinky or sweaty foot that appeals, but rather a lady's barefeet after she has been walking around barefoot all day, and they are naturally dirty and dusty. The desire to be made to worship the barefeet of lady that are naturally dirty is really strong for me. It makes me feel so submissive to imagine a lady using me to clean her dirty feet like that. Would most of you find that also repulsive, or is that any more appealing to you than having a guy worship feet that are dirty and stinky?


As one of those ladies who runs around barefoot almost all the time, I know what you're talking about when you refer to a dirty foot that isn't smelly or sweaty.
I, however, would not prefer to have my feet worshipped while in that "end of the day" condition. Not because I find it repulsive, but because it isn't as relaxing.
I think we all know the relaxing power of a soak in a hot bubbly bath. The same applies to the feet. I actually prefer to have my feet washed and bathed, soaped up, rinsed off, dried on a big fluffy towel, pampered with warm lotion, and then worshipped. All of this makes my feet feel relaxed, and more sensitive to the touch.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/12/2006 11:39:38 AM   
4u2spoil


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Status: offline 		I am a dominant woman, but can enjoy foot worship (boy do I enjoy it) outside of  a D/s context. I've had my feet worshipped by several men, some of whom like smelly feet. I enjoy pampering my feet and keeping them very soft and clean. But for the occasions when I have a smelly foot lover I just walk around in gym shoes without socks for a few hours. My feet aren't necessarily dirty, but they have a stronger scent and are still soft.

I'm not bothered by scent, but I don't like having dirty feet just because it feels gross. I have had food (like ice cream) licked from my feet. It was fun, but 5 minutes later I couldn't stand the feeling of having sticky feet. I'd imagine dirt or other substances wouldn't be too much more comfortable.

Maybe it is just being a woman, but when I'm having my feet worshipped by someone serving me, I usually rinse them off first. I've had my feet worshipped straight out of shoes, and I didn't find it repulsive, but I wasn't comfortable with it the first time.

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ORIGINAL: BlueSphinx

As a sub I have desired to submit to the humiliation and objectification of a Mistress' smelly feet as her footstool and footrest for as long as I can remember. With the Mistress' I have been privileged to serve, few seemed to comprehend the absolute, unequivocal power of the smell of their feet.  One was good enough , in a casual aside, to explain to me: "Women fundamentally want to project themselves as very, very clean.  Smelly feet are counterintutive to them."  To the Mistresses who may wish to respond to this, would you agree?  Thank you for considering a response.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/12/2006 4:57:12 PM   
Misstoyou


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Status: offline 		A submissive will have to be satisfied with the enjoyment (or not) of a brief whiff of the "aroma" of my feet immediately before he bathes them in anticipation of foot worship.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/14/2006 2:18:30 PM   
BlueSphinx


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the various insights.  It seems that among the Dominas that there is a division of opinion, for the most part, on the originating question.  What strikes me is that the opinions of those not in favor of using their smelly feet appear to be especially strong.  Hmmmmmm.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/16/2006 11:15:22 PM   
MsSophie


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Status: offline 		It doesn't actually bother me to have someone worshipping my feet after a day in hiking boots as long as they don't start slobbering all over my feet with tongue and saliva. Then again, it bothers me equally if they do that when my feet are straight out of the tub.

Fact is, I have a relaxed attitude to my body and it's functions after years of being slightly hysterical about it. I shower every morning before going to the office, or before going out to parties. If I am just going to stay at home my skin enjoys a rest. I don't use regular soap anymore and, since I developed a nasty rash from it, only use antiperspirant if I know I am about to participate in some kind of activity which is bound to cause excess sweating. Do I go around in a cloud of flies? Does dogs follow me down the street? Not at all! I don't smell, neither of sweat nor of synthetic substances.

So, should someone ask me for "out of shoe" foot worship - fair enough! Just don't slobber!

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/17/2006 9:24:48 AM   
teazchaz


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Status: offline 		I also appreciate the responses on this topic. It's too bad that Doms are typically uncomfortable with having a guy worship their feet when they are dirty. For some footlovers that involves sweaty stinky feet, for me, just feet that are naturally dirty from going barefoot without the funky shoe and sock odor.

Do you have any recommendations about how a foot freak like me can find someone who enjoys or is at least entertained/amused by having a footslave worship her dirty feet, and of course perform other useful services for her that she may desire?

Thanks much for the help.

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RE: Foot Domination - 5/31/2006 4:41:57 AM   
malakas


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Status: offline 		My fetish is smelling and worshipping a woman's sweaty, smelly feet - the nastier the better. More than the humiliation aspect, the smell and taste get me off.

I have worshipped many, many feet - easily more than 100 (pairs).  I have been a regular at the Footworship Palace in Manhattan for several years.  I have had many private foot worship sessions and I have attended many foot worship parties there.  I book sessions in advance only with women capable of having smelly feet (some women just can't get their feet to smell), and I arrange for the woman to do the necessary to have her feet as smelly as possible for the session (not showering that day; walking around the hot city in old sneakers without socks, etc.)  I have yet to reach my limit of stench.  I'm talking after a weekend hiking without showering, after a marathon, etc.

But they cannot be any smelly feet.  Foot fetishists have specific preferences as to the type of foot.  My preference is for a large, narrow foot with long, flexible toes and defined toenails.  A small foot with stubby toes does nothing for me.

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