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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 7:01:25 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: imyourmasternow
yeah, i do want to point out i am not looking for anyone that is a child or whatever.


I have to point out that your questions are so immature, that you appear much younger than the age on your profile. Are you sure you aren't a child? Because my 18 year old is a lot more mature than you.


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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 7:16:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Believe it or not, being there first won't necessarily make it a lasting impression, nor will it insure you a place in her heart... on the other hand, being there last will mean you will be on their mind for the rest of their life...


Lovely sentiment.


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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 7:21:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Haha, these are some funny replies. First off, yeah, I don't want some child. Second, I'm not the type for 1 night stands. But mostly this was an idea or thought, and while YOUR first time may not have ment anything to you, I know many girls where it means a lot. And no, I don't want the girl to look back at me with hate. I love how people assume I just want to fuck her so I can tell all the other school boys I took her virginity. It's not so I can go around telling people how awesome I am. What you are forgetting is sex is power... but some power doesn't have to be evil. And for the other half, the idea that she needs to fuck other guys so she can appreciate me, or learn about herself is her own failings as a person. And I can see many of you are failing to understand or master yourselves (I know some are subs or slaves, but you know what I mean... I hope). Anyways, as with all many ideas I was curious. But it seems all there are here are fools in kings clothing. My first gf wasn't a virgin, or my second, or any other after that. I didn't care then, and I'm not going to let it determine my happieness in the future. But if it interests me then I see no reason to ask, and see if anyone is interested.

P.S. For those of you who question my maturity due to age then I think you need to reevaluate your level of maturity. People are not wise in proprtion to their experience... they are wise in proportion to their capacity for experience. I have lived in many countries, seen many things, and have done more in my 22 years than many will do in their life. I do not think my self special, or god like. But I have done something most people will never do, and that is accept myself as human. Wisdom is wisdom. Who speaks it does not matter.

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 7:23:44 PM   
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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 7:43:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is full of contradictions. You say in the OP that you want a girl as young as possible, then you say you don't want a child. You are 22 and say in your profile you've been doing 'this' for a long time. You say what you want is on the extreme end of things but it's really every redneck's dream to get a young inexperienced girl to raise up and be theirs so she doesn't have any one else to compare their ineptness to - that's like the most common thing on the block, lifestyle or not. You are a writer but you don't go back and check your work.

It's a bit unrealistic to think that any virgin wants to get rid of her virginity so badly that she'll just PM a guy off the internet and go get deflowered. Oh, but you want a slave relationship to come out of this too...
Honestly the whole thing really shows how young you are. Just go out and have fun with whatever without trying to make yourself out to be more than you are (the long experience thing) and you might grow into being Dominant someday.

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 7:57:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Fella, to me you lack self confidence.

You want a woman who is young and inexperienced, so she will think you're a sexual wizard.  You want a foreign girl that can barely speak English so she'll be dependent on you.

Try this.  Picture yourself with a woman who could have dozens of men, but chose YOU.  In other words, competing against other men, and winning.


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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 8:16:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		lol If you want her to stay with you, should you ever find someone thats a virgin or very close to that, you had better give her several orgasms each time or she will wonder what its like with other, older, more experienced men. If she doesnt get that, she will not stay with you forever, probably not that long actually, before she starts to do more than just wonder what other men have to offer her. She will eventually find out for herself. I dont think very many "firsts" work out very well for most women so they have no reason to stay.

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 8:38:58 PM   
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What you are forgetting is sex is power


There is your first mistake... sex can be many things, for YOU it is power. For other people it is an expression of love. For still others it is all about lust. For all of us sex has one universal meaning, and that is it is creative energy, energy that creates new life.


quote:

P.S. For those of you who question my maturity due to age then I think you need to reevaluate your level of maturity. People are not wise in proprtion to their experience... they are wise in proportion to their capacity for experience. I have lived in many countries, seen many things, and have done more in my 22 years than many will do in their life. I do not think my self special, or god like. But I have done something most people will never do, and that is accept myself as human. Wisdom is wisdom. Who speaks it does not matter.


I have met many mature young people, you do not read like a very mature young person....

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 8:48:13 PM   
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Ive never had a virgin
Fuck, you've got to be kidding!!! Guess you didn't get any action in high school then eh?

Actually dude, I've had a few virgins since then, and they are more trouble than they are worth. Give me a woman who's already figured out what to do with what God gave her any day of the week.

And actually entertaining the idea of taking some 'nilla virgin and "training her to be my ultimate slave and whose only purpose is to serve me" shows a profound lack of understanding of young women these days (not to mention grammar...note the spelling writer-dude). I know a ton of them, and they'd chew you up and spit you out so fast you wouldn't know what hit you.


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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 8:58:52 PM   
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I have lived in many countries, seen many things, and have done more in my 22 years than many will do in their life.
LOL, You really don't want to go there, trust me!



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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 10:44:53 PM   
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RE: Virgin and power - 4/29/2011 10:56:00 PM   
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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 7:28:52 AM   
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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 8:12:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: imyourmasternow

Alright, so I've been curious about something for a little now. I've been dom for as long as i can remember. I've been naturally dom since the beginning. and I always love ways to have some power over the sub. Ive never had a virgin but this is something ive really been thinking about lately. People always put so much emphisis on virginity. And that girls will never forget the man they lose it too. And from what it sounds like is that the person that the girl loses it to will have a power over her no one else will ever have ever. So I really have been interested in finding a virgin. But i know that many girls dont want to let people know that they are virgins because i know many guys dont like them. I just love the idea of getting a girl as young as possible, and with zero experience and training her to be my ultimate slave and whose only purpose is to serve me, and thats all she has ever known. So i was just wondering if anybody out there is like that, or if they know someone like that. i know this is on the extreme end of things but thats what i love. the extreme end of this stuff. Plus there is more info on my profile. pm me if this is you.


I am going to answer your post seriously and there will be no insults.

If you perceive any then it is likely in your perception.

My first doesn't count: it was non consentual.
So the guy I think of as my first?
The sex was horrible.
I just wanted to do it with someone I trusted...and kind of get it out of the way.
There was no magic in it.

I am almost 49 years old.

Going to the bolded part above you don't necessarily need someone with no experience.
You don't need someone as young as possible.

What you need is someone who has the desire to want to serve you because there is a specificity, a specialness in serving you.

The person who has the power over me that no one has never ever had, is my Master.
I met him here over 2 years ago.
I may have some sexual experience but that doesn't mean he can't explore the depths of my desires with me.
And He does.
And it is amazing.

I know you see yourself as somekind of wunderkind-uberdom... and no that is not an insult.

There is no insult in being young and a bit cocky, but while this may have been a part of you for as long as you can remember, it does not change the fact that you are 22 years old and have your whole life ahead of you and at this point, even though you may not have an awareness of it (because many people your age don't) what you do know pales in comparison to what you don't.
What you have experienced is small compared to what you haven't, and that is perfectly ok.

You are not less than for being who you are, and you need not try to be someone who has 50 years of experience when you are just a young adult who wants it ALL now.
All isn't going to happen any time soon.

My greatest joys with my Master come from being present in each moment, and if I were to try to rush to get to the next one, I would miss them all.

My suggestion: go find some TNG groups and munches.

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 8:20:10 AM   
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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 8:21:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would much rather be the...ahem...experienced woman that I am than the virgin I was. As the man said to me..."he looked at you that way because he could tell you are a good f*ck"

To the OP, a fantasy is a fantasy is a fantasy...sometimes they are left better that way in your mind than brought to reality. There are no warm fuzzy lights in reality.

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 8:26:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Putting 2 and 2 together, so basically a young virgin Russian girl would be your ultimate fantasy girl come true?

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 8:54:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

You might enjoy "Memoirs of a Geisha." Lots of ritual around deflowering. (I'm referring to the book; didn't see the movie.)


Chow.
Yun.
Fat.

Yum.

Yes, actually I thought the movie was really quite lovely and well represented the book.

To the OP:
The only gals that are really concerned about their first sexual experience are young women who haven't really lived much. The rest of us... What the hell was that guy's name? I can't remember. But the man who taught me trust and accepted my love? Forever. For. Ever.

Best,
sunshine


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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 9:31:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Putting 2 and 2 together, so basically a young virgin Russian girl would be your ultimate fantasy girl come true?


I hear they ship here in crates.

Mmmm human trafficking.

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RE: Virgin and power - 4/30/2011 10:41:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Every woman I have been with has been a virgin (maybe not vaginal sex virgin!!)... And everyone I will meet will, most likely, be a virgin at something ;)

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